Previously, Andy Lau rarely exposed a family video, which made people look forward to it.
In the video, the 6 1 year-old king is dressed in a gray household suit, holding a mop, barefoot, bent over and mopping the floor hard.
Although he is out of reach as an old artist on weekdays, Andy Lau's home side makes many netizens feel very cordial.
Many netizens bluntly said: Andy Lau's handsomeness is not only his appearance, but also his spirit and soul.
The outflow of the video also allowed netizens to witness the mansion of this king.
Although it is only a bedroom, it is spacious and has a wide view. From this hardware aspect alone, we can see the value of the house.
But look carefully at the decoration in the room, it seems that there are not too many luxurious objects, full of low-key feeling.
Some netizens even manually searched the bedding in Andy Lau's bedroom and found that the price of the bed in Tianwang's bedroom was only over 2,000 yuan, which was quite grounded compared with the luxury houses of other stars.
Another netizen even noticed that the mop used by Tianwang to mop the floor was only a few tens of yuan.
After these details were pulled out, they subverted the three views of many netizens: "It's too grounded. I always think that Tianwang is reaching for clothes to make a living."
Despite his frugal life, Andy Lau leads a high-level and wonderful life.
He works hard and every good work is an affirmation of his work. He is active and self-disciplined and strict with himself, not only to live a good figure, but also to live a healthy life; He loved life and devoted himself to his family.
As a public figure in the entertainment circle, he never obsesses about material desires, but only focuses on the life he really wants.
I remember Zhou once said: "As long as a person is willing to restrain his desires and be satisfied with living a relatively simple life, the territory of life will be broader."
I couldn't agree more.
Restrain unnecessary material desires, let life be less decorated and more ideal, and your life will be more exciting.
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Three suggestions to help you control your desires and have a high-level life.
① Balance desire with psychological account.
There is such an experiment:
Scene A: You are going to the theater to see a performance. Ticket price 100 yuan. When I arrived at the cinema, I found that I lost a bill of 100 yuan. Will you buy a ticket to the show?
Situation B: You are going to see a performance, and you paid 100 yuan for a ticket. When you arrived at the theatre, you found the ticket lost. If you want to see the performance, you have to spend another 100 yuan to buy a ticket. Will you buy a ticket?
The experimental results show that:
In Scenario A (loss of100 yuan), 88% of the respondents will choose to buy tickets, while 12% will choose not to buy them.
In scenario B (lost tickets), 46% of the respondents choose to buy tickets and 54% choose not to buy them.
This is the psychological account, which is a kind of virtual account that exists in people's minds. People will psychologically divide objectively equivalent expenses or benefits into different accounts.
Loss 100 yuan and loss of tickets are equivalent in objective value calculation. But in people's minds, they belong to different psychological accounts.
In life, we can make use of psychological accounts to make overall payments.
The principles of psychological account management are classified management, independent accounting, balanced development and mutual non-misappropriation except in special circumstances.
Every income we receive will be allocated to the corresponding account according to the principle of distribution.
In this way, we can avoid blind consumption according to habits or temporary preferences.
② Understand hyperbolic discount and fight against desire.
As we all know, chimpanzees' favorite food is bananas. So the researchers made a rule. He distributed a dried fruit to each chimpanzee.
If a chimpanzee can resist eating dried fruit for 20 minutes, he can exchange it for a banana.
Most of these chimpanzees lack patience and greedily eat the dried fruits in their hands. Only a few chimpanzees have been trying to control themselves.
Later, these restrained chimpanzees got great rewards and got bananas.
This is hyperbola discount, also called irrational discount, which describes people's discount decision, similar to hyperbola, meaning that most people would rather have a small amount of immediate reward than a large amount of future reward.
Most chimpanzees give up delicious bananas for the dried fruit in front of them; Only a few chimpanzees made rational decisions and finally got bananas.
Imagine, in real life:
Do you want to see a movie right away to get enough sensory stimulation, or do you want to practice calligraphy for three months in exchange for beautiful calligraphy?
Do you choose to watch a TV series immediately to entertain yourself, or would you rather watch a difficult book to get a collision of ideas?
It is the tendency of most people to indulge their desires and eat, drink and be merry in time. So hyperbolic discount is also very common.
③ Beware of ratchet effect and avoid being kidnapped by desire.
At the beginning of Shang Dynasty, when Zhou Wang ascended the throne, everyone thought that under the management of this shrewd monarch, the mountains and rivers of Shang Dynasty would be rock solid.
One day, Zhou Wang ordered a pair of ivory chopsticks, and he was very happy to eat with them.
His uncle saw it and advised him to collect it, but he didn't care, and Wu didn't think it was a very common thing.
Ji Zi was very worried about this. Some ministers inexplicably asked him why, and Ji Zi replied:
"Zhou Wang uses ivory as chopsticks, and he will never use clay pots to hold soup and rice again. He will definitely switch to a cup made of rhinoceros horn and a rice bowl made of jewelry;
With ivory chopsticks, rhinoceros horn cups and beautiful jade bowls, will you still use them to eat soup cooked with simple tea leaves and beans? From now on, wine and delicacies will be placed on the king's table;
What you eat is wine and delicacies. Naturally, you should wear fine silks and satins and live a prosperous life. You should also build pavilions for fun. I shudder at the consequences. "
In just five years, Ji Zi's prediction came true, and Shang Zhouwang porcelain was extravagant and extravagant, which ruined Shang Tang's 500-year history.
This is the ratchet effect, that is, people's consumption habits are irreversible after they are formed, that is, it is easy to adjust upwards and difficult to adjust downwards, especially in the short term.
Simply put, frugality is easy, but frugality is difficult.
This consumption habit is like a ratchet stuck in a ratchet, which can only turn in one direction, but it is difficult to turn around.
Ratchet effect comes from desire. If you can't limit your desire properly, you will be kidnapped by it.
Chen said to:
"I think moderation is the greatest enjoyment of life. It is easy to release matter and spirit, but difficult to control. Therefore, the highest artistic conception of being a man is moderation, not release. "
In many cases, moderation means reasonable control over yourself and a long-term and clear plan for the development of things.
Desire will always force us to want everything and let us do a lot of quick success and instant benefit.
However, a truly advanced life doesn't care whether you do the right thing at the right time, but control yourself not to do the wrong thing at the wrong time.
* * * Encourage.