I got off work at 22:00 the day before yesterday, 00:40 the day before yesterday and 00:20 yesterday for three consecutive days. I feel that I have a serious lack of sleep, and my whole head is confused during work, and I have used up all my energy during work. Look at the sky outside after work today. It's very blue. In the evening, the April sun shines on the earth, which is particularly warm. The traffic on the road is still heavy and pedestrians come and go. The difference is my mentality. The pressure accumulated for a long time has been released, and I feel that everything is peaceful and kind! So I feel comfortable walking on the road after work, and I don't need to go back to work after dinner.
The pressure that a thing brings to an individual often depends not on the thing itself, but on the degree to which the individual attaches importance to it, which is the so-called "attitude". If we want things to be perfect, there will be great pressure. The source of these pressures is not the thing itself, but ourselves. This report was prepared about 10 days before the customer's visit, and was not finalized until last night. This is a process of repeated revision and continuous updating. At the same time, I have rehearsed many times in my mind. When clients visit, I will preside over the whole meeting and express myself confidently in fluent and authentic English. The atmosphere of the whole venue is also very active. It is precisely because of the high expectations of themselves that the invisible pressure becomes great. For this preparation process, we can only use the words "face" and "accept" to describe it. In the face of what we always have to face, there seems to be a feeling of passivity in despair. At this time, I chose to accept it internally, and there was basically no resistance (mainly because the process of preparing the report often required staying up late), so I felt that the whole process was just "relaxing once" at work.
? 1.？ The cultivation of gas field needs to be gradual, not overnight.
You have more contact with Apple people, so you should slowly learn to cultivate your own aura. Although I have made some progress in dealing with customers in a short time since I joined the company, from being at a loss at first to being calm later, the whole gas field is far from enough. This gas field shows a kind of self-confidence, a clear logical thinking ability, a strong argument and a super psychological tactics. Through mutual communication, we can accurately grasp each other's main points of view, give targeted answers, and avoid questions selectively and skillfully when we can't answer them. The most enlightening thing about this is that both our boss and the boss of the other party show a powerful aura when talking about things today, which can be directly passed on to each other and even overwhelm each other's momentum. It really takes a process of gradual cultivation over time to reach such a state.
2. It is better to rehearse in advance than to accumulate on weekdays to improve the effect.
? ? The most profound feeling is that when I presided over the meeting today, there were some minor flaws at first, and then they were gradually adjusted, especially the first few sentences. The whole logic was confused and the expression was upside down, but in order to pursue fluency, I didn't stop for too long, and continued to talk, and then I got better. Looking back, these scenes were rehearsed in my mind in advance, including the expression of lines, which were written in advance. Then why is there chaos at the scene? In the final analysis, my basic training is not in place, and there are not enough words in my mind that can be quickly extracted and matched, and then I can generate fluent and authentic English, which is attributed to the accumulation on weekdays. Actually, where is your level? I know best in my heart. Therefore, at this stage, under the recommendation of colleagues, I have also started the practice of "English Rubik's Cube Show" and the study of "TOEIC". It will be effective to stick to it gradually on weekdays.
If you are destined to be blamed, choose a way that can minimize the probability of being blamed.
? The source of this feeling is also something that happened today. When the boss asked me to revise the report, because the current progress of the project was not so satisfactory, I still kept the original report format and vaguely showed the current situation (the project is really unsatisfactory at present, and I don't want to show too many details in the report). The boss was angry when he saw that the report format had not been revised, and thought that we didn't take what he said to heart. In fact, the essence of the matter is that if you show the details according to the boss's requirements, you can't hide the fact that the project is not ideal. If you only vaguely express the current project status, you can't meet the boss's requirements. This is a dilemma. At this time, the most compromise method is still the original format, just attach the boss's request as an annex to the report. If his boss wants to see it, open the details. At least, he has something ready-made, so that the boss won't think that what he arranged has not been implemented.
There is another feeling about this matter: there are not many opportunities to get in touch with the boss at ordinary times, and the only opportunity to leave a bad impression on the boss is not good. Therefore, we should not only cultivate the ability to do things, but also do things step by step.
Summary: The growth of "being compressed" is only an episode in my work. It can bring me fatigue, blame, pressure, reflection, strength and growth!
When I'm wearing Dai Yue in Dai Yue every day, I'm experiencing all kinds of difficulties in the workplace, especially these two days. A "Stranger" suddenly echoed in my mind on my way home from work today. The words in the lyrics are very real:
Running around Daiyue for a window?
When you are lost on the road, you can see the light.
Unconsciously, I regard my hometown as my hometown.
I only look at the distance occasionally when I am sad.
Once the local accent was quietly hidden.
Unspeakable promises have always been very reassuring.
There are many times when tears are about to flow out.
That window made me strong.
Small doorway and her gentleness.
Give me warmth and stay with me.
As an adult, you should be responsible. Sometimes there may be fatigue and hardship behind strength, and you can't open it to release it. Your deep feelings have found their sustenance through this song. It was a small doorway and her tenderness that gave me warmth and companionship. This is my strength to move forward!
In the evening, I went to the famous Tang Xi ancient town nearby and enjoyed the charming night view of the ancient town, which was really intoxicating.
I went there last night, but I didn't feel very good. Walking in the alley of the ancient town tonight and feeling the charm of the night scene of the ancient town really has a different taste. This feeling is not only the visual impact brought by the beautiful night scene, but also the spiritual pleasure brought by the ancient town culture.
The so-called "trip" means reading thousands of books, taking the Wan Li Road, acquiring knowledge through reading, practicing practical knowledge, feeling the local customs and culture, and seeing the diversity of the world, which will enrich your heart. This is really a wonderful process.
? I decided to write tomorrow, but then I decided to express my inner feelings even if I stayed up late. This may be the biggest gain that writing has brought me for so long! )