I once met Huang Lei and his daughter Huang Duoduo in Hunan Satellite TV's popular variety show "Where Are We Going, Dad?". At that time, their father and daughter participated in the second season of "Where Are We Going, Dad?" I remember That was in 2014. Huang Duoduo was only 8 years old. Because he was well-behaved and sensible, Huang Duoduo gained countless fans with this variety show.
The time soon came to 2021. Huang Duoduo is already 15 years old at this time. Although Huang Duoduo has rarely appeared in public since the second season of "Where Are We Going, Dad", these Huang Duoduo has been on hot searches for many years, and most of the reasons for being on hot searches are negative news about Huang Duoduo. Now another piece of negative news about Huang Duoduo has broken out on the Internet. It is said online that Huang Duoduo has been expelled from the school for making indecent behavior in the library. The school quickly refuted the rumor, but Huang Lei chose to call the police and proved it was a rumor with practical actions.
What I want to tell you today is that Huang Duoduo has always been on the hot search due to negative news in recent years. Is there something wrong with the way Huang Lei educates his daughter? Why do so many people believe the rumors about Huang Duoduo?
There are two incredible things about Huang Duoduo. First, Huang Duoduo actually did such a thing. First, there are so many people who believe that Huang Duoduo would do such a thing.
Why do so many people believe that Huang Duoduo did such a thing? This is mainly a marketing issue. Today's Huang Duoduo has been marketed as an avant-garde and mature girl. When Huang Duoduo became well known to the public, it was in the program "Where Are We Going, Dad". At that time, Huang Duoduo was still an 8-year-old child. She is obedient, sensible, beautiful, versatile, and very down-to-earth. Huang Duoduo has really gained a wave of fans.
After Huang Duoduo became known, he began to become the object of public attention. It can be seen that Huang Duoduo can translate, knows how to cook, loves learning, and loves sports. Such a baby is really enviable. With Huang Duoduo, Huang Lei also became the "national father-in-law". However, slowly, Huang Duoduo's image became piercing ears, dyeing hair, and doing nails. Such an image has nothing to do with the image of a student.
As for Huang Duoduo's image, many people think that he has lived into the adolescence they imagined. Of course, some people don't agree and think that students should behave like students. However, Huang Duoduo was not affected and continued to do what he liked. She dyed her hair and put on makeup as usual. This kind of yellow color gives people a mature feeling. This is why many people believe that Huang Duoduo was expelled. After all, Huang Duoduo was pampered by her parents and she can do avant-garde and mature things. Do we need to reflect on Huang Lei’s educational methods?
Huang Lei took Huang Duoduo to participate in variety shows with the obvious purpose of hoping that Huang Duoduo would join the circle. Some people also think that everyone is overthinking it. Because Huang Duoduo did not delay his studies. It can be seen from the pictures Sun Li posts daily that Huang Duoduo practices calligraphy and is active in sports. He is a very healthy and progressive child.
However, Sun Li also has a lot of purple hair and pierced ears. Huang Lei also said in public: 15 years old is not considered puppy love. The education method of Huang Lei and his wife makes many people think that the education of Huang Lei and his wife is advanced and valuable. Moreover, Huang Duoduo will join the industry sooner or later.
It’s just that Huang Lei’s resources are problematic, so Huang Duoduo can’t get good resources. What she usually gets are some small resources such as dubbing. Now, Huang Duoduo has been fired for spreading rumors. There are reports that Huang Duoduo is in very bad condition. Sun Li had already announced her comeback to filming, but she had to go home to take care of her for Duoduo.
At this time, some people questioned: Should Huang Lei’s education methods be reflected on? Actually, how should I say it? I feel that this matter was originally a rumor, and many of the claims about Huang Lei wanting Duoduo to join the circle are not substantiated at all. Therefore, we cannot say that there is a problem with Duoduo, nor can we say that there is a problem with Huang Lei's education methods.
I think Huang Lei has inspired many people in educating children.
He has set an example for many parents in educating their children. Pay attention to educating children
Many people say that Huang Lei favors boys over girls, but Huang Lei has never been stingy in Huang Duoduo's education. In order to take care of his children and family, Huang Lei never takes on filming work in other places. Even when filming in Beijing, he always goes home after filming, no matter how late it is. Huang Lei like this has given many parents an inspiration: Don't use the excuse of being busy at work to neglect taking care of your children. Respect children's individuality
Many people think that Huang Lei, who is a university teacher, must hope that his children will be role models at all times and in everything. However, in addition to providing Huang Duoduo with good educational conditions, Huang Lei also has a very special personality for Huang Duoduo. Huang Lei is not completely opposed to whatever Huang Duoduo wants to do and what choices he has. Give children space and let them grow freely. I hope my children will live well, but I won’t force them.
Huang Lei is in the industry, so it can’t be said that he has a lot of resources. However, the resources are definitely of high quality. For example, in "Extreme Challenge", Huang Lei is a permanent fixture. However, he did not appear with Duoduo. In "Longing for Life", he did not appear with Duoduo. Moreover, Huang Lei also performs dramas every year. Huang Lei's resources are much better than those of ordinary people, but he does not have a sense of presence with Duoduo. On the one hand, it takes into account Duoduo's study, and on the other hand, he does not force the children.
I feel that it is not Huang Lei or Huang Lei’s education methods that should be reflected on, but those who spread rumors.