Clue:
In daily life, many single elderly people hope to find a congenial wife when they are lonely, and live a happy old age hand in hand.
However, due to the influence of many practical problems, especially the interference of economic interests, they often have bad feelings about finding a wife. Even if some people live together, they are unhappy because they care too much. Faced with this situation, AA system seems to be a good choice.
Aunt Guan, a 66-year-old in the community, has lived with AA for seven years. Whenever she talks about it, she always feels poetic: equality is full of happiness, holding hands and laughing at the sunset.
Narrator: Aunt Guan, 66.
I have a son and a daughter. They were still very young when my wife left. Out of love for children, I have always insisted on being single. After many years, I seem to have got used to this state.
The child became a family and had the next generation. I help take care of older children. I voluntarily quit their lives and return to my own quiet. Some people around me don't understand, but I think that sometimes it is their happiness not to disturb each other.
If you stay alone for a long time, you will inevitably be lonely, and so will I, so I thought about changing my life style. But reality tells me that finding a suitable wife is like digging a well. Not deep, not shallow.
But I was lucky, when I was almost 60 years old, I actually met my fate again. This late emotional train helped me find the direction for the rest of my life and gave me the motivation to move on.
My friends all say that I am a woman with personality and strong opinions, but since I met Laopan again, my confident personality has been somewhat shaken!
Lao Pan is my classmate. Because he is not tall, he used to sit at my desk. He is cheerful and clever. He was admitted to a university in the provincial capital with the first place in his class. I thought he would stay there, but he came back four years later.
Familiar classmates got married one after another, including myself, but Lao Pan was still alone. Out of concern, I introduced him to a beautiful colleague Two people talked for more than a year and got married. Later, when my colleague resigned, I lost touch with Lao Pan.
I love calligraphy very much, so I joined a calligraphy club for the elderly after retirement, and there will be a group activity every weekend. Once, I happened to meet Lao Pan at an activity. He said that his wife had been dead for several years and he had retired. He didn't want to stay at home, so he came with a friend.
I have known my old friends for many years, so I am naturally not shy when I speak. When the family is not busy, they will get together to chat and eat a home-cooked meal.
We had two drinks that day, and Lao Pan said that he always liked me, but he didn't have the courage to express it, so that life passed in a daze. Now that he is old, he doesn't say anything, even if he doesn't have a chance!
I am surprised, not because I like me, but because I think such an extrovert is so shy emotionally. Of course, at that time, I just regarded him as a buddy!
LaoPan said, we are old. Let bygones be bygones. I hope we can have a good final journey. I agreed to him after consideration, but at the same time I made a request, that is, the AA system must be maintained in terms of expenditure.
I told him that this was my bottom line. Everything else can be said, but money can't be mixed. Now people have different ideas. Involving property may cause unnecessary trouble and their feelings will change.
Lao Pan knows my temper and that if we don't agree to this condition, we won't have any chance. He didn't refute, but joked that everything was subject to the arrangement of the leader.
In the following days, we do housework together, practice calligraphy together, go for a walk by the river every evening, and smile at each other hand in the beautiful and deep sunset.
Equality and independence, mutual understanding, mutual help but not interdependence, this is our pursuit of happiness and happiness!
Time flies, and seven years slip away unconsciously. Lao Pan said that he had spent the most satisfying period in his life, and it was his wish to spend most of his life with me.
Conclusion:
Everyone has their own feelings, but not all young people or old people can have pure feelings. Unlike things that need comprehensive consideration, feelings are often as simple as possible.
The happiness of the elderly is also very simple, but too many thoughts interfere with the mood and make the feelings no longer simple.
People are fighting for it, but rarely stop, look back and determine the direction of progress.
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Author: traces of love, a cheerful and playful emotional narrator, willing to accompany teachers and friends to taste life and laugh at life.