Once, Hitler asked the astrologer, "When will I die?"
The astrologer calculated the map and said confidently, "You will die on a Jewish holiday."
"After all: When?"
"Oh, no matter which day you die, it is a Jewish holiday."
Fuzzy reaction is an expedient measure. When using this method, you can only be vague on the surface and clear in your heart. So, you should be aware of it.
Pay attention to the language environment when using fuzzy language. Using vague language in the wrong place will affect the effect.
If a young man goes to the factory to find someone, he runs directly to the factory without the consent of the guard. The doorman stopped him and asked, "Who are you looking for?" He said, "I'm looking for someone!" " Q: "Who are you looking for?" A: "Looking for someone is looking for someone!" The doorman was angry and said, "I'm a man!" " Are you looking for someone with no name or surname? "To this end, people quarreled. The young man used the vague language "person" indiscriminately, which angered the janitor. It didn't work out.
Fuzzy coping has the following effects:
1. Keep a secret
1945 after the United States dropped two atomic bombs on Japan, a prominent topic in the American press was to guess whether the Soviet Union had atomic bombs and how many. When Soviet Foreign Minister Molotov led a delegation to visit the United States, he was surrounded by a group of American journalists in front of his hotel. A reporter asked Molotov, "How many atomic bombs did the Soviet Union have?" Molotov answered this question with a simple English word. The word is: "Enough!" The vague concept of "enough" can not only avoid the secrets of the atomic bomb at that time, but also express the self-esteem and strength of the Soviet people. This answer is concise and just right.
resolve the conflict (between)
When He Zhi, a famous calligrapher in Qing Dynasty, was an official in Beijing, he received a letter from home. His family told him that they were arguing with their neighbors about the foundation of a three-foot wide house and asked He Ji Shao to help them win the lawsuit. After reading the letter from home, He Ji Shao smiled indifferently and wrote a poem to send back. Poetry Day: "A letter from a thousand miles is just a wall. What's wrong with making people three feet?" The Great Wall of Wan Li is still here today, but I haven't seen Qin Shihuang! "After reading poetry at home, I gave up my foundation and made up with my neighbors.
Dispel doubts
At the end of the Eastern Han Dynasty, Stuart Wang Yun secretly consulted with courtiers in the name of birthday, and arranged for Cao Cao to assassinate Dong Zhuo, an authoritarian. The next day, Cao Cao wore a nod to the Prime Minister's office and went to the pavilion. He saw Dong Zhuo sitting on the bed with Lu Bu standing beside him. After chatting for a while, Lu Bu went out. When Cao Cao saw that the time had come, he quickly pulled out his treasure knife from his waist and was about to kill it. He didn't want Dong Zhuo to see Cao Cao moving a knife behind his back in the bed mirror, so he quickly turned around and said, "What are you doing?" At this time, Lu Bu had already hurried back, almost to the attic. Cao Cao used his quick wits and knelt before the bed with a knife in his hands and said, "I have a treasure knife. I will give it to the Prime Minister today to repay your kindness."
Dong Zhuo took a look, about a foot long. The back of the knife is decorated with seven kinds of precious stones, which are sharp and precious. This is indeed a rare treasure knife in the world. Dong Zhuo gladly accepted it and gave it to Lu Bu for safekeeping. Cao Cao took off his scabbard and handed it to him, then left in a hurry. Because he knew that if he stayed here for a long time, he would be exposed and killed.
out of stuck
The wonderful function of fuzzy coping is that it can't answer what it answers, and it can advance and retreat freely in a difficult situation.
During the Southern Qi Dynasty, there was a calligrapher Wang Sengqian, the fourth grandson of Wang Xizhi in the Jin Dynasty. His running script, regular script, inherited the ancestral method and made great achievements. At that time, Xiao Daocheng, the great ancestor of Nanqi, was also good at calligraphy, so he was pretentious and didn't want his calligraphy to be inferior to that of courtiers. One day, Xiao Daocheng proposed a calligraphy competition with Wang Sengqian. After writing, Xiao Daocheng proudly asked Wang Sengqian, "Who do you think is the first and who is the second?" Wang Sengqian didn't want to belittle himself or offend the emperor. He thought for a moment and said, "my calligraphy is the first among people;" Your majesty's calligraphy is the first among emperors. " Xiao Daocheng heard this ambiguous sentence and had to laugh it off.
This is the case with fuzzy coping, and it is difficult to understand the true meaning of the speaker's words when dealing with difficulties. It always gives people a specious feeling of seeing flowers in the fog At the same time, because of fuzziness, language is flexible and flexible, and when it comes to problems that are difficult to solve under certain conditions, it becomes impossible and possible, making incompatible problems compatible and consistent.
break away from sb's nagging
German composer hannis Brahms attended a party. I never thought that he was surrounded by a group of women at the party. He responded politely and thought of a way. Suddenly, he had a plan and lit a thick cigar. Soon, he and the group of women were surrounded by clouds of lavender smoke. Soon, several women coughed, and Brahms smoked a cigar calmly. Finally, someone couldn't help it and said to Brahms, "Sir, you shouldn't smoke in front of women!" " ""No, I think where there are angels, there should be auspicious clouds! " Brahms answered with a smile. The women around him had to disperse. In this way, Brahms freed himself from the helpless entanglement with vague language.
leave some leeway
Avoiding substantive questions and deliberately making flexible answers in ambiguous language are impeccable, leaving room for future speech and handling. The 24th Olympic Games was held in Seoul. When the second batch of China Olympic delegates arrived in Seoul, the reporter asked Li Menghua, who led the team, "How many gold medals can China win?" "Can China surpass North Korea?" Li Menghua replied: "10 years 10 2 days later, you will definitely know." The reporter asked: "The Xinhua News Agency in China once predicted that it would win 8 to 1 1 gold medals. Do you feel objective? " Li Menghua cleverly replied: "China has full freedom of speech, and journalists can write whatever they want." No one can make an accurate judgment because of the sudden change of the situation in the stadium. Li Menghua's vague answer left room.
7. Protect privacy
Once, a leader of our country held a press conference in the presidential palace of India. At the meeting, a female reporter asked him, "You are a 62-year-old man, but you look very good.". How do you pay attention to your health? " Do you exercise regularly or have a special diet? "
The leader replied: "Thank you, I am from the East, and I live according to the oriental lifestyle."
Obviously, leaders have to answer reporters' questions, but it is impossible and unnecessary to tell each other about their diet and daily life, so they answer in vague language to protect their privacy.
8. Settlement of disputes
Fuzzy reaction reflects quick wisdom. There are often clever tricks when you are in a hurry. Diego Diego Maradona, a famous football player, scored a controversial "problem ball" against the English team.
When the reporter asked Diego Diego Maradona if the ball was a handball or a header, Diego Diego Maradona tactfully replied: "The handball is half Diego's and the header is half Diego Diego Maradona's." This answer is quite scheming. If he bluntly admits that it is handball, then for the referee, the effective judgment is undoubtedly "bite the hand that feeds you". But if you refuse to admit it, you will lose the demeanor of "the best player in the world". And this wonderful "half" and "half" is equivalent to not only acknowledging that the ball was hit by an arm, but also having the general demeanor of "knowing people and not being shady" and maintaining the authority of the referee in the rules.