She is often naughty and often throws things; She is often naughty. If you say that she is not doing well, she often has enough reasons to push you back. She is always lazy and doesn't want to write a word. But she is very kind and never cares about us; She's cute. She often writes small notes on bubble gum paper to give us brain teasers. When I am unhappy, I insist on stuffing a piece of candy into my mouth; As soon as I get home from school, I will come all the way and give me a big hug. Pushing open the door at night, a pair of small slippers appeared in front of me. These little things, she feels normal, but I am actually very touched.
Although she doesn't study well and her living habits are not as good as those of other students, I think there should be no standard answer to growing up. As long as she digs out her own characteristics and shows her unique self, she will be able to glow with her moving brilliance in the future, which is also a kind of life.
My daughter can sing and dance since she was a child and likes music. She has piano lessons in one minute, dance lessons in one minute, and drawing lessons in the summer vacation. Everything was anticlimactic and it was hot for three minutes. Including homework, I was serious at first, but I also painted one by one. The back is either in a hurry to play or impatient, and often scribbles. I also have a headache for her study. I try my best to reward a little red dot. As long as I write carefully, I can buy one or two yuan of snacks, toys, school supplies, spiritual rewards and verbal rewards if I save enough five yuan. But she still fished for three days and dried the net for two days, and her temper was really impatient.
By chance, I found that my child likes history very much and kept clamoring for her to buy history books. As soon as she read the history books, she was immediately attracted. Sometimes she even has to say hello several times before she can hear you. Her classmates asked her to play, but she didn't go. I tried all kinds of tricks, looking for educational ideas, and suddenly thought, if I didn't study hard when I was a child, would the famous historical stories quoted by the teacher affect my children?
Remembering that she loves calligraphy and piano, but she is always impulsive, and her interest does not exceed three days.1Did the story of Wang Xizhi, a great calligrapher in Jin Dynasty, help her when she was a child? After checking the mobile phone search, I vividly told her the story of Wang Xizhi:
Wang Xizhi loved calligraphy since childhood and worked hard for decades. In the end, his calligraphy art reached the peak of transcendence and was praised as "the sage of books".
When Wang Xizhi 13 years old, he happened to find that his father had a calligraphy book of Shuo, and he stole it. His father worried that he was too young to keep the secret of the family heirloom and promised that he would teach when he grew up. Unexpectedly, Wang Xizhi knelt down and asked his father to allow him to study now. His father was very moved and finally agreed to his request.
Wang Xizhi practiced calligraphy very hard, even eating and walking, and he really kept practicing. Without pen and paper, he scratched on his body, and over time, his clothes were cut. Sometimes I practice my handwriting to the point of forgetfulness. Once, he forgot to eat when he practiced calligraphy, and his family sent the meal to the study. He didn't think about it, so he dipped the steamed bread in ink and ate it. It still felt delicious. It was already dark when the family found out.
Wang Xizhi often writes in the pool, so he washes the inkstone in the pool. After a long time, he ran out of ink, so he was called "Mo Chi". At present, Lanting in Shaoxing, Xigu Mountain in Yongjia, Zhejiang, Guizong Temple in Lushan and other places have places of interest known as "Mo Chi".
Wang Xizhi's calligraphy art and industrious spirit are praised by the world. Legend has it that Wang Xizhi's marriage was decided by this. Wang Dao, Wang Xizhi's uncle, was the prime minister of the Eastern Jin Dynasty. He and his contemporary teacher Xijian are good friends, and Xijian has a beautiful daughter. One day, Jane told Wang Dao that he wanted to choose a satisfactory son-in-law for his daughter among his sons and nephews. Wang Dao immediately agreed to be selected by him. Wang Dao came home and told your sons and nephews about it. My sons and nephews have long heard that Miss Xi's family is virtuous and beautiful, and they all want her. It is rare for a family to choose a husband, and nephews are busy dressing up. However, Wang Xizhi didn't ask about it. He still lay on the bed in the east wing and devoted himself to studying the art of calligraphy. After seeing Wang Dao's nephew, the Xi family went back and said to Jian, "The Wangs are all nice, but they know that choosing a husband is a bit stiff and unnatural." Only the son in the east wing doesn't mind lying in bed, just gesticulating on the table with his hand. After hearing this, the county magistrate said happily, "The son of Dongchuang must be Wang Xizhi, who has made great achievements in calligraphy. The son is deeply hidden and devoted to his studies. Is my future son-in-law. " So she married her daughter to Wang Xizhi. Wang Dao's other sons and nephews were envious and called him "Dong Chuang's son-in-law". From then on, "Dong Chuang" became the laudatory name of son-in-law.
Many things happen. Once, he wrote a plaque to someone, wrote a few words on the board and sent it to lettering. The sculptor found that the ink stains of the characters had penetrated into the board for about three minutes. This is the origin of the idiom "cut to the chase". The brushwork of describing calligraphy is very strong, and later it is used to describe the profundity of opinions and discussions on things. Therefore, the blade comes from grinding, and the plum blossom fragrance comes from bitter cold. Anyone who likes something and wants to learn a skill well must study hard and practice hard. Ten years later, he will make great efforts, keep exploring, persevere and persevere before he can achieve something in a certain industry.
After this historical story is finished, the children have benefited a lot, and their understanding and actions on piano calligraphy have changed greatly. As soon as I finish my homework, I recite the piano score and practice fingering whenever I have time. The abandoned notebook is full of her crooked handwriting, and there are often traces of ink on her hands and face, which makes people laugh. Baby, do you want to learn the singing drama Bao Gong again?
The child also wants me to take her to see the story in Shaoxing Mo Chi. It seems that this story is really instructive to her. Besides telling her anecdotes about famous people in history, we also listened to spiritual food brought by Uncle You in the morning. Now children have a new concept of time, and their procrastination habits have changed a lot.
Son, your culture class is not necessarily good or elegant. Your bad habits can be changed gradually. As long as you are grateful, stick to what you like, be polite and trustworthy, and be lively and active, why not?
Growing up is like a Barbie movie story. On the road to growth, there can be colorful stories and eternal growth themes. As long as you explore your own characteristics, show your unique self, and glow with brilliance, my mother feels that there is no standard for dreams. When she grows up, she won't tell secrets. Just be herself.
Children, may you draw infinite strength from the "Book Sage" and Barbie, and let these positive energies provide you with endless spiritual nourishment and start your dream journey.