Attitude changes destiny
Even if a person has a good attitude, he may not win the applause and devotion of others, but if he wants to win the crown of success, he must have a good attitude.
Maintaining a good attitude is to resist all opinions and not to be influenced by external things. There will always be other people's comments and pointers around us in life. Especially when we are about to enter the door to success, how to take that crucial step always makes us troubled. Faced with everyone's opinions, we are always troubled. You will feel overwhelmed and very confused. A good mentality is the key to victory at this time. When faced with whether to surrender to Wei or to fight to the end, Sun Quanquan defied all opinions and resisted the pressure of everyone to surrender, and decided to unite with Shu to resist Wei. In the end, he was outnumbered and won the glory of the "Battle of Red Cliff"; similarly, The decision fell on Chen Zhonghe. When faced with the issue of reorganizing the women's volleyball team, everyone advised him to play it safe. However, he eliminated interference from others and decisively decided to use rookies, and the glory of the past shone again. There are always various choices in life, and you need to have a good attitude when you have to face various external pressures.
Maintaining a good attitude is the key to rising from adversity. Beethoven's life was full of ups and downs. In the eyes of others, he was just a deaf and crazy music fanatic. The loss of his ears was a fatal blow to a person who devoted himself to the music career. Others' incomprehension and inner loneliness only added to his inner depression, but he was not knocked down by this. In the abyss of pain, he burst out all the resentment in his heart, "I want to hold the throat of fate." There are always ups and downs in life. Even if the road ahead is paved with thorns, we must always light up the eternal lamp of the soul in our hearts to guide us out of the confusion of the soul, give full play to our unique subjective initiative as humans, and let the strong spiritual consciousness lift us out of the darkness. Get out of it, get rid of the interference from the outside world, and move towards the palace of success.
To maintain a good attitude, you must have a clear self-understanding. As the saying goes, "people's words can be feared." Indeed, among the divergent opinions, people often have a tendency to follow others' opinions. The evaluations of others about themselves will always influence our thoughts. We often ask ourselves: Am I like this? Should I do this? At this time, you must have a clear self-understanding, which will reduce the twists and turns on the road to success. Sima Qian was just a useless person in the eyes of others, but his heart was as clear as water, leaving aside the interference from the outside world, as if he was in an unimpeded place; Socrates dragged his fat body around all day long, he transcended himself and excluded others evaluation and became a great man admired by the world. Maintaining a good attitude and having a correct understanding of yourself is the shortcut to success. The road to life needs to be controlled by ourselves. If life is like a voyage, we must be the helmsman.
Maintaining a good attitude can keep us calm and neither arrogant nor impetuous. No matter what situation you are in, a good attitude will always give you unexpected rewards.