After everything was put away, an oil painting of beautiful color and fragrance appeared on the table: candlelight flickered, and the elegant tones reflected by the plaid tablecloth and blue-printed m

After everything was put away, an oil painting of beautiful color and fragrance appeared on the table: candlelight flickered, and the elegant tones reflected by the plaid tablecloth and blue-printed magnetic disks alternated between thick and light. The drinks are mixed together, and the subtle fragrance floats. It’s not just the dishes that matter, but also your mood – eating is no longer a simple matter. A woman of temperament keeps her heart warm at all times. At ten o'clock in the night, she would quietly get up after her husband beside her pillow was breathing evenly, turn on the lamp in the study, and read a passage from Duras or Li Yu's "Idle Love", or just meditate. Looking out the window at the watery moonlit night, I let my thoughts dance in time and space. Maybe I remembered a certain fragrant past, and a smile bloomed on my lips, as crystal clear as the new moon in the sky. A woman with temperament also has many good qualities; there are also many types of women with temperament. Maybe, she is by your side. Affordable, affordable, affordable, affordable. Beauty can be born, but temperament is acquired. I will teach you a few tricks based on my summary. 1. Stand: You must stand straight, raise your head, chest, and abdomen. Don’t raise your head to the sky. Don’t push your chest out. Everything must be flat. This is the most basic standing posture, and no matter where you are or what the occasion is, as long as it is You should maintain this form when standing, and it will form a habit over time. If you say no, I can't stand up to that effect, then go home, put your heels, buttocks, shoulders, and back of your head against the wall, put your hands vertically down, and stand at attention with your legs together for an hour and a half. Do this every day, no matter what I believe you can't stand that effect. 2. Sit. The sitting posture must be elegant, the upper body should be upright, and the buttocks should only sit on one-third of the chair. The legs can be placed together to the left or right, or one leg can be placed on the other leg, with the legs hanging naturally. . But be sure not to spread your legs or tilt your legs on a chair. If you are not used to it yet, use your breaks at work to exercise yourself. 3. Walk: When walking, use the word "stand" first. Keep your head up, chest out, and belly in. Don't always lower your head and count your toes. When walking on the road, treat the road as your home, your T-shaped stage, but it does not mean that you walk in a domineering manner. You need to walk as if there is no one around, look straight, and show your own momentum. Don't walk in a hurry, and don't walk like a star. I stepped on the ants on the road, neither fast nor slow, just steady. The rest is walking posture. You can crotch. The crotch movement of the hips will show your waist posture, but don’t move the whole upper body with it, which will make people look frivolous. Keep your hands vertical and sway gently back and forth. Don’t walk in a military posture. , it’s not about going straight, it’s about being natural. 4. Another thing to pay attention to when it comes to appearance is clothing. It doesn’t have to be a famous brand, but it must be suitable for your age and figure. You must wear it to reflect your own personality. A good piece of clothing looks good on others. But it doesn’t necessarily mean it’s suitable for you to wear. 6. When it comes to face, let’s talk about facial expressions. Smile, remember to smile, don’t be dumbfounded, and don’t smile so wildly. If you can't smile without showing your teeth, then slightly raise the corners of your mouth. The most important thing is your eyes. When listening to others or talking to others, you must look directly at them and don't look around. Remember there is a book that says that a woman's eyes are a gate to her heart, so make good use of them. Gate, show your confidence. Okay, everything is ready, no matter you are tall, short, beautiful or ugly, give yourself a little confidence, believe that you are the most unique, show your confidence and add a little more temperament to yourself. I almost forgot the most important thing, that is, you must be well-educated and have connotation. Don't be talked about behind your back. That person looks very elegant, but he talks dirty words. Remember, no matter you are a beautiful woman, you still have temperament. Don't curse people, it will ruin your entire image. Temperament comes from the heart, keep your pure and kind heart. (1) Male sexual temperament The characteristics of male sexual temperament are calm, resolute, persistent, open-minded, bold, hearty, optimistic, rough, tough, majestic, bold, decisive, broad-minded, deep, etc., with a special sense of strength. (2) Female sexual temperament Female temperament is the concentrated expression of women’s best character, that is, the highest expression of moral purity and noble sentiment.1. Read more, there are beautiful faces in books! 2. Pay attention to some information about fashion, clothing, and accessories. 3. Pay attention to your daily speech and behavior to avoid vulgarity. What is dual personality on the Internet? In short, it means actions and Spoken. 4. When walking, try to raise your head, hold your chest up, and tighten your abdomen. You may feel uncomfortable at first, but you will do it unconsciously after a long time. Wearing high heels more often helps this. 5. Consciously take the initiative to communicate with those If you talk to people of good temperament more often, you will find that your nervousness and restraint will disappear or reduce, and you will be able to cope with it easily. We call it desensitization

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Improve your own cultivation and temperament:

1. You can read more books. When college students have free time, try to go to the library to borrow some nutritious books and swim in the sea of ??books. , reading can benefit people's minds and nourish their lives, and you will find that you understand more.

2. You can also search for some inspirational movies to watch. You must have the ability of self-selection and judgment. Good study, bad automatic filtering, over time personal Your cultivation will also be improved.

3. Do more outdoor sports, or college students can join the department's model team, dance team or folk art team, not only to serve the department but also to make more friends, the key point While doing modeling, folk art learning and dance practice, you can keep your figure even and make you more confident.

4. Don’t lose your temper at others casually. You must control yourself and ease your mood. There are few things in this world that are worth getting angry at and are not good for your health.

5. If you have nothing to do, read more fashion magazines and fashion websites, watch fashion street photos, and understand the cutting-edge fashion trends. Even if you don’t have money to buy famous brands, you must learn to understand them and know some combinations. Or the hairstyle that suits you, you will also become more fashionable.

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"From You" Passing by the World: Hardcover Upgraded Edition "Hunan Literature and Art Publishing House What books should women read to improve their self-cultivation and temperament

1. A person's temperament is internal cultivation, external behavior and conversation~~ ~~The sum of the way and attitude towards dealing with others. Elegant, generous, and natural temperament will give people a feeling of comfort, kindness, and easy-going~~ 2. Temperament is not learned, but cultivated. You can’t say too much, but you have to understand everything. You should usually learn more and read more. (Not reading 8 hanging magazines) If you have nothing to do, go learn to dance or exercise. You also need to learn more about communication.

3. Taste determines temperament. 4. The saying "those who are close to vermillion are red, and those who are close to ink are black" are very reasonable. If you can get close to some people with good temperament, you will unconsciously feel some changes~~ 5. Read more books and think more , temperament cannot be changed in a month or two months. It takes a year, two years or even longer. Many people finish college and people who haven’t seen them for a long time say that they have changed. In fact, it is the influence of campus life. There are always benefits to reading more. Another point is, be friends with whoever you want to be, a gentleman and a villain. Over time, your temperament will naturally be revealed. 6. Reading is the most basic . If you read less books, no matter how much you practice, there will still be no connotation~ Besides, if you read more books, your eyes will be brighter~ After all, you can’t put makeup on your eyes~ Some people are beautiful, but their eyes are empty when you look at them. ~Full of sadness~ 7. Practice ballet yoga or something. Hepburn’s temperament was developed by practicing ballet. 8. You need a good living environment and a good mentality. Only by cultivating a good temperament. 9. Temperament is a kind of charm that exudes inner beauty. Although makeup can change the appearance, temperament depends on inner cultivation. If you want to express your temperament with external things, it is artificial. 10. Since childhood Different environments will create different people. A person's experience and knowledge will have a certain impact on his or her temperament. 11. There are many types of temperament, such as publicity, spirituality, elegance, charm, and another one is Nobility is more difficult to achieve. Temperament is basically reflected in the way you dress, speak and behave, and every move is out of line. It is so difficult to master! Some temperaments are really innate. If they are not born, they can only be acquired. To cultivate, you must first understand what type you are, and then have your own opinions and create the acquired perfect temperament for yourself~ 12. Temperament is indeed influenced by nature and can be cultivated through education, but it is impossible to change the natural factors and temperament in the short term. In an educational context, you can try to develop self-confidence! What types of books can girls read to improve their temperament and cultivation? For example?

Girls can improve their temperament and cultivation by reading fashion magazines and literature and art books.

1. "The Second Sex"

Simone de Beauvoir's "The Second Sex" is known as "the most complete and most complete book in history that does not comment on women." "The wisest and most intelligent book", it is even regarded as the "Bible" of Western women. Using civilized content covering philosophy, history, literature, biology, ancient fairy tales and customs as the background, she discussed the reality of women's situation, status and power in the historical evolution from primitive society to modern society, and explored It shows the gender differences shown in the individual growth history of women. "The Second Sex" can truly be called an encyclopedia that overlooks the entire female world. It reveals the beginning of women's civilized activities to fight against long-term gender discrimination, and sets a monument for women's activities in the world.

2. "Gone with the Wind"

Margaret Mitchell, a well-known American female writer, became famous all over the country after writing only one work. This romantic novel Once the novel with a communist tone and reflecting the Civil War theme came out, it became the most popular work of American novels. Even the film adaptation of "Gone with the Wind" has become a classic. The beautiful and courageous protagonist Scarlett Scarlett embodies the unique rebellious spirit and The spirit of hard work and endless self-improvement, the romantic and persistent Rhett Butler, the strong and tolerant Melanie Han, and the elegant and fragile Wei Xili have lingered in the minds of several generations and become stronger over time.

3. The Bible "The Bible" 》

Western culture is based on the "Bible", which is the queen of all Western classics. Lincoln said: The Bible is the best gift given by God to mankind. All the goodness of the Savior is conveyed in this book. To us. For women of temperament, it is not said that to dabble in a classic is to understand a world. Reading more inspiring books, just like reading the Bible, will further integrate women with negative temperament into the world and become modern people with world-civilized thinking.

4. "A Dream of Red Mansions"

"A Dream of Red Mansions", known as one of the four famous classical Chinese works, is one of the greatest literary masterpieces in China in the 18th century. It describes The corruption and decadence of traditional Chinese aristocratic life. The book contains many thoughts about Buddhism, Taoism, and Confucianism, which are full of fairy tale tones, and reflect the political ethics, social life, economic system and cultural development at the time of the work, as well as clothing, food, medicine, and building pavilions. , boats, cars, sedans, etc. *** calls it China’s fifth greatest invention. What books can girls read to improve their temperament and cultivation?

Some literary masterpieces, especially those by female writers. . . . For example, books by Jane Austen, Duras, Zhang Ailing, etc. are all acceptable, but you have to be patient. Classics are not attractive novels after all.