1, a grandiose interest class
A friend received a programming leaflet, which read: "In the Internet age, this is the master of the world. You give me an ordinary child and I will give you a creator of the world. " In addition, the publicity page also lists many benefits, such as improving scores, writing ability, imagination, thinking ability and so on. Friends like it very much, and resolutely spent thousands of dollars to formally register their children. In the end, the child did not learn programming well, but indulged in playing mobile phones and learned to play games. Mother really regretted it.
2. Interest classes that children don't like
Some children are very introverted. Parents want their children to be optimistic, and then give them some interest classes in eloquence and performance to exercise. Some children are very lively and active, and parents hope to keep their children "quiet" according to quiet interest classes such as calligraphy and painting. However, it is often overlooked whether children are interested in this. If he is not interested, he can't learn naturally. On the contrary, he must pay for the abuse.
3. There are too many interest classes
Some parents especially want to spend money to shape their children. Every weekend, children will go through one interest class after another, and even eat on the way. If a child is tired of going back and forth to various interest classes, then the child may not like any interest classes in the end. Because the child is very tired, I just want to finish it quickly and go home to rest. Too many interest classes can only become the pressure on children, which is not good for their development. Interest classes should add fun to children's lives and should not be a pressure on children.
Parents should follow the following criteria when enrolling their children in interest classes, which is beneficial to their children's development:
1, giving priority to children's wishes
Son, if you don't like painting, don't be a painter even if everyone spends a lot of money. Therefore, only what children love to do, are suitable for doing and want to do will have the motivation to learn. When parents choose hobbies for their children, it is best to pay attention to their choice. Only when children love can they learn the essence.
2. The total number of interest classes should not be too much.
Don't pay too much attention to children's interest classes. Too much pressure is not only bad for children's growth, but also bad for their healthy development. Interest classes should be a kind of life adjustment and happiness besides children's study, not the general pursuit. It is best to reserve one or two interest classes for children, so that children can develop in a pleasant environment, which is more important than anything else, and don't let interest classes become the pressure on children.
3. It is better to keep children studying than interest classes.
In addition, parents should not forget the "reading" during the summer vacation. Instead of wasting time in classes that children don't like and have no talent, let them read two more books. In addition, Professor Jenny Char, a psychologist at Harvard University's Graduate School of Education, put forward the "reading development stage theory", which holds that 9 years old is the dividing line of parent-child reading development. If children don't develop good reading habits before the age of 9, they are likely to miss good reading habits in the future.
As for what books to read for children, I think in addition to some recommended masterpieces, some books that children are really interested in are the first choice, especially in cultivating interest. In fact, if children want to have their own personal hobbies, they don't have to sign up for classes. It's just that enrolling in classes is a more professional and systematic training method. Parents should also put their minds right and give their children a free and happy growth environment!