Words and deeds are one. Especially after entering the society, there are too many places to spend money on rent, water and electricity projects, meals, etc., so you can implement every point when you pay, otherwise you will easily get yourself into a dilemma. In the TV series I am Yu Huanshui, it is a very common phenomenon that Guo Jingfei plays the male actor Yu Huanshui. I am obviously just a small employee of the company, and even struggling on the edge of being laid off because of my poor performance for five months, but I still dare to lend the remaining 13, to Lu Fumeng. Yu Huanshui wholeheartedly believes that these "good buddies" will repay on time.
Conclusion: This good buddy lives in a luxury villa and drives a luxury car by himself, that is, he stubbornly holds Yu Huanshui's 13, yuan without paying back the money. Let Yu Huanshui take his wife to pick a car and say that he will eventually pay, but he will be invisible at the critical moment, so that Yu Huanshui will lose face in front of his wife, and eventually the husband and wife will divorce. Yu Huanshui just ate the loss of "borrowing casually". Money is not as good in anyone's hands as in his own. Take it if you want, and you won't make a mistake in a hurry.
Therefore, when faced with money-related requests, you must think twice. Because it is likely to have a far-reaching impact on future life. In the case of resistance, don't hesitate. After all, people who lend money casually may sit on the road of life at any time! Agreeing to help casually will make you more and more busy
Although money is also one of our possessions, don't forget that our main treasure is always ourselves. Everyone's time and time are very limited. The more time you spend on others, the less time you can get. Even celebrities can't escape this rule. Mr. Qi Gong, a famous calligrapher in China, is highly respected by people, on the one hand, because of his high artistic skills in calligraphy, and on the other hand, because he "shuns people who ask for advice". People are constantly looking for him every day, and the house is always noisy. Mr. Qi Gong can't help laughing at himself "becoming a panda in the zoo for anyone to visit."
Later, Mr. Qi Gong had a bad cold, so he really couldn't get out of bed and couldn't take care of the people who went to consult him. In order to avoid disappointment, Mr. Qi Gong posted a piece of paper on the door, which read: "The panda is ill and refuses to visit;" If you knock on the window, you will be fined yuan. " Since then, Mr. Qi Gong has gradually summed up his spare time. Knowing how to refuse can make our daily life better and better. Just helping without refusing may eventually reveal itself. My own former colleague Xiao Zhao is an example.
In the office, some people called him for help and never refused. As a result, more and more people helped him. They made themselves sick, had to take a vacation to recuperate, and missed a good opportunity for promotion. Therefore, we must try not to agree to others' help. No one knows whether easy work will turn into verbal violence without help.