Because this is an old man, the first person who throws shit doesn't respect the old man. No matter what mistakes the old man made, no matter how serious his mistakes were, he should not be treated so rudely. So, I don't feel happy. Secondly, it is a great insult to throw shit at people, no matter how old they are. For people who are thrown shit, it may become a lifelong shame. The degree of psychological harm can't be overstated with any word.
Therefore, people who throw shit seem to be carefree, but the result is sad.
Because, first of all, the old man danced and applauded, disturbing others. It was the old man who made the mistake first and didn't consider the feelings of others first. Disturbed people, instead of taking a tolerant attitude, respond to the behavior of the elderly in a more extreme way, so that the behavior of both sides will be reduced to a grade, and even the bad nature of the latter's behavior is worse than the former. Because the former is unintentional, while the latter must be intentional. Therefore, it seems to be a carefree action, but in fact it is anger that has nowhere to vent, and it is vented in a very unbearable way. In other words, people who disturb the peace of others are retaliated by the other side in another more extreme way, and the result is ugly.
Old people love to dance square dance, which has become a criticism of young people now. Everyone can't stand those extremely popular songs lingering in their ears and disturbing the peace of the community. However, we elderly people have been tirelessly pursuing recreational activities in their later years to make them glow. As young people, we can only be helpless.
Some young people have called the police to take care of these "disobedient" old people, but there is nothing the police can do. This is China, and no one bothers other people's criminal laws. If they are abroad, such as Japan, it is said that their behavior will not affect others' rest or normal life. In this case, they will be detained.
So, in China, we still have to talk about China. If you can't vent your anger in such an unbearable way, what can you think about it? Perhaps, through the community, through the collective, through the family, I think, from the above channels and ways, we can find a way. But look at it from another angle: maybe we can regard the love of the elderly for square dance as our own revolution? Are we used to the elderly helping their children to take care of their grandchildren in their later years, but not to their own life and entertainment? In this way, perhaps, our tolerance will come out, and our eyes on the elderly may be different. Times are different, and the way the elderly spend their twilight years is also changing. I hope everyone can understand the elderly from this angle. I believe that the elderly can also communicate and are not stubborn people. What did you say?/Sorry?
Slow down and live with your heart. I am Jiang Min, a psychological counselor, and I am willing to find my heart with you in my life.
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