The relationship between Empress Dowager Cixi and her biological mother Fu Cha has always been bad. When Cixi did not enter the palace, the two often quarreled. Later, Cixi entered the palace and changed from a show girl to a queen, which also made her mother a little jealous.
It's just that the Fu Cha family has always relied on being the biological mother of Empress Dowager Cixi. Even if Empress Dowager Cixi later ruled the world, there was nothing she could do. 1867, his mother Fu Cha celebrated her 60th birthday. At that time, Cixi, as the Empress Dowager, was unable to pay her respects in person. It may also be that she was too lazy to move her expensive feet and went in person, so the courtiers sent many gifts to her mother. She also copied a calligraphy, which contains a poem written by Cixi herself: "The love of parents in the world is the truest, and blood and tears are dissolved in children's bodies. Hard work will eventually become a child, poor Chengfeng! " Then I hired a famous framer, framed it and gave it to my mother.
The meaning of this poem is that parents' love is the truest in the world, which not only gives children the blood of life, but also gives them everything. Although sometimes children can't understand, parents still care about their children as always! But as far as the relationship between them is concerned, what Cixi said is mostly perfunctory, not sincere, but the feelings she expressed are true. Later, this sentence spread widely, and I gradually forgot that this sentence first came from the mouth of Empress Dowager Cixi!