Everyone has his mission in this world, and in order to help complete his mission, there is a sun lying in everyone’s heart. When you raise your head and see the sun in the sky, people will feel warm. Laugh, lower your head and see the sun in your heart, and you will be full of strength.
I originally thought that I had made a lot of progress in 18 years. At least I did have a goal that seemed a bit vague but very lofty. But after thinking about it for several days, I still didn’t know how to start with my 2019 goals. Lao Tie happened to teach me Teacher Yongcheng’s annual goal setting course. I placed the order immediately because I was really curious. Isn’t the annual goal just to make a list of 12345 and then achieve it? And I knew something was wrong, otherwise why would I still be confused?
Gain 1: I am very determined about what I want to do. I am currently resigning and going to Shanghai next semester.
Gain 2: Master the steps of setting annual goals, not just writing down the things to be accomplished, but also the process of advancement.
Gain 3: Risks must be prevented in advance, including mastering the strategies to solve the three major pitfalls - Dreamers.
Harvest 4: When you are confused, ask yourself, who am I?
Gain 5: Never criticize yourself when thinking about the future. Know that you need encouragement from others, and know that you need to encourage yourself. Dare to think and do.
Lesson 6: Expect problems to happen. Only when you make mistakes can you grow.
1. Annual goals include five elements: imagination of the future (dare to think), life possibilities, direction guidance (identity clarification), milestones, and self-commitment.
2. Cross out the previous 23 years. My feeling is that at first I felt time was tight. Especially when compared with students, I found that it would be okay for them to waste some time now, because I seemed to be wasting time before. But after planning well later, I felt that the time was just right. Compared with others, it was still in time.
3. When drawing a blueprint for life’s leaps, the feeling is that I dare not think about what the future will look like, or I can’t imagine what the future will look like. I have been thinking about this issue from the time I finished the class to now. The reasons are as follows. First, when I am in a mess now, I dare not think about the future because I think it is a daydream and unrealistic. Second, I am not in good health and am afraid of death. , the subconscious mind is already thinking that you may not be able to do anything at the age of 50. The more you deny yourself, the more restricted you will be. In fact, the solution is very simple. Just take good care of your body. So, think about what you want. When thinking about things, think happily and replace frustrated thoughts with happy dreams;
Only if you dare to think can it be realized.
4. Who am I? This philosophical question cannot be escaped anywhere. Cut off ties with others and think about who you are? When thinking about this problem, my biggest gain is that I found the reason why I clearly completed a confidence accumulation in the first half of this year but was still confused in the second half - identity confusion.
I am struggling and want to get out of the current situation, so I want to take the postgraduate entrance examination, but it is not bad to go to a big city to take the establishment examination. The time is loose and stable, but it is also possible to work as a teacher and enter an institution. Sometimes I even feel It's good to stay in a small county town. You can get married early, have children early, and your body will recover quickly. I've never really thought about what I want to be in the future. There is no anchor in the future, so the present is just a boat drifting on the sea. I will run wherever the wind blows, so whatever others say makes sense to me.
At this time, lean on the role model you already have, who you want to be, and use him as an anchor for the future. When we pay attention to information, we should pay attention to positive things. According to the law of attraction, there will also be positive changes in us.
When filling in the role models, I discovered a problem. The trait "confidence" appeared in half of my role models. It shows that I have extremely low self-esteem and need to gain strength through successful events.
5. After you have a dream, you must realize it through execution. Execution is key.
Disney’s strategy has a great impact on me. I often criticize myself. For example, when I like someone, I will immediately deny it and feel that I am not worthy.
The feeling after finishing this part is: Dare to think. Whatever you want, imagine it to your heart's content. Leave the rest to the doers.
6. When encountering the three pitfalls in life - incompetence, helplessness, and lack of qualifications, let the dreamer speak first - I want to...
7. Disney Strategy Among them, the two most important ones are risk identification and main task decomposition. When making the first expected Disney strategy, risk identification was carried out. The teacher asked, if your expectations failed at the end of 2019, what do you think happened? When , I immediately thought of two things! One is physical reasons, and the other is fear. There have been precedents before. I think if it happens again, I may become more and more accustomed to it, and I will label myself, saying that I am not in good health, so... after these two precautions, I feel much more at ease.
The main task breakdown is to force yourself to not just enjoy yourself. Very specific and detailed steps to help complete the task. I'm not skilled at this, but it doesn't matter. You can ask the experts for advice. Teacher Nagacheng said that there is no problem that he can't solve.
8. Maintain a belief: expect mistakes to happen. Only when you make mistakes can you grow.
9. There must be a positive meaning behind every negative expression.
Only by believing can you see; only by being determined can you obtain.
10. Goals need to be managed. The rational approach can be through the APP, and the emotional approach can be through the vision board.
11. There is no "once and for all".
12. If you grow fast, you will definitely encounter problems. It doesn’t matter, just adjust and improve. Don't get caught up in random thoughts, think "I want..."
The biggest difference before and after the activity is that I dare to think, I am no longer confused, think about the future, and keep pushing forward after thinking about it. Every step is counted.
This change means that whatever you want may really come true.
I will dare to do many things that I dare not think of before, including things that may not be thought of now.
Spend a day and night, and Teacher Yongcheng will help you set your annual goals and help you achieve them.
I am grateful to her. When I said I was a little confused, she decisively gave me Teacher Yongcheng’s annual goal setting course, which allowed me to achieve the growth described in this review article. .
I am grateful to the warm-hearted class. After I introduced myself and shivered in front of a crowd of talented people, she gave me some detailed suggestions about my experience in the reading camp and my calligraphy works. After reading two calligraphy exercises in the group, someone took the initiative to link to me, which gave me a positive attitude of being proactive and constantly adjusting.
I am grateful to Miss Yuyue. After I submitted my work, she immediately praised me and I took the initiative to link to her, haha. It makes me feel that the future is promising because there are so many great people around me.
I am grateful to little sister Xiaoke. She actually helped me with an in-depth consultation, which enabled me to make new discoveries deep in my heart under professional guidance.
I am grateful to Teacher Yongcheng. His courses have given me full energy on the one hand, and a strong sense of control over my goals on the other. There are steps, paths, and a bright future.
I am grateful to Tu Xiaoya. She is an excellent person who keeps track of my course progress and makes me feel that I am being cared about. Moreover, we have the same role model and two similar qualities, which makes me feel like I am I have found the right path to becoming excellent.
The solution to the three major pitfalls in life is, I want it!
Expect errors to happen. Only when you make mistakes can you grow.
I am the little sun, I want to bring positive energy to others.
The first little thing to change in 2019 is to change the name "Leng Li" to "The Sun Shines in the Sky".