I like Deng Yaping, so fierce and angry on the court. Every time she won a ball, she held her clenched fist high and shouted something. How many times have I thought: what can she say under such circumstances? A mystery. Song Shixiong satisfied my great curiosity in the live commentary. Song Shixiong said: "Every time Deng Yaping plays a good ball, he can't help cheering for himself:' Good ball!' Beautiful! "Ah, this is not a tall, calculating, wise and free from vulgarity Deng Zhen. Deng Yaping, who is healthy and skilled, was originally cheering for himself. Xiao Deng, who is not tall and has a good plan, can be described as both intelligent and brave, and extremely elegant. Deng Yaping, who is on the edge of the ball case, is always in an aggressive offensive state. She always stays calm on the spot even if she is temporarily lost. First of all, she overwhelmed her opponent in momentum, formed a deterrent and won the battle. This is the secret of her winning the world table tennis championship.
Deng Yaping cheered for himself and sang the world table tennis; I applaud Deng Yaping loudly, not only because she plays well, but also because she has erected an unyielding banner in her life!
Anyone who visits Xiao Gan's home will be twice surprised by the picture of Xiao Lao hanging in the living room, which occupies half of the wall. Someone bluntly said, "Xiao Lao, this must be your favorite photo?" Xiao Lao used the topic to play: "If people don't even like themselves, how can they like other people's lives?" "It's really a famous style. When it comes out, it's a jingle saying.
"Know yourself" is the highest standard of being a man. "Since God has given talents, let them be employed!" , ancient and modern, popular all over the world. However, some people in life often base their survival value on others' evaluation of themselves and entrust their fate to others' judgment of themselves. When others say you can do it, you think you can, and when others say you can't, you think you really can't. No matter what other people's intentions are, support or "kill"? Is it contempt or jealousy? It doesn't matter if others look down on you, it is guilty to look down on yourself. I dare not think of a man who even looks down on himself. He's afraid to step forward, he doesn't speak softly, he can't lift his head, he can't lift his face, he can't hold his breath, he can't straighten his back, he should be a wimp and a coward. What can he expect to achieve?
The catchword "worship yourself" is imperfect and inappropriate, but its gold content is not low, and its positive uses are endless. When Zhu Yuanzhang and Liu Ji talked about the article, they asked who was the best in the world. Liu Ji thought that Song Lian, the national civil servant, was the first to be pushed away. When asked who Song Lian's subordinates were, Liu Ji generously replied: "I dare not give more!" How strong and energetic the words "Never give in again" are!
Some people say that Eugene is Singapore's San Mao, but Eugene doesn't buy it. Sanmao has certainly achieved remarkable literary status, but Eugene thinks Sanmao is Sanmao and Eugene is Eugene. Eugene may admire Sanmao, or he may default that he is not as good as Sanmao, but he is not as good as the whole in one respect. At a certain point, it is entirely possible to be much better than San Mao. Besides, Sanmao went at the wrong time, and Eugene was in his prime, which was the age when he produced good works. How many years later, why can't Eugene achieve higher literary achievements than San Mao? Even if Sanmaoguo is a lonely peak that others can't reach, Eugene has enough reason to say, "I worship Eugene instead of Sanmaoguo."
Liu Huimin, an Anhui farmer calligrapher, had the honor to meet Qi Baishi, a master of Chinese painting. Qi Baishi's exquisite painting skills opened Liu Huimin's eyes. He praised everyone when he feasted his eyes. So some people strongly encouraged Liu Huimin to take this opportunity to worship Qi Baishi as a teacher, but Liu Huimin frankly lamented: "Mr. Qi's painting skills are really first-class, but his calligraphy is not as good as mine. He paints his paintings and I write my words. I can't worship him as a teacher. " Facing the reputation of Qi Baishi, a giant in China painting, he is neither superstitious nor blindly obedient. He cheered for his words. What great wisdom and courage this is! He knows very well that if he gives up his writing skills and learns Qi Lao's paintings, even his writing skills will be in vain, and he may not be able to learn painting well.
Czech compatriots don't know Kundera, some walls are full of flowers, and the outside is very fragrant; Some people say that Ba Jin's literary kung fu is at best the fluency of middle school students. Zhu Ziqing, a literary historian in Taiwan Province Province, wrote such famous works as Moonlight on the Lotus Pond and Return, which impressed him deeply. He boasted: "Zhu Ziqing is famous not because of how good his works are, but because many students support him." They are still hard to get unanimous approval from others, not to mention us nameless rats.
Just waiting for someone to cheer for you is tantamount to "waiting for the rabbit." It is natural to wait blindly, and no one has the right to interfere. I'm afraid I'm afraid I'm "empty and sad, waiting for the teenager's head to turn white." First, your strengths, your advantages, your potential, how others know the root cause and yourself; Secondly, there are thousands of people with different temperaments, different appetites and completely different values. What you think is as heavy as Mount Tai is just as light as a feather in the eyes of others. How can people cheer for you? Third, people don't eat or drink your food, so they have no obligation to cheer for you. When you succeed, it is enough to call a good drum to help you stand up again. That was after you achieved great success.
Cheering after success is of course necessary, but what we need more is constant encouragement and refueling on the way to the set goal, that is, drumming and cheering on the battlefield. This task is best undertaken by ourselves, and we don't expect others. It's okay to cheer for yourself, and it's okay to cheer from the heart without showing your face, so as to form a steady stream of motivation. Might as well learn from Xiao Lao, enjoy yourself, like yourself, and make yourself better and better in order to be liked by others; Learn from Deng Yaping, lose no time to cheer for yourself, be firm and confident, and March and climb to greater success with successful steps!
The ancients said, "If there is no reward, clap your hands and sing Qian Shan." .