When it comes to being a man, I think everyone will have a ruler in their heart to measure people's requirements. In my opinion, learning to bear and tolerate is the basic requirement of being a man and the premise of dealing with interpersonal relationships. A person who has never experienced failure, his life will not be rich; A person who has never experienced suffering will have no connotation in his life. He will always be an immature person. There are many unspeakable sufferings in the world. If he is a strong man, he must learn to bear it! Reality sometimes contradicts ideals. Maybe you have an ideal lamp in your heart, but it seems out of reach. Maybe you want to do good, but you've made a mess of things. Maybe you hate vulgarity, but you are addicted to all the trivial things in the world; Maybe you planted seeds, but because of your poor self-cultivation, you paid all your efforts but could not bear fruit; Maybe your heart is beyond yourself, but in reality you deny it one by one. If you are resilient and believe in yourself, learn to bear it! There is a saying that patience is perfect. Patience does not mean giving in, but accumulating strength to prepare for the next success.
Patience is farsightedness. Be patient for a while, calm down and take a step back. You can stand in the sudden storm and express your dissatisfaction. You don't need to pay attention to it, because you know that without the sadness of the storm, there will be no rare joy after the storm. Maybe the sudden arrival of winter will make you cold to the bone, but you don't need to hit the winter door with your whole body to express your resistance. You don't need to care, because you know, if winter comes, can spring be far behind? There are many things in life that we didn't expect. That is, "I want to cross the Yellow River, but the ice choked the ferry, and it wants to climb the snowy Taihang Mountain". How else could it be?