The original text is: it is widowed to blame yourself for blaming others; If you forgive others with your own heart, you will give it all. "Responsibility" means blame and criticism.
Xin An Lu was written by Lin Bu, a famous poet in the Northern Song Dynasty. After his death, Song Renzong posthumous title was called "Mrs. He Jing", so later generations often called him "Mrs. Jing". Lin Bu is free and eager to know the classics, but his temperament is calm and uncontroversial. He lives in seclusion on an isolated mountain near the West Lake in Hangzhou. He has never been an official, nor has he married or had children. Lin Bu likes to raise cranes and grow plums. He often tells the world that he has a plum wife and a crane, which means that plum is his wife and the crane is his child. Lu You once praised his calligraphy attainments, and Su Shi also praised his literary talent and Lin Bu's character. Lin Bu's works are rare in the world. Now there are three poems, more than 300 poems and only three calligraphy works. Worry-Free Record is a collection of excellent sentences that Lin Bu combined with his own thoughts to persuade the world to be kind from the heart and teach the essence of being a man. Many speeches are extremely subtle and direct at people's hearts. These golden words in the book are like old wine, which lasts forever. I believe they can provide useful reference and enlightenment for people today in their cultivation and life.