After Lin died, Liang Sicheng married a wife who was 27 years younger than him. Why did Kim get drunk at her grave?

Since ancient times, "every family has its own problems", what's more, a woman with both talents and looks has attracted countless talents and celebrities to fall at her feet.

Later generations praised her as "talented and beautiful, dedicated to san huang", and Jin wrote an elegy for her: a poetic waterfall, an April day on earth.

Yes, she is Lin, the romantic poet Xu Zhimo, who is willing to divorce her and bear the blame of her life; Liang Sicheng, the "father of modern architecture in China", dotes on her and takes good care of her. Jin, known as "the first person in China's philosophy", is a guardian and never marries.

"Lin missed life at first sight", and their feelings were once talked about by the world, even more fascinating than film and television dramas!

0 1 16 years old met the romantic poet Xu zhimo.

1904, a little girl was born in a scholarly family in Hangzhou, Zhejiang. She is Lin, but she is not a baby born in her father's hand.

Lin Changmin graduated from Waseda University and was good at poetry and calligraphy. He was the chief justice of Beiyang government. She is highly respected by the outside world, but she is lukewarm to his wife He Xueyuan, and her mother is not satisfied with her father. She was naturally unloved when she was young, and even left many unpleasant memories in her heart.

She once lived with her grandparents. When she was 5 years old, she was inspired by Aunt Lin Zemin and began to read and write. Because of her cleverness and hard work, she gradually gained the favor and appreciation of her father.

There are many talented people in forestry, and they attach great importance to the education of the younger generation. /kloc-at the age of 0/2, he entered Beijing Peihua Girls' Middle School run by the British Church.

The new education has made her see a different world, broadened her horizons and increased her knowledge. Smart and sensible children are always pleasing. 1920, when her father traveled to Europe, she also took 16-year-old Lin.

During this period, she met her father's disciple poet Xu Zhimo. Xu Zhimo is seven years older than Lin, and he is married and has children. However, the young Lin made him very excited and even wrote many romantic love poems for her.

Love is the inspiration of creation. The letter is full of love and talent. Under his guidance, Lin fell in love with new poetry and embarked on the road of literature.

In order to show his love for her, Xu Zhimo abandoned his wife and son and became the first divorced man in the Republic of China. However, she knows that Xu Zhimo's love for Lin is not the real me, but the poet's romantic feelings. Actually, I'm not that kind of person.

After returning to China, Lin, aged 17, continued to study at Peihua Girls' Middle School in Beijing. She is also a frequent visitor to the Crescent Society founded by Xu Zhimo and Hu Shi. She has appeared in the poetic drama Zidra by Indian poet Tagore and performed Princess Zidra in English.

From 65438 to 0924, Tagore's visit to China was accompanied by Xu Zhimo and Lin, both of whom acted as translators, which drew a satisfactory conclusion for Tagore's visit to China.

Join hands with Liang Sicheng to realize a dream * * * round architecture.

This year, 20-year-old Lin showed her outstanding talent. In the same year, she and Liang Sicheng went to the United States to study architecture. This dream was planted when she traveled to Europe.

Lin Liang and Lin Liang are family friends. Liang Qichao and Lin Changmin appreciate each other and have a deep friendship, so they have a good idea to repair Qin Jin.

However, those who have received new education do not advocate arranged marriage, but only guide them to create opportunities for their two children to get to know each other and let them develop free love.

19 19 years, under the careful arrangement of the two fathers, the two met for the first time, and the beautiful forest showed Liang Sicheng for thousands of years.

Two years later, they met again. One was a well-informed, young and beautiful talented woman, and the other was a charming and knowledgeable genius in Tsinghua. They hit it off and chatted happily. Lin made Liang Sicheng fall in love with himself and architecture.

This meeting allowed Liang Sicheng to confirm two things. First, he wants to pursue Lin. Second, he wants to pursue architecture for life.

Parents are happy to see the love between two young people, but they hope that they can become lovers who walk hand in hand, instead of getting married for the sake of marriage and becoming a shackle that binds their growth.

When both of them graduated from the University of Pennsylvania, their engagement and wedding were put on the agenda. 1928, 24-year-old Lin and 27-year-old Liang Sicheng got married in Ottawa, Canada, and became people holding hands for life.

Marrying a woman was moved by Kim.

When Jin first met Lin, he followed his good friend Xu Zhimo to the salon party hosted by Lin and Liang Sicheng. Lin likes literature and making friends.

Therefore, her home, often a wedding, was the "wife's living room" that many literati were keen on at that time. They shared common interests and had a good talk. Lin's demeanor and tolerance made Jin fall for it, and Jin's wisdom and maturity also convinced Lin.

Jin, who is nine years older than Lin, has become a frequent visitor to Lin's family. In order to see Lin from time to time, he even moved to live next door to her.

Although Kim met her at the latest among the three men who loved her, Kim came from behind and soon occupied a place in Lin's heart.

Jin and Liang Si Chengdu are aboveboard gentlemen. They will not take advantage of people's danger, nor will they slander people for no reason. Some things are well known, but not smart enough to find out, which makes this relationship unbalanced.

Until one day on 193 1, 27-year-old Lin told Liang Sicheng in dismay: I am very upset. I seem to be in love with two people at the same time. I don't know what to do.

Lin's words kept Liang Sicheng awake all night. He's worried. After much consideration, he could not bear to embarrass his wife. He told her gently: who you love is your freedom. If you choose Laojin, I wish you happiness forever.

Unexpectedly, this generosity also saved his marriage. After listening to Lin's retelling, Jin told her: In my opinion, Sicheng really loves you. I can't hurt someone who really loves you. I think I should quit.

Since then, they have returned to the situation of good friends. Although they broke enough paper and kept their promise, they let go of their bad feelings.

Jin is still a frequent visitor to their family, a peacemaker between their husband and wife, and a mediator of an incident dispute. However, he not only guarded Lin all his life, but also regarded her children as his own.

What you have to say.

Lin Yin Hui is not a woman who can only sit and talk. Compared with her literary achievements, she devoted her life to the development and research of architecture.

My husband and I traveled all over 15 provinces and 190 counties in the motherland, and surveyed and protected 2738 ancient buildings.

She is the main designer of the national emblem of China people and a member of the design leading group of the Monument to the People's Heroes. As a talented woman, her achievements are far more dazzling than her love story.

This beautiful and intelligent woman died in 1955 at the age of 5 1 year.

At this time, Xu Zhimo has been dead for 24 years, and only Liang Sicheng and Jin are still in pain. They were once immersed in the pain of losing her.

In a special era, the tombstone she built in Babaoshan Revolutionary Cemetery was also destroyed.

In order to let her rest in peace, the children once endured pain until that time went away.

Liang Sicheng spoiled and protected her all his life, but at the age of 6 1, he tied the knot with Zhu Lin, who was 27 years younger than her, and gave a big banquet.

Only Kim was heartbroken. He sat in front of Lin's grave with a pot of wine and drank all night. ...

One day after Lin died many years ago, he called his friends just to give her another birthday. After Lin and his wife died, he lived with the children and guarded them.

05 conclusion

Some people say: Lin gave her love to Xu Zhimo, her marriage to Liang Sicheng and her children to Jin. However, how can you share some things so clearly?