Lu You (1125—1210), a writer, historian and patriotic poet in the Southern Song Dynasty, was born in Yuezhou, Yinshan, and was of Han nationality. Lu Yousheng was deeply influenced by family patriotism when he was a teenager. During Song Gaozong's time, he took the examination of the Ministry of Rites, but his career was not smooth because of a dispute with Qin Heng's grandson. After Song Xiaozong acceded to the throne, he was given a Jinshi background, and was attacked by the pacifists because he advocated resisting gold, and was repeatedly relegated. After Song Guangzong acceded to the throne, he served as a doctor in the Department of Rites and an examiner in the Recording Institute. Later, he was dismissed from office for "mocking romantics" and returned to his hometown. Lu You persisted in writing all his life, leaving more than 9,300 poems and essays, all of which had high artistic achievements. His writing is concise and fluent, rigorous and clear. He has both Li Bai's boldness and boldness and Du Fu's melancholy and sadness, and his patriotic poems have a far-reaching influence on later generations. But what we are talking about is not Lu You's literary achievements and patriotic feelings, but his love story with Tang Wan.
Lu You and Tang Wan are said to be relatives, but according to scholars' research, they may not be relatives. But at the beginning of their love story, the perfect person set up "When you, my lover, ride a bamboo horse, trot in circles, throw your childhood friends", so they were childhood friends, so they never guessed. Just like an ordinary love story, 20-year-old Lu You married 15-year-old Tang Wan, and gave Lu You's ancestral phoenix hair pin to Tang Wan as a token of love. After marriage, the two hit it off and were inseparable. After five years of life as a fairy couple, they still did not escape the problem of countless talents for thousands of years-the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Lu Mu thinks that Lu You's obsession with Tang Wan has killed Lu You's fighting spirit for fame. Later, Lu Mu begged the nun to make a divination and said that Tang Wan wanted to kill her. Finally, Lu Mu made up his mind to ask Lu You to divorce Tang Wan on the grounds that there was no queen. In which feudal era, Lu You could not disobey his mother's orders, so he had to divorce Tang Wan and drive him out of the house.
Lu You, who just divorced his wife, didn't urge Tang Wan to return to the Tang family, but bought another clause, put Tang Wan in it, and often went to which clause and Tang Wan's private meeting. These days didn't last long. Lu Mu discovered the abnormality of Lu You. In order to completely separate Lu You from Tang Wan, she married Wang You, the daughter of an official family in Sichuan, and publicized it. Tang was also very angry with Liu Mu, so he took Tang Wan back and married Zhao Shicheng, who admired Tang Wan at that time. Zhao Shicheng is a well-known family in the local area, with a well-off family, personable demeanor and unswerving loyalty to Tang Wan. He didn't dislike the rumors of Tang Wan's remarriage and infertility, and was very good to Tang Wan. In this way, Tang Wan's life can be said to have turned a new chapter. But a few years later, Lu You ran into Tang Wan in Shenyuan. Zhao Shicheng was generous, too. He didn't care too much about Lu You and Tang Wan's past, and took the initiative to entertain Lu You. Tang Wan also offered a glass of wine to Lu You with the consent of her husband Zhao Shicheng. It is supposed that things here should be harmonious and beautiful, but Lu You couldn't resist his talent and wrote the first poem "Hairpin Phoenix" on the wall of Shenyuan Garden.
Bare hands, rattan wine, spring willow in the city. The east wind is evil, and the feelings are thin. A cup of sorrow, I haven't seen you for years. No, no, no.
Spring is the same, people are empty, and tears are red and sad. Peach blossom falls, idle pool pavilion, although the mountain alliance is there, it is difficult to hold books. Momomo.
In the spring of the following year, Tang Wan visited Shenyuan alone, and inadvertently saw Hairpin Phoenix written by Lu You in Shenyuan. Tang Wan is very talented. When she saw Lu You's remorse and deep feelings between the lines, she couldn't help but have mixed feelings. As a young woman, Tang Wan casually wrote another "Hairpin Phoenix" next to Lu You's "Hairpin Phoenix" and chimed in:
The world is thin, human feelings are evil, and it is easy to fall when the rain is sent late; The breeze is dry, the tears are broken, and it's hard to think, so hard, so hard, so hard.
People become different, today is not yesterday, and the sick soul tastes like a thousand ropes; The horn is cold and the night is dim. I am afraid of being asked. I swallow my tears and pretend to be happy. I hide and hide.
Tang Wan's fate is just like what she said in her words, "A sick soul tastes like a fleeting time". After Shen Yuan left, she died in the autumn of the same year. As for the cause of Tang Wan's death, some people say it was because Lu You was double suicide. Actually, I really don't like headaches. I prefer the rumor that Tang Wan died in secular life. As far as Lu You's Hairpin Phoenix is concerned, he should be aboveboard in Shenyuan. Don't openly say how much you and Tang Wan love each other as before, and now I can't let her go, but in a word, in the Song Dynasty, where the ethical code is strict, even if Zhao Shicheng would believe her as before, how would Tang Wan face those rumors?
Those who advocated Lu You's "infatuation" with Tang Wan even fell in love with Tang Wan for several years with a poem "Hairpin Phoenix", and abandoned Tang Wan only because her mother had a hard life. Indeed, in the moral concept of patriarchal clan system, if Lu You disobeys his mother's life, he will be dismissed as unfilial, which will affect his career and even lose his inheritance right. Similarly, the love story between Shen Fu and his mother was forced to divorce by her mother, but Shen Fu. Tang Wan's death made Lu You's story have deep feelings, but I didn't know that it was the gossip dagger woven by Lu You's "Hairpin Phoenix" that stabbed Tang Wan to death.
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