Therefore, articles about this are overwhelming, and it is not uncommon to bite off the hand that feeds you.
After reading these articles, I can't help but feel a little worried. Will "a pot of soup will be broken because of a mouse excrement" from now on, and will many people with positive energy disappear?
There is no denying that there are really some people in this world who take advantage of the kindness of others, borrow money and not pay it back, and use others to become baiwenhang.
There is a good saying: it is an obligation for others to help you, and it is an obligation not to help you.
March 20 13 is the third year that I joined the volunteer of "Baby Go Home and Find Subnet". At that time, I used weekends and holidays to do public welfare with my friends.
That year in Changsha, a boy was separated from his parents at the age of 4 18 years. After comparing the volunteer information on the website, he finally did DNA verification in Changsha and found his biological parents. Once, that news became the most positive news event in Changsha.
At that time, because I was an administrator and volunteer of Hunan QQ group and worked in Changsha, I was assigned to be responsible for all his later affairs in Hunan, including media and police, and contacted for DNA comparison, and everything was done well. Finally, I escorted him home from 18 with a number of volunteers and the media police.
When we saw him and his family hugging and crying at the scene, we were all moved to tears. At that moment, we volunteers felt that all the efforts were worthwhile.
Those children who go home don't know how much effort and energy of caring volunteers he has condensed behind every successful case.
Later, the child we helped (we call all those who are looking for a home as children) returned to Hunan to live, and finally left the leaves and returned to the roots. At that time, he kindly called me Sister Lily, and I called him Little Brother.
Because in the same city, we still have contact occasionally, and he will send me messages of blessing during the Chinese New Year and the holidays. Seeing that he opened his own small company in Changsha, all our volunteers felt extremely gratified.
One day, he sent me a wechat, saying that he wanted to return the credit card and asked me to borrow 5,000 yuan for turnover, at most 15 days. I said: I am a working class with two children, and my economic conditions are not very good. At that time, there were only over 2,000 in Cary, and I also transferred 1 0,000 to him.
Later, in the most difficult and helpless time, I tried to find him several times and said no. Later, the phone did not answer, and the information did not return. ....
Because 1000 yuan, his character and I completely fell. But I won't stop volunteering because of this.
I met another parent who lost a child in Jiayuan. com, Mama Luo, which touched me many times. Her son was abducted in kindergarten when he was 4 years old. He should be 19 now. The couple searched all over the country for many years, but they still couldn't find it.
Every time we meet and participate in activities, she will be full of gratitude and guilt to us, whether or not she has brought information about her son. In the process of finding my son, I have also helped many children who have been abducted since childhood and are looking for a home when they grow up. She made us think that if her son didn't find it, God help us.
Every activity, I hope to find the media to help her promote more. Maybe one day, his son will see his mother go through all kinds of hardships to find him, and maybe there will be a miracle.
In 20 14, by chance, I joined the charity organization of Pudutou in Changsha, which was not officially registered at that time. I participated in several activities and met some like-minded friends.
After 20 15 was officially registered in the Civil Affairs Bureau, it became a member of the board of directors of part-time financial accounting because of everyone's support and trust.
In the past three years, no matter where I am, I will take care of the accounts of the organization. I am in a foreign land, and my heart is at the ferry head.
Nothing seems to worry me so much except my family. This may be a belief, a responsibility and a mission.
At the Ferry Club, I met Brother Jian, Li Jie, Sha Jie, Teacher Chen, Jia, Brother Bin, Liping, Meng Meizhi, Brother Ze and other 18 people who contributed to the Ferry. They come from all walks of life, including civil servants, company bosses, part-time workers and government units.
No matter what their status is, we all become attached to public welfare and get along like brothers and sisters. For public welfare, rain or shine, regardless of spring, summer, autumn and winter.
We always feel that some things must be done by someone. If you don't do it, I won't do it, and neither will he. What should those who really encounter difficulties and need help do?
The public welfare of Changsha Ferry Head is mainly to help the disabled and study. There have been many criticisms in recent years, and many people don't understand us. But we have always adhered to this road, encouraging and supporting each other and never giving up.
We joked that taking the road of public welfare is a road of no return, because once it is done, it will never be completely quit.
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Although we can't verify whether these words are true or not, if they are true, I just want to say that those people deserve to be poor all their lives and never turn over. People who are ungrateful don't need help. Helping them may hurt them.
You should always understand that no one in this world owes you money, and others are willing to help you, not because they are rich or full, but because they have a kind heart, and they want to do something meaningful and become a role model for their children.
Last year, at the Ciba Festival of Songyahu Ecological Farm, I saw a circle of friends sent by Sister Li:
She said: I met a calligrapher who wrote an inscription for the head of the ferryman, and I also met many charitable friends. She was told that people who do charity are fools. Sister Li replied, "I just like being with fools."
Are kind people and people who do public welfare really stupid?
No, it's because they have an innate blood flowing through them. Tell them to be good people and accumulate virtues.
"Don't use small evils, don't use small goodness".
We are not stupid to do public welfare, and not everyone will help, especially those who don't know how to be grateful and repay the society. To help him is to hurt him in the future.
Someone once said: A public service advertisement is like a lamp. If the light is brighter, there will be less darkness around us. We believe that everyone's mind is like a window. When the window is open, light will come in.