Etiquette originated from the dining table. Under the influence of the society, economy, living habits and environment of old Beijing families, the dining table has its own unique culture and many family's "family banquets", "guest banquets" and "family banquets" in rice dishes-family banquets refer to the family's own festivals and banquets of various festivals; Banquets of guests, informal dinners of friends and relatives and gluttonous meals are common. Table manners in old Beijing are very cautious. Does it reflect value? In the long years, old Beijing has gradually constructed a table culture of "courtesy", "filial piety", "virtue" and "teaching" consciously or unconsciously. Dietary etiquette of "Li" drinks. It reflects the custom, etiquette and personal courtesy requirements formed by family and moral concepts. Family banquets and informal banquets are mainly "long" (parents and elders), and the main banquet is "closed". As a result, many rules have been formed to restrain families, especially to impose stricter restrictions on children. Forms and paternity tests before the ceremony. The form of the award ceremony is reflected in the form and etiquette, such as the choice of banquet facilities, the etiquette-level environment, the ceremony of creating atmosphere, and the preparation of utensils, all of which should reflect a kind of respect for the guests. Treat guests with courtesy, such as the principle that the first place is divided into the first place in a long banquet, arrange the seats according to the seniority, give priority to doctoral tutors, give priority to relatives and friends from afar, treat relatives and friends from poor families who need special care, exchange for a long time, toast frequently, and consciously introduce your "unique skills" such as chess, calligraphy and singing to guests. The housekeeper and servants are strictly required not to let these people go. Although guests can't choose "no" congratulations, toasts, conversations and dinners according to the guests and etiquette of each dinner, different dishes, quality grades and the characteristics of the restaurant, we should pay attention to the etiquette of the whole speech banquet. The host should introduce to all the important guests at the opening dinner, which will lead to concise and warm congratulations. The host should personally pour the wine for the waiter and toast the elders and guests, and can't be forced; Take the initiative to drink water on behalf of the guests and pay tribute to them; Guests of Wang Cuisine Department should pay attention to their eating habits. The quantity can't, can't, or they will be embarrassed. The owner should pay attention to extensive communication during the meeting, and don't heat him up. If ladies are content and respectful, they should also pay attention to the conversation. The host, not the previous guests, put down the dishes and chopsticks until the guests have finished eating. The host accompanied the distinguished guests, rinsed his mouth, washed his hands, and then found a seat for tea. In addition, in front of the guests, the host can't scold the children and servants. The host and guest's children objected to the Lord's saving his children and taking them away. No matter who is right or wrong, you should apologize to the other party, but you should not teach your child the experience in front of the guests, otherwise the guests will feel uncomfortable. Guest banquets generally do not involve children. I remember when I was a child, at a family dinner, I asked my children to know the rules, be respectful, be polite and be educated. Three things are forbidden: no eating. In the noisy rattle, it is not allowed to knock on the table or bowl with chopsticks, and it is not allowed to punch your mouth or be polite. Grandma said that eating empty gongs can't stand the sound of disgusting mouth. Under the table, let the children take the initiative, don't drag chairs and stools, and avoid making harsh sounds. This rule does not allow, what to say; Second, no bite is allowed. Is it the first time that a child burps continuously without moving chopsticks? Don't put it in your mouth. It is not allowed to wolf down food. You are not allowed to stand up and take folders that food cannot touch. Chopsticks are not allowed to pick grass at will. It is not allowed to go to the table alone. When his eyes are always fixed on food, he is not allowed to use chopsticks, eat, throw things into his mouth or spit. The most taboo is the chopsticks line of the children in the bowl, and children are absolutely not allowed to drink it. When two grandmothers like to tease their children at the dinner table, play some games and lose the program, they also make their children cleaner than anyone else and eat at the table meeting. The warm atmosphere is very strong. "Filial piety" family banquet should pay attention to respecting the old and loving the young. Not only does the younger generation respect the elder, but it also reflects the care of the elder for the younger generation. Therefore, the younger generation is more respectful and filial to the elderly and casts sincere filial piety in everyone's heart. "Virtue" is a character, and "concession and frugality" are the requirements for family drinking water dishes. "Everyone gives in to each other, don't rush to eat, let others eat first, even if they eat, there is no resentment, and the primary requirement for this is to eat and drink moderately, not to overeat, not to make people drink too much, and not to get drunk." Thrift "can't be wasted, especially children can't waste food. These two grandmothers are often asked to keep chopsticks and take home dishes that have never appeared on the table after a luxurious banquet. " Teach "delicious drinks and family education." Through oral tradition, she subtly inherited the old rules and etiquette through words and deeds. Grandma, together with a tutor, always needs a few children who are teachers to "give lectures", point them out according to the new requirements given to them by the fashionable society, see bad phenomena, let them know what to do and what not to do, and educate them on diet. Under the influence of etiquette, filial piety, morality and religion, children develop good eating habits, thus forming a cultural dining table that emphasizes etiquette, filial piety, homework and psychological behavior, which is also a microcosm of old Beijing culture.
Campus etiquette takes care of public property. Some people may think that this is a cliche, because kindergarten children can say a few slogans, "It is shameful to take care of public property and destroy it", even though it is everyone's responsibility to take care of public property. But in real life, what should we do? Attentive friends will find widespread destructive behaviors on campus: students do not hesitate to find shortcuts to close the lawn, accidentally break it, and play with classroom doors and windows; In the outdoor sports campus, people's dining tables, chairs, handrails and garbage erupt, and graffiti is often seen on tables and chairs ... Have you ever thought that these behaviors, whether intentional or unintentional, have caused property losses to the public and brought unnecessary troubles to other students' study and life, but they have also increased costs and maintained the public property of the school, which is not a small expense? Whenever I see these uncivilized behaviors, you may frown and whisper: Ew! Yes, what these people lack is "public morality". They don't pay attention to social morality and they don't obey. They have never reached the level of "masters". They are public property, and public property is the same project. Everyone has the responsibility to take care of public property. "No virtue, no status, no fashion. The moral quality of citizens embodies the spirit of a nation-state and affects the rise and fall of a country's cause. A person's words and deeds often show the level of personal quality, which in turn affects the overall quality status of the whole collective. No matter the public protection facilities, a little pressure can reflect a certain degree of moral quality, no matter whether the school spirit is good or bad; Stress also reflects a country's civilization, national quality and level. The main content of the Outline of Civic Morality Construction is "Promulgating Public Morality" and "being polite, helping others, caring for public property, protecting the environment and abiding by the law". As citizens of People's Republic of China (PRC), we should regulate our behavior. The ancients said, "You have done well, don't do it just because you are evil. "In fact, a caring heart is very simple and common in schools that care for public property and abide by rules and regulations. We can guarantee the normal use of complete public facilities. Student etiquette, students' appearance, appearance, manners, etiquette and dress: the age characteristics of primary and secondary school students should conform to their daily wear, especially to their identity, neat and generous. * * * Youth League and Young Pioneers wear red scarves or badges. Students don't wear makeup, jewelry or perms, and boys don't have long hair. Attend the rally and sit up straight when listening. Sit-in: The head and neck are straight, and the upper body is perpendicular to the back of the chair. Upright: Upright, with the upper body and legs perpendicular to the ground. Out of tune: correct walking posture, moderate stride and strong voice. The walking distance between the corridor and the classroom should be light. Walk in the street and shake your shoulders and hips with your right hand instead of walking side by side. Instruments that meet the comprehensive requirements of medium civilization. Talking about communication, sincerity, language and civilization. Interpersonal skills, natural expression, generous action. 2. Students' body language etiquette Smile and friendly expression: Some people say that they don't show their teeth and their mouths are slightly upturned. Bowing: the etiquette of subordinates to superiors, elders and individual groups. Bow, take off your hat, stand at attention and look at each other with a smile. Your face and upper body lean forward, naturally bend down and look down. Sometimes I am deeply grateful that my upper body can be deeply regenerated. Shake hands: Meeting or saying goodbye is the most common courtesy, but it is also a courtesy to express gratitude, sympathy, congratulations or encouragement. Before shaking hands, he stood up, took off his gloves and handled it with his right hand and other rights. When shaking hands, look at each other and smile. Under normal circumstances, it is not difficult to shake hands. Stick to it. Can tolerate an old friend, hold his hand tightly and greet him. Many people shake hands without crossing until others shake hands, and then turn the handle with their hands. Show: Raise your hand and nod when you see strangers or farewell guests in public places in the distance. Applause: This is a thank-you for the joy and welcome etiquette. The hands beat rhythmically, and the applause was appropriate and timely. On campus, walking up and down stairs and corridors, or on the street, on the right side of the road, salute to the right. When you meet teachers, guests, parents, young people, women, disabled people and soldiers, when you go out, take the initiative to open the door, stand aside and let them go first. 3. Basic etiquette honorific for students to talk with citizens: elders, friends or acquaintances say "you". Teachers and social workers call their offices, or "teachers", "masters", "uncles" and "aunts" don't call their names. Ask others to say "please"; Say hello to people and say "hello". Say goodbye to those who break up, and say sorry to those who are in trouble. Others thanked them and replied, "Never mind. People who get help and thanks say "thank you". 4. Raise the national flag and sing the national anthem. The students attending the ceremony dressed neatly, tied their pants, put on red scarves and hats and stood in front of the flagpole. Don't talk, walk or do anything else. When the national flag is raised and the national anthem is played, the Young Pioneers will stand at attention, stand up straight, put their fingers together, hold their heads high, stare at their eyes and give gifts until the national flag reaches the top of the pole, indicating that the interests of the people are above everything else. The national anthem is a musical form in the national symbol. The Standing Committee of the National People's Congress is paying attention to the national anthem, looking forward, with solemn expression, correct lyrics, accurate tone and loud and clear voice. 5. Enter the school at school etiquette. When you meet the teacher for the first time, stop bowing at attention and say hello: "Good teacher". If you have been a good principal for a long time, you can nod and say hello, and you can also nod and wave when you meet students. Stand up in class, stand on the upper side of the seat, hang your hands naturally, and pay attention to the teacher. The correct operation is to sit in a chair, put your right elbow on the table, put your right fingers together on your arm, and talk to other teachers with your fingertips up. Enter the teacher's office or dormitory and shout "report" or knock at the door. If you hear a voice in a gentle social interaction indoors, you must knock at the door first and enter other people's rooms without permission. 6. Students' welcome etiquette Guests visit, stand up and say hello with a smile and take the initiative to say hello: "Hello!" "Welcome!" Stand up and answer the guest's questions. Put the guests in their seats, and use bottled water to show the guests who are running away from their parents. After the guests leave, stand up and send them outside. For the first time, students' family etiquette asked their elders to sit by themselves, so they should be polite when eating. Before leaving home, my parents said hello: "I'm leaving, goodbye!" " "Go home and say, I'm back!" "When parents leave home or go home, they take the initiative to say hello and hand over the selected items.
Mide etiquette
Makeup etiquette 1, the light of makeup is relatively concentrated, depending on the time and occasion. 2. Be a public place without makeup. 3, don't be a man in front of makeup, don't criticize other people's composition. 5. Don't borrow other people's cosmetics. 6. Which one of you doesn't wear a lot of makeup? Dressing up your manners should pay attention to the characteristics of the times and reflect the spirit of the times; 2, pay attention to personal personality should be consistent with their own figure Li Bai-en taboo 1, too trendy hairstyle and hairstyle taboo 3, make-up taboo 4, face, lips and white taboo 5, dress up too sexy taboo 7, play "golden taboo 8 feet" every day platform shoes "Four too trendy taboo chopsticks taboo Generally, when we use chopsticks, the correct way is to press the chopsticks with the thumb and forefinger at the top of the right chopsticks. When using, chopsticks must be neatly packed in the rice bowl on the right before meals and neatly packed in the rice bowl in the middle after meals. However, using the following twelve kinds of chopsticks is absolutely taboo. 1, three long and two short: this shows that the length of chopsticks on the dining table is arrhythmia before or during meals. This practice is very unfortunate. We usually call it sitting in the waiting room. It means "death". Because in the past, after the death of China people, people put them in coffins and put them into the future, but there was no coffin cover. There were two short boards before and after, and three long boards at the bottom of both sides were put together, and a coffin board appeared. Therefore, this is a very unlucky day. Pawn: It is extremely laborious to use chopsticks in this way. Hold chopsticks with your thumb and middle finger, ring finger and little finger, and extend your index finger. The so-called "city full of streets" in the eyes of Beijingers. Because eating the index finger is prolonged, it generally means that the index fingers of Chinese and Beijingers mostly quote each other in the meaning of accusation. So eating with chopsticks and pointing fingers is tantamount to accusing others, and the same curse is not allowed. Besides, it also means eating with chopsticks with others and alone. Chopsticks: That's not enough. At one end of your chopsticks, you suck back in your mouth, not the sound of iron plate. This is considered to be *. It is impolite to put chopsticks in your mouth, and the sound of food and drink is even more annoying. Therefore, this kind of behavior usually happens: a beggar holds chopsticks to beg for food, because only beggars were beaten before, and the practice of setting a rice basin with chopsticks will be considered as a lack of family education and cannot be allowed. The voice in the mouth is accompanied by begging and charity for pedestrians. This practice is considered extremely contemptible and contemptuous by others. Administrative tour of the city: this kind of behavior of patrolling vegetables with chopsticks, as well as chopsticks that are used by people who don't know where they got them. This behavior is typical of lack of training and arrogance. 6, fans and chopsticks to dig graves: This means that you can't pick up chopsticks to find prey, just like robbing a grave to dig a grave. This method is similar to the tour of the city with fans and chopsticks, which is both uneducated and boring. 7. Tears: In fact, this is the soup of their dishes on your plate. They are holding chopsticks awkwardly, and other dishes live on the table. This practice is considered to be a serious faux pas, and it is also undesirable. Trading places: This means that people who use chopsticks upside down are very despised. As the saying goes, beggars, so it is absolutely impossible to face such chopsticks. 9. Dinghai Shenzhen: When eating, hold a dish with chopsticks. This is not, considering the dining staff at the same table, this is a shame. It is not enough for congress to make such a move as the expansion of the European people. 10, burning incense in public places, often inviting others to dinner, in order to facilitate and save trouble, put a chopstick in the rice and hand it to each other. People will be disrespectful because the tradition in Beijing only burns incense. If rice is put into chopsticks, it is equivalent to burning incense after assimilation. Therefore, it is absolutely unacceptable to put chopsticks in a bowl. 1 1, cross: This is usually ignored. Chopsticks are casually crossed on the table to eat. Peking man who got 10 at the dinner table denied that everyone else was at the same table. If the students do something wrong, it is wrong and unacceptable for a son of the same nature to hit the teacher here 10. In addition, this practice is also disrespectful. In the past, the prosecution only scored 12, which will undoubtedly deny itself, which is not enough. 12, landing stunned: The so-called "landing stunned" does not see chopsticks falling on the ground on average, which is a serious rude performance. The ancestors of Beijingers are buried underground and should not be disturbed. Putting chopsticks on the ground is tantamount to disturbing the ancestors in the underground. This is a great unfilial act, so this kind of behavior is not allowed. However, this is illegal. But the chopsticks on the floor should move quickly along the direction in which the chopsticks land. They sat on the ground and drew a cross. The first thing after the direction is not to disturb the ancestors of the north and the south, and then the chopsticks in your mouth should be at the same time. audit
For ordinary people's life, the basic etiquette, manners and manners are often combined in front of the public, so as not to show impolite attention, and then it is actually quiet and beautiful-the etiquette of sitting in public places, but the biggest test can best reflect people's temperament and beauty. Correct and standardized etiquette requires dignified and elegant sitting posture, giving people a gentle, steady and natural aesthetic feeling. As an act, sitting has beauty and ugliness, elegance and correct manners. Sitting posture requires "sitting like a clock", which means that people's grandfather sits at the end of the clock like this, and of course his upper body is straight (1 vulgar. ) light, steady and slow. Go to your seat and sit down quietly. It is inappropriate to sit in a chair. You need to move the chair. You should sit in the chair first, then sit down. Although it is against social etiquette to move around in a chair. (2) Relaxation in the air (lips slightly closed, jaw slightly closed, calm and natural). Etiquette code (3) Shoulders should be flat and relaxed. On the armrest of a chair or sofa, it is best to be natural and decent, with palms down. (4) Sit in a chair, stand up straight, hold out your chest, and straighten your upper body naturally. (5) naturally put your knees together, put your legs on one side, put your feet together or overlap, or form a small "V" shape. A man's knee is separated by a fist or so. In the state of feet, you can take small eight-character steps or separate them slightly to show natural joy and beauty, but you don't necessarily enjoy opening your legs, which will appear vulgar and arrogant. If you sit for a long time, your legs cross and overlap, but pay attention to the recovery of the upper legs, with your toes down. (6) Sitting in a chair, at least 2/3 of the chair should be filled, and the sofa with a wide seat should be more than 1/2. Sit for at least 10 minutes and don't lean back. Long time no see. Bright back. (7) According to the direction of the rapper, the upper body and knees turn to the upper body of the rapper, keep straight, and do not have a posture of inferiority, compliment or flattery. Etiquette, respect others, but can't afford to lose self-esteem. (8) Leave your seat naturally, put your right foot on your back, walk half a step, and then stand up. (9) The small rope on the dress skirt where the woman sits in her hand. If she doesn't sit down, then she will pull the skirt, which is very elegant. On formal occasions, you usually sit in the chair on the left and stay awake. When you want to leave the chair on the left, it is polite, especially when the lady sits gracefully, quietly and gently, with her legs together and her feet stacked on her left and right legs at the same time. If you sit with your legs crossed and overlapped for a long time, you should pay attention to the recovery of your thighs and point your toes down, giving people a noble and generous feeling. (10) Men and women need to sit on their sides, with their upper bodies and legs turned to the same side at the same time, but forward, keeping their heads. (1 1) As a president, it is not suitable to sit in a dispensable chair. It can be horizontal, with or without armrests and backrest. Hands, legs and feet can also be placed in different ways, with legs separated or four legs closed. (12) The most decent seat in the restaurant starts with the seat on the left. When pulling a chair, the hostess who stands up straight and almost touches the table will push the chair to her hamstring. Run behind the chair and you can sit down. Sit upright with your upper body backlit. Don't put your chin on your hands, and don't put your elbows on the table. Don't let it happen often, or move your seat. When eating, keep the upper arm and back at the distance between the back, abdomen and table about a fist. It is best to avoid sitting with your legs crossed. (13) Sitting in jeans, first one foot sits to support the weight of the body, and the toes and ankles of the other foot are opposite to the feet. You can also sit cross-legged, stand on tiptoe and put your hands on your knees. Sitting in a chair, you can't be too nervous, let it sit in an elegant posture. Sit up straight, but not stiff. Don't put your chin on your hands, and don't put your elbows on the table. Don't fiddle with tableware and napkins at will, and avoid some inappropriate behaviors and postures, such as taking off your coat and wearing a tie at will.