Bright or dark, blur your eyes, distort your three views, lick the dog or send you to the perfect altar intentionally or unintentionally. Once the fog clears, you will find yourself standing on the edge of a cliff and may break into pieces at any time.
I have to admit that women join the popular camp every day, among which 18-28-year-old bonus women have become the main force of the camp.
Under the attack of countless suitors, their cognition of themselves gradually deviates, which further leads to the extreme expansion of the concept of mate selection. They are more than 1.8 meters tall, and it is best to have abdominal muscles. It is best to be overbearing and gentle, rich and idle, but the social situation is that such men are rare.
Licking dogs creates such a strange circle with their own hands. Their infinite connivance has created the goddess' super-high standard of mate selection, which can never be achieved by licking dogs. The final result requires both parties to pay the bill together. Licking dogs will never catch up with their own goddesses, and those "goddesses" will never find satisfactory people.
1. Why are there no lower limits for so many men to pursue women?
Whether we admit it or not, our bones are still permeated with China's moral consciousness for thousands of years. When a man pursues a woman, he always feels that the better he is to her, the easier it is to succeed. Be caring and attentive, offer tea and water, and be on call.
Objectively speaking, the relationship between men and women is not equal. Licking dogs actively reduces their own value, attributes failure to themselves, and firmly believes that as long as they change themselves, they will succeed, so they constantly lower their bottom line.
The ratio of male to female in our country further worsens this unequal pursuit relationship. In the environment where there are far more boys than girls, women can choose from many men, and men must be able to do what ordinary people can't do and endure what ordinary people can't stand if they want to stand out from many competitors. This vicious competition obliterates the bottom line that a normal suitor should have. They often give up their dignity and become tool people in the mouth of female friends.
Under the double blow of the harsh external environment and profound internal domestication, most male friends often have to put aside their face if they want to find a partner successfully, and some even dare not refuse the excessive demands of girls. With their repeated investment, their sinking cost is getting higher and higher, just like gamblers who cover their eyes. They can't accept their failure, so they don't want to give up and can't stop loss in time, even though the goddess has rejected him many times.
2. How to lick a dog?
Before talking about licking dogs, we should distinguish between intimacy and licking dogs, because it is understandable to show goodwill in the process of pursuing the opposite sex. Sentient people can calmly face the fact of failure and sincerely bless each other after putting it down, but there is no failure in the dictionary of licking dogs, and they firmly believe that one day they will succeed. Secondly, the kindness of passionate people is principled, just like a gentle breeze, which can always make the other person feel comfortable and know how to refuse the unreasonable demands of the other party. Licking a dog has no bottom line and dignity.
Licking the dog will never understand the goddess' refusal. Send a message to the goddess. If the goddess doesn't come back, then send ten, but it's really not twenty. If the goddess can take time out of her busy schedule to return to one, they will feel a step closer to the goddess.
I saved money for two months just to buy a bag for the goddess. After saying good night to him, the goddess praised other people's circle of friends. He comforted himself that the goddess must have been stolen. Even the goddess scolded him, and he was worried that she would be angry.
It is their blind optimism and stubbornness that distort an intimate relationship. Blindly pleasing not only makes them lose their charm, but also puts their goddess in an extremely dangerous situation.
Girls, before accepting flowers and compliments, think more about whether they are worth it.
Although we can't always look at our soul like Ji Bolun's poems, we should at least have a general orientation of ourselves. Know your own advantages, and don't ignore your own shortcomings.
When others pursue you, they will often amplify your advantages, or even fabricate some advantages, infinitely narrow your shortcomings and shape a perfect you. When you face so many flowers and praises, can you still find your true self?
Once you lose yourself in it, even you feel that you are too perfect, you should find someone who matches you. At this time, the people around you can't get into your eyes. You are very picky, your eyes are above the top. With the growth of age and the failure of face bonus, the group of people you didn't like at first have already got married.
There are also a group of girls who live in the illusion created by others, stay in that comfort zone and are unwilling to work hard, and naturally accept gifts from others, but what you don't know is that others may pay without complaint because of your face value or your talent. What should you do once these things are gone?