When I think of detachment, I think of Su Dongpo. This lovely old man is the object of my heart's longing for communication. "I can accompany the Jade Emperor, and I can accompany a beggar in British Columbia. There is no bad person in the world before my eyes. "
He deeply loves life, and every character is deeply involved in the play.
There are abandoned platforms on the northwest wall of Zhucheng, and Su Shi had them reinforced and built. "I will enjoy watching its mountains and rivers with my attendants." His younger brother, Su Zhe, named "Transcendental" according to the meaning of "Although he has a glorious view and is detached from Yan" in Laozi, and praised it as "Transcendental Taiwan Fu".
Transcendence, that is, the meaning of transcending the world and being happy with know life, later led to the birth of Su Shi's Transcendental Tales, which made it a masterpiece through the ages.
be an interesting person. According to Lin Yutang, Su Dongpo is "a court official, a scholar who studies hard, an optimist whose nature is hard to change, a moralist who shows compassion for others, a prose writer, a new painter, a great calligrapher, a wine-making experimenter, an engineer, an opponent of hypocrisy, a practitioner of yoga, a Buddhist, a scholar-bureaucrat, a secretary of the emperor, and a drinker.
In essence, he is a curious person, an untimely person and an interesting person.
have unlimited games. James Cass, a professor at new york University in the United States, wrote a book "Finite and Infinite Games", which mentioned a concept: "There are at least two kinds of games in the world, one is limited games, aiming at winning; The other is an unlimited game, which aims to continue the game. "
Classical said in "The Transition": "The so-called detachment means that you are deeply involved in every limited game, but you still have the ability to jump out of the infinite game."
He believes that success is a limited game and growth is an infinite game; Life is a finite game, and meaning is an infinite game. For Su Dongpo, talent and character are infinite games.
independent self-awareness. Zhuangzi's wife died in his later years, and Hui Shi offered his condolences. When he walked in, he found Zhuangzi sitting on the ground, singing while knocking on the basin. In the face of Hui Shi's accusation, Zhuangzi said that his wife moved from birth to death like the time series evolution of spring, summer, autumn and winter, from a small room where people lived to a big room between heaven and earth. If she cried at this time, she would not understand the law of life operation.
The seven sages of bamboo forest in Wei and Jin Dynasties are romantic and unrestrained, not stuck in things, like to be independent, and often get together to drink and sing songs, so they are detached from things. Ji Kangshan's guqin, Shan Tao's comments, Xiang Xiu's fine poetry and Fu, and Liu Ling's love of wine, to name a few. Liu Ling told people to follow him with a hoe on their backs, saying that they would be buried on the spot when they were drunk. This old man, full of joy, was world-weary to a special extent.
and the dance of uncertainty. Adults are boring because they are accustomed to a regular life and lack curiosity about the world. According to statistics, preschool children will ask their parents an average of 1 questions, especially 4-year-old girls, who can reach 49 questions. However, when adults get used to the world, many people no longer ask "why".
in their view, everything should be in a rut, or it should follow the rules. However, how long can the principles and laws bind us?
Ri Dalio's Principles have attracted much attention. Some people think that it is because it states the basic law of wealth accumulation. In fact, as a principle of life, it is not linked to wealth. Too many kind people who abide by the principle have spent their lives in poverty and hardship.
According to the classical view, pluralism, detachment and curiosity are the attitudes towards uncertain life, embracing the occasional, and dancing with uncertainty.
it's so fun, where can I live with a straight face?
admit that there is nothing you can do. In Syria, unmanned combat aircraft are aimed at hospitals and rescue convoys. The "Islamic State" beheaded people. Famine in East Africa killed millions of people, and domestic violence raged in countless countries. The world is full of atrocities, but you browse on your mobile phone. Is it really ok?
"What belongs to God belongs to Caesar, and what belongs to Caesar". This world is originally a struggle between the devil and God, and in the end it is bound to make a choice.
In "Men in Black", the earth is going to be destroyed, and Will Smith is anxious to inform the people of the earth. Tommy Lee Jones said to him, "There are many such things as alien warships and the invasion of the Black Death. People still live happily because they don't know."
Many things are beyond people's consideration. When people realize the darkness of this society, they can always maintain a positive form and strive to adapt and change, so they should be thankful.
You should lead a rich and decent life and avoid becoming a villain, which has contributed to building a better world. On this basis, if you have the ability to find appropriate strategies, you should help yourself and others face the suffering of the world.
don't seek approval from others. In any century, people have not touted impetuous, rushing and blind enthusiasm to such a high level as they do today. People urgently need affirmation and need others to praise them.
Some people say, "Social media has created a culture in which everyone becomes a micro-brand manager. They use Facebook, Twitter, text messages and photos to present a distorted, cheerful and energetic external self."
Rolf Doberi believes that we will become such a machine if we are not careful, because the instant feedback such as likes, comments and the number of fans forms a big net. Once you are covered by this net, it is difficult for you to get out and live a good life.
Because the whole world can send comments, tweets and messages aimed at you according to their own wishes. Hold you to the sky, and then step on it. In fact, people should do practical things and live in a way that they can accept. Even if you are in a high position or at home, it is your choice. Please don't care about other people's comments. Stick to your own heart, treat the external evaluation with a friendly, free and easy attitude, and your own opinion of yourself is the most important.
only in this way can you be detached. After all, a good life journey is as important as an elegant death.
Shuntaro Tanikawa has a poem named "I am me" in "Starry Sky in 3, Years":
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