Reprinted from Cherry Like Water - People who are nostalgic are very emotional.
Nine out of ten people are sad when they hear about love.
It’s not painful to like the new and dislike the old, but it’s unspeakably painful to dwell on it.
For people who stick to a love for decades, it’s not that they can’t meet a better person, but that they can no longer find the good memories that were carved in the course of their lives. It may not be famous, but it is irreplaceable.
People who are nostalgic will not live a good life after all. Every time I have free time, I dig it out and chew it. The memory that has just faded begins to be reborn. Some people may spend the rest of their lives paying homage to the past that has nothing to do with it. It doesn’t matter if they can’t look back. No matter how happy you are with the aftertaste, you are always immersed in the past and can't extricate yourself.
People who value emotions will not take the initiative to talk when they are upset. Even if you squander your time, you still want peace of mind.
People who are nostalgic are very emotional
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Either they don’t love, or they love deeply, it’s a nostalgia complex
It’s either black or white, and no gray areas are allowed.
People who are nostalgic are a little persistent, a little dedicated, and even a little stubborn. Once they fall in love, it will last a lifetime.
They seldom like anyone easily, and even more difficult to leave the meeting midway, or go against the grain. If they like someone, they will do their best to protect them, but if they don’t like them, they will reject them outright. They may seem cold, but in fact they are the most infatuated. .
Love is deep and true without words.
Either you don't love, or you love deeply. It is a kind of deep affection, and it is also a nostalgia complex. Only those who take their feelings seriously are worthy of such praise.
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It is not shameful to love only one person in your life, it is shameful to have never loved deeply
Some people will feel inferior and say: If you have only loved one person in your life, will you? Would it be particularly embarrassing?
In fact, too many people in the world long for such a kind of stability, where they can meet someone and then smile for the rest of their lives. Unfortunately, fate plays tricks on people, and most people are only envious and have no luck at all. live.
It is not shameful to love only one person in your life, but it is shameful to have never loved deeply.
It is the most pitiful thing to meet countless people who like and are liked, but there is no one and only one. Just imagine: How pitiful must it be for a person who does not even understand the taste of deep love for the rest of his life? Even though there is no shortage of likes and admiration around me, I have never been firmly chosen, or persisted in my choice.
The heart is always wandering. When will it stop and when will it start? It doesn’t matter if you say it or not. It doesn’t matter what others say. If you miss the mortal world, you will also miss the time. .
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I liked someone before, but I like someone now
The most advanced mode of nostalgia is probably "I liked someone before, but I like someone now" ".
We underestimate the power of perseverance and question the possibility of meeting again. In fact, you just need to have a clear conscience and leave it to fate whether it is worth it.
The only person you can control, besides yourself, is yourself. No matter how much you have the ability to move the wind and rain, no matter how much you have the ability to guide the country, loving and being loved will still be unique, and no one will be an exception.
The finishing touch of love is to combine self-love and lover into one.
People who like to use old household items are definitely not just a hobby of collecting. They are often either nostalgic for old friendships or attach great importance to feelings. They regard friendship as life, cherish it very much, be very grateful, and never lack the foundation.
People who are nostalgic are very emotional.