After the final exam, a boy from Hezhou, Guangxi, gave his father a job with a "handwritten certificate", which triggered a heated discussion.
The so-called "handwritten certificate" is written in black on a white background, which reads "First place in the exam, this certificate is specially issued as a reward", and even the official seal of the school is copied. Instead of being angry, the boy's father rewarded the boy 10 yuan.
If you don't investigate the ins and outs of things in detail, it's easy to fall into the narrative of "children getting better", which is followed by the feeling of "this is not bad". But in fact, the boy's father said that his son did this because he promised to get the "first place" before the exam. If he failed, he wrote a certificate with a brush.
Revelation:
Because from the streaming video in the second half, we can know that the boy's father actually has high requirements for his son (the calligraphy of writing brush is already very high), but when it seems to be "serious criticism", the boy's father chose to "skip it loosely".
According to the observation of German Chancellor Bismarck, even though it does reveal the differences in educational understanding between generations, parents should try their best to achieve a balance, that is, to go beyond their own experience to the maximum extent and teach students in accordance with their aptitude.
Only in this way can children get better survival skills and personality shaping between experience and transcendence.