A letter from parents to their daughter at the beginning of school.
Dear daughter:
Hello!
You are about to enter the fourth grade. My mother and I are a little excited and excited. We have seen our baby daughter grow taller and learn more! It's like seeing a tree carefully cultivated by our children. When we watch the trees grow tall and beautiful, we are happy, but at the same time we are worried. Will this tree continue to grow tall and become a pillar, or will it run away?
Want your daughter? Stand out from the crowd? Mu xiulin Yu? , is the dream of every parent. In fact, this is your dream, but it still takes a lot of effort to turn it into reality. No one in the world can succeed casually. Before success, God will definitely make this person go through hardships, such as Abraham, Jacob and Solomon, such as Jesus and Paul. Your idol is Fan Bingbing now, but do you know how many hardships she went through before she became famous? In Princess Pearl, Fan Bingbing played only one maid. Others only know Zhao Wei and Ruby Lin, but they don't know there is a Fan Bingbing. Later, Fan Bingbing made constant efforts. After playing a supporting role for many years, she seized the opportunity and finally played the No.1 female on the list of gods? By himself? , his enchanting and glamorous interpretation incisively and vividly, and finally achieved success. People often see a person's success, but ignore the efforts made by others before success. Dad wants you to know that every successful person has made extraordinary efforts and has been tested by countless failures and setbacks before he succeeded. Only those who always stick to their ideals, are not afraid of failure, keep working hard and never give up can achieve final success.
Dad is not a very patient person. In many ways, dad doesn't always insist. When my father was young, his composition was very good. My father wants to be a journalist and a writer. Later, when I went to college, my father thought I could go to a good university, but he refused to recommend me to the Chinese Department of Hunan Normal University. As a result, my father failed in the college entrance examination and was not admitted to a good university, and the conditions in our family did not allow me to repeat. I only went to a junior college to study accounting. Later, my father became a reporter of Yueyang Evening News through his own efforts, but under the pressure of livelihood, my father had to give up his career as a journalist and go to work in Shenzhen. From then on, he was far away from literature and became a man who lost his ideal. If my father chose to go back to senior three regardless of everything, if he later settled down to be a reporter and didn't give up for short hardships, then my father might not be like this. Come to think of it, dad thinks there are still many lessons to be learned.
This is a lesson in life, but it is not a regret. There are no regrets in the process of growing up, and all regrets are meaningless. ? If you don't work hard, the boss will be sad? My father's lesson is that he didn't work hard enough when he was a child, didn't study hard, especially didn't develop in an all-round way. Since entering junior high school, my father's Chinese performance is first-class, but my father doesn't like learning math or English. In addition, Chinese proficiency is often appreciated by relatives, friends and neighbors. Naturally, I am complacent. I spend more time on Chinese and less time on math and foreign languages. By the third year of high school, math and English have left many courses behind, and it is too late to catch up with others in a short time. So it is very normal to fail in the college entrance examination. Dad pays so much attention to your all-round development now, which is really inspired by the lessons of dad's failure in learning in the past! Chinese, mathematics and foreign languages, you should study hard and lay a good foundation for each subject. It is absolutely impossible to ignore something. After class, you hardly spend time on math, so at the beginning of this semester, my father will tell you some thinking methods of Olympic mathematics; Music can cultivate people's sentiment, make girls quiet and virtuous, cultivate girls' noble and elegant temperament, and at the same time develop people's left brain and improve people's intelligence level. Therefore, we must work hard to learn the electronic organ; Because I used to read too many extra-curricular books and didn't pay attention to eye hygiene, my eyesight dropped obviously. So at the beginning of this semester, dad also asked you to learn calligraphy and practice it correctly for a long time, which can improve your eyesight. At the same time, calligraphy can also cultivate people's sentiment and absorb the nutrients of China traditional culture.
Ah, courses in foreign language schools, such as Olympiad, electronic organ and calligraphy. Do you feel stressed? Do you think you have no time to play? Actually, it's not like this. As long as you have a scientific and reasonable schedule, you still have a lot of time to move freely. Usually a person wastes time, such as? Bored? We have more time than work and study combined. If we have a good plan, the efficiency of time can be more than doubled. Science shows that human beings have the strongest memory at six or seven o'clock in the morning and eight or nine o'clock in the evening, strong logical thinking ability in the morning and strong hands-on ability in the afternoon. So, why can't we do things according to human's own laws? This is arranged by God. Why should we go against God's will? Abiding by this learning rule can get twice the result with half the effort, and violating this rule is not worth the candle.
That's why dad always asks you to read aloud in the morning, because it is obeying God's will and his strength. Reading for an hour in the morning is equivalent to reading for two to three hours at other times. In the morning, you can learn mathematics and other related knowledge that requires brain thinking. At noon and after meals, you can practice writing for half an hour, rest for half an hour (lunch break should not be too long, which will lead to poor learning spirit in the afternoon), and do more hands-on things in the afternoon. After school in the afternoon, you can finish your homework first, then play the electronic organ or play freely. After dinner, you can take a walk, play the piano, listen to music or English with your parents and grandpa. At eight or nine o'clock in the evening, when the second memory peak of the brain comes, you can mainly listen or read along, and review what you read in the morning loudly. At the end of the day, you will feel full and meaningful.
dad
8.30
A letter from parents to their daughter at the beginning of school.
Dear daughter:
Tomorrow, you will report to the new school and formally become a middle school student.
From children to teenagers, from primary school? Happy education? To secondary education with fierce academic competition? I don't know if you're ready. I'm not ready anyway.
I'm still the father who used to pat your little face and twist your nose at any time.
I am still the father who is used to you sitting on my lap.
I'm still the father who doesn't trust you to go to school alone and always takes you to school.
I'm still the father who used to wash your face with clean water in the morning and evening and make fun of you.
Perhaps, from the bottom of my heart, I don't want to admit that you have grown up. In primary school, although there are academic requirements and interest cultivation, after all, the pressure is not great, and fortunately, you met an excellent class teacher, which made you feel happy at school and confident in class. That's enough. That's why I want to write a sincere thank-you letter to your class teacher before your graduation ceremony. Because there is no longer any utilitarian color, this letter has spread widely and caused great repercussions.
It is the teacher's tolerance and love that gives you a good environment to cultivate your initial heart and grow up happily. So here's the question. Entering junior high school, the relaxed learning environment will gradually tighten, the baton effect of scores will become more and more obvious, and the competition will become more and more fierce. Yes, the competition will be widespread in all aspects. Dear daughter, this is the price of growth and the necessity of growth. Are you ready?
Yesterday, August 2 1, you took the school entrance exam in the scorching sun.
In order to master the basic level of students and facilitate parallel placement, it is said that this is the purpose of the exam. Your mother and I don't think the exam is important, and we didn't ask you to prepare for it.
As a result, after the exam, you confidently said that the topic was not as difficult as you thought. Are you ignorant and blindly optimistic? Or are you lucky that you have encountered most problems before? Or did you have an epiphany that the universe suddenly exploded?
I can't believe it anyway. Then your mother said:? What if my daughter has this level? What if her level has been underestimated by us for a long time? For example, your mother, in the Qingyang district unified examination at the end of the fifth grade, you ranked very high. What would you do if it weren't for your English fiasco? This surprised me: Is it so? Did we underestimate you?
We are rational parents, and we will not delude ourselves into imagining, identifying and depicting our children. Many majors and good grades? To satisfy your vanity as a parent.
Dear daughter, 12 years, we have been trying to really understand you and find a way to enlighten you and grow up.
After years of experiments, we have to admit helplessly: daughter, you are not smart, and your response ability, acceptance ability and memory ability are average;
Moreover, your sports ability is not good, your balance, coordination and explosiveness are not good, your physical fitness is poor, and your physical fitness is very general;
Since you were three or four years old, you have participated in special training such as dance, taekwondo, piano, art and small host. But you didn't stick to it, and these aspects didn't become your hobbies;
It is a little gratifying that you have been practicing calligraphy for three or four years, during which you participated in some competitions and won grand prizes. In June this year, you were accepted as a member of Chengdu Calligraphers Association.
Daughter, for a long time, we have high expectations for you, but later we have to reach an educational understanding: we can't ask our daughter too much beyond her cognitive qualifications. Her Excellence should not be compared with her peers, but with her past.
Daughter, it is not easy for your mother and I to reach such a consensus. Everywhere? Other people's children? In the word-of-mouth myth, everyone is excellent; When we reach middle age, the advance and retreat of our career and the amount of money are no longer the main indicators to consider our life, but the success and talent of our children are the main theme of parents' discussion; Many parents who feel the great limitations and disadvantages of domestic education have already let their children go abroad, hoping that their children can create their own miracles in famous foreign schools. Daughter, whenever I think about this, my parents are worried about you. Now mom and dad's decision is: we face up to your ordinary, and are willing to help you become an ordinary person who is self-reliant, confident, happy, peaceful, kind and beneficial to society in an extraordinary way. Daughter, this is not to underestimate you, but to face it responsibly.
Not everyone is a genius, daughter. You are not a genius.
However, everyone can be a happy person, daughter, and we think you can do it.
How to be a happy person? Dad thought, you can try this:
Let's talk about grades first.
Achievement is not the most important thing, but not falling behind your classmates in homework will give you enough psychological advantage to keep you emotionally happy.
Students take learning as their first priority, and it is difficult to make them happy if their lessons are not good.
But if you want to get good grades, you can't do it without listening attentively, accumulating practice, comprehensive understanding and long-term persistence.
People with good intellectual qualifications make much less efforts, but for your daughter, extraordinary efforts may be your magic weapon to win.
Remember: there is absolutely no Excellence without reason in the world. The so-called Excellence is created by efforts against time.
Your own experience fully illustrates this point: in the third and fourth grades of primary school, you are particularly poor at math, and teachers often invite your mother to school? Help grow? Later, you increased your practice and made great progress in math.
A year ago, you were British? Insulator? , one? This? That? You haven't recognized it after studying for a year. What happened?
Keep training and don't give up. Now you have found the basic sense of language and learning methods. Insulator? Become? Semiconductor? At this rate, you may become one day? English talent? Oh!
Then talk about the specialty.
While developing in a balanced way, we should pay attention to cultivating your dominant disciplines and interests. In this entrance examination, you said that with God's help, your Chinese is very fluent.
It's possible. You did well in Chinese in the exams for two or three years in a row. But it's really amazing.
My mother helps you with your homework. I don't work hard at Chinese, so I spend all my time on English and math.
Your father and I could have spent some time on your humanistic enlightenment, but I didn't do enough.
Maybe in the future, we should work together to make Chinese your dominant subject.
In fact, Chinese is much more than a class. It condenses the mystery of the world, the wisdom of life and the temperature of civilization. It carries the truth, goodness and beauty, and it also embodies the eternal dreams and emotions of human beings.
In other words, our initial cognition and concern for society began with Chinese, which maintained and guarded our life.
Although there are many defects in the compilation and curriculum design of Chinese teaching materials, they need to be corrected, such as the lack of oral expression training, critical spirit and humanistic care. , does not detract from the absolute importance of Chinese as a national mother tongue.
Daughter, you can learn Chinese better, don't you think? China? I can treat you lightly at any time. It leads your mind to a rich and broad umbilical cord. Good Chinese literacy will benefit you for life.
In addition, you can't neglect your calligraphy practice, no matter how nervous your schoolwork is. That is the only fruit of our ten-year interest training on the basis of trial and error. You must stick to it.
Calligraphy is a living fossil of China language and the most beautiful image spokesperson of profound China culture. For China culture, practicing calligraphy is a kind of inheritance and relay, and for individuals, it is an infiltration, a refinement, a sublimation and a beautification. Literature turns people into people, beauty and * * *, daughter, you can.
What is the third key word? Friends? .
You must have your own good friends of the same sex. Little friend, best friend, best friend, hardcore, confidant? They all mean the same thing: good friends.
In kindergarten and elementary school, you may have had friends who were better than ordinary students, but according to dad, they were not good friends.
A true good friend is someone who appreciates and takes care of each other. When we are together, we have endless words. When we are not together, we still miss each other. We will study together, play together, think for each other and share together.
Junior high school is the early spring of life, with lush vegetation and everything growing. Perhaps lifelong good friends appear at this stage. Dad recently attended the 30th anniversary reunion of our junior high school graduation. Although it has been 30 years, thousands of miles of life and different life experiences, when the names and appearances correspond, many past events suddenly emerge in front of us. Everyone is so affectionate, as if time and distance don't exist.
Most junior high school students haven't contacted each other since graduation, but one or two students have kept in touch and are my father's lifelong friends.
From classmates to friends, it's about fate, but in any case, you have to have a best friend, otherwise your cardamom years will be too bleak. A true good friend is the stress reducer and gas station in your life. You can achieve each other by trusting each other, or you can improve each other by helping each other. More importantly, you can form a small league. Confrontation? And resolve all unpleasant people and things.
Tell me more about your personality: I hope you are more cheerful and more atmospheric.
You must be a lovely girl. You are quiet, don't talk, don't excuse, don't object; You are smart with a smile, just like the spring breeze in classical poetry.
But dear daughter, your advantage is quiet, but your disadvantage is too quiet. I hope you are careless, don't care about everything, don't take many unworthy things to heart, I hope you can speak out quickly, express your views bravely, don't care too much about other people's feelings and the situation afterwards, and you can talk nonsense.
I hope you say hello to everyone, especially after others say hello to you. I hope you can convey your enthusiasm with your expression? In fact, we know that you have enthusiasm in your heart, but if this enthusiasm is just hidden in your heart, others will think that you are indifferent and boring, and even think that your emotional intelligence is low.
Do you still remember my daughter? If we can be a spring breeze full of green branches and leaves, why should we be the ice of broken flowers? Passion! Passion! You are a happy and enthusiastic little girl! Of course, I hope you are a little naughty and eccentric. Can't you be too honest? Honesty is different from honesty and sincerity? I hope you can play more tricks in the limited time.
You are too naughty, which makes us sorry. Naughty is also an ability. Naive and selfish naughty is the spark of life wisdom. I believe that three years of junior high school can make us feel your ability.
Finally, the most important thing is to strengthen physical exercise, so that your physical fitness is super good, stay away from illness, and let your happiness have a place to stay. You can't get sick again. The illness at the beginning of the year scared your parents to death.
Daughter, three years of junior high school is also a crucial time for you to grow up. In addition to ensuring nutrition, reasonable diet and adequate sleep, strengthening exercise is the most important thing. Remember one sentence: Nothing in the world is more important than your body. In other words, compared with your health, academic performance, honor, university, money, including future prospects, are not the most important. Health is the most important thing. Love your body like your parents. Love your body as much as you love eating and sleeping.
Dear daughter, yesterday morning, when you were taking the entrance examination of the school, the China women's volleyball team was sweating like a pig at the Rio Olympic Games, having a peak confrontation.
As you know, China women's volleyball team won the Olympic gold medal again after winning the championship illegally in 12. It is said that the spirit of women's volleyball inspired the women's volleyball girls to laugh at the final podium.
So what is the spirit of women's volleyball? Lang Ping said, Coach? Even if you know you can't win, go all out? I think this is the spirit of women's volleyball. ? Where is the power of the universe, just persistence? Daughter, you have entered the busiest and hardest middle school stage in your life. You can only stand up your tender shoulders and face it bravely. All kinds of chaos, troubles, fatigue and pain will certainly follow, but please believe that we, your parents, your teachers and your classmates in your new school will always be with you at any time and under any circumstances.
When we are together, there is no river we can't cross, no mountain we can't climb, no distance we can't reach, no scenery we can't measure, not because we are superman, but because we have love, ideals and persistence.
Daughter, I wish you again: happy growth!
? Dad wrote it on August 22, 20 16, before my daughter went to junior high school.
A letter from parents to their daughter at the beginning of school.
Dear child:
School begins.
Yes, how time flies! You have gone to school in a blink of an eye. Watching you grow up little by little, and thinking that you will be out of the care of your parents and out of our sight, we are all very happy, deeply miss you, and even a little sad.
I know that this feeling of being swayed by considerations of gain and loss will always accompany us to grow up.
Let me know when you are at the school gate? Bye, dad? I walked into the campus in high spirits, but I watched your figure disappear outside the fence, hoping you could turn around again.
On the way to school, whenever you cross the road, I always hope that you can observe the passing cars by yourself and have the courage to walk independently; But every time I unconsciously hold your little hand tightly and won't let you leave my side.
Keep telling yourself that even if you are excellent or excellent, your parents should keep a low profile, because you are far from achieving phased success; But every time you get a little achievement, every honor, every award, or even a painting that you scribble casually, my father will be so excited that he can't wait to announce to the world that this is my daughter!
We entered the school hand in hand and officially started your primary school life. You are in high spirits. You began to get out of our sight, get in touch with the outside world alone and make more friends. Every day after school, you always share with us what you have seen and heard at school and interesting things about your classmates. I hope that in the next few years, you can always love your teachers and like your classmates as you do now.
Actually, I understand that you still have a long way to go. You are naturally sensitive and delicate, which is an advantage or a disadvantage. You will encounter all kinds of difficulties, setbacks and challenges. I hope we can stay with you and face each other. Because happiness means having a dream and being able to pursue it down to earth; Happiness is to have a family and walk hand in hand!
Since you were a child, you have loved to pick up the fallen leaves on the ground, marveling at the ingenious cutting of leaves into various beautiful shapes by nature, and you also like to observe insects and compare them with what you read in Insects. Dad hopes that even if you grow up slowly in the future, you will still have the feeling that you will stop when you see the buds that have broken through the ground and feel heartache when you see a bunch of wild chrysanthemums, instead of taking everything for granted.
I still remember that we walked together and saw a large area of morning glory. Because of the drought, there is no attachment to climb, and it blooms as soon as it touches the ground. Tell me, what's the difference between this morning glory and other varieties? Dad said, yes. They lack water and nutrition, so they don't grow tall. But they don't want to miss this opportunity to come to earth, and they are also trying to blossom. So don't give yourself too many reasons to give up, because people who are worse than you are still insisting, and people who are better than you are still insisting! And all persistence in this world is because of yearning and love for beautiful things! So as long as you persist, it will blossom and bear fruit, and good things will happen!
During last November, we went back to our hometown together. On the train, you picked up the old things in the south of the city and kept looking. Then you look up and ask me: the police catch bandits, why do students catch and kill them together? I don't quite understand. ? Looking at your big blinking eyes, bright, pure, full of exploration and slightly melancholy, I vaguely found Xiaoying's shadow in you? Innocent, carefree, lively and curious, but the inner world is rich, kind and compassionate, and knows friendship. . . . . .
From an adult's point of view, maybe you are swallowing these books now, but dad doesn't think so. You see Cao Wenxuan's Bronze Sunflower, and you have different views on the ending. Just now, just before going to bed, you told me that you thought Water Margin was very interesting. One person appeared, finished his story, and then another person came out. The previous person didn't mention it, so one after another came out, which was very wonderful. I'm really surprised to hear that. My father never told you the structure of this article. You can think of it, which means you can think. You also said that you thought Helu were heroes, and they should come first. I think it makes sense, too
I hope you can continue to love reading and have your own ideas. When reading, what matters is not what is said in the book, but what you find out from it. I look forward to your reading more, and we will discuss it together in the future. I will treat your school grades in the same way. I don't think standardized scores are important. As long as you are in the best condition, eager for knowledge, ignorant and ignorant, it doesn't matter what school you go to in the future, because this is the best of you!
Love, dad.
8.22
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