My relationship with reading
In fact, reading has always been a demon in my heart, because I have not loved "reading" since I was a child. I think all children cannot resist the temptation of television. I remember that the most common thing my mother said to me when I was a child was, "Look at people, they are reading when you are watching TV, they are reading when you are playing outside, and even when they are eating, they are reading books. "Look." But children always have a rebellious mentality. The more you tell me, the less I will read. Books are not as fun as stones in the sand. So I spent my childhood time like this.
But "not liking reading" did not delay my curiosity about the world. In addition to my mother, my father also said, "You can learn something from it when you do anything." So I adhered to this concept and continued to acquire knowledge and information through other means, making friends and countless TV programs, which accompanied me throughout my student life. After work, my time is extremely reduced and compressed, and the pressure at work often makes me unable to calm down and read. Even if the bedside is piled with books, he always stays at the preface. The rest were never opened again.
The original intention of participating in the training camp
Actually, I have always cared about my own growth and learning. For this reason, I have always maintained my curiosity about the world and others. Even after working, I have continued to study in my spare time, and I invest nearly 100,000 yuan in study abroad every year. Exploring the unknown makes me feel very satisfied inside. I think this is why Teacher Cai Kangyong said, "Learning is the only thing that makes people happy." Although many people think that the learning process is painful and torturous. But because of the knowledge gained in the process, one also gains energy, a sense of accomplishment, and a sense of satisfaction, which will bring long-term happiness to people.
Reflecting on my past learning, it was actually based on listening to the teacher. It is always easier for people to accept listening than reading. So I like to listen to people talk, but I don't like to read dry words. This is why I have been an old member of the Fan Deng Reading App for nearly 4 years, but I still haven’t developed the habit of reading books.
1. I didn’t really realize the importance of reading and why it is necessary to read instead of just listening to others.
2. Because I don’t know enough about reading, I have many misunderstandings about reading, such as it takes a long time, reading is useless, how to choose books, how to take notes, etc.
3. Several failures in reading made me even more disheartened. Without the experience of success, the negative effects of disappointment are even greater. It makes me dislike reading even more.
I heard about Fan Deng’s reading training camp at the annual sharing event of Jihan Yimao. After checking the specific information and confirming the time, I chose to sign up to participate. I have participated in a reading club before, and I only lasted two days after reading a book in a *** reading club community, and ended in failure. Because it is difficult to guarantee reading time when I am on a business trip in the next few days, and secondly, I don’t want to open the book because of my inner resistance.
But this time I had the mentality of forcing myself no matter what. Be sure to keep up with training camp. So I wrote in my self-introduction before the camp started, "Complete all tasks, there is no way to fail." The best way to push yourself is to give yourself no way out. If you talk big, you have to put it into practice.
Then my reading transformation journey began.
What did I gain from reading Ten Powers
Overcoming all difficulties and reading 10 books is something I never thought I could accomplish before.
"Lifelong Growth" tells me not to be limited by my fixed mindset, to reconcile with myself, to pursue meaningful goals, and to make lasting efforts to cultivate my growth mindset. And further spread it to people around you.
"Reading a Book" uses scientific methods to dissect books and dismantle the contents of the book from the perspective of a storyteller. Read the book thinly and digest it.
"The Method of Happiness" A person's success will not bring happiness. On the contrary, people who are rich in their hearts are more likely to succeed, so don't blindly pursue wealth, but pursue those things that are meaningful and really make us happy. Something to feel happy and content with.
"Intimacy" The interpersonal relationships around us are a complete reflection of our own hearts. We must learn to get along with our own past and pain, get close to them and resolve them, so as to obtain salvation from the inside out and gain health. Pleasant relationship.
"Low Risk Entrepreneurship" The risk level of entrepreneurship can actually be controlled from the time it is still an idea. The reason why entrepreneurship can be successful is that every link has an anti-fragile structural design. Entrepreneurs must stay ahead of risks to be responsible for themselves and their teams.
"Replicable Leadership" Leadership can be applied in all aspects of life and can also be acquired through correct training methods. The SMART principles of management by objectives are both very good tools.
"Mastering Habits" taught me all aspects of habit formation, starting from the inner understanding of my own identity, and then gradually changing from the inside out.
"Effective Speech" is a complete methodology that teaches you to gain advantages in public speaking, team meetings, and business negotiations to help you achieve your goals.
"The Nature of Poverty" understands the current poverty situation in the third world and the current progress of poverty alleviation work, so that we can cherish the life we ??have now. Reflect on the thinking of the poor and take this as a warning.
"First Influence" Excellent persuaders will make all preparations before the conversation begins. They are advanced players of attention, quietly influencing you and all your decisions step by step.
1. Learn to dismantle books
There are 31 more documents in the folder of Shi Fandeng Reading Camp. Reading the book is the real beginning of learning. I will organize the contents of the books into my own lecture notes and publish them on my official account, including reading experience and mind maps, and I will even record the audio or video of the lectures and publish them simultaneously. Classic books need to be read repeatedly, and many methods in the books also require deliberate practice.
2. Reading is no longer difficult
When reading each book, record the book list in the book and place the order simultaneously. The reading camp begins a lifelong reading journey. Nothing else can replace the peace of mind you get from books. Even if the reading camp is over now, you can still open a book and start reading. Being immersed in the world of words is peaceful and enjoyable.
3. There is love in someone’s eyes
The more you understand the world, the more compassion you will have in your heart. After reading 10 books, I seem to have a better understanding of how the world works, and I have learned to get along with others better. At the same time, I will feel more and more that I know too little, and my thirst for knowledge will become deeper.
4. Develop good habits
Develop the habit of reading, reviewing, summarizing, and writing regularly! It is actually not difficult to output a list of 300-500 words every day. Controlling the number of words is also a test of highly refined content. So now it has become a habit to code casually. Daily output becomes easy.
In addition to reading 10 books, Teacher Fan Deng also invited 10 big names in different fields to extend the content of relevant books and share their experience.
Reading also changed their lives.
Besides reading, what else have I done?
1. I worked as a camp co-ordinator, won two outstanding works, did a lunch reading, and had a sharing session with outstanding students.
2. Completed the update of three long articles on the official account.
3. Use the content learned in the reading camp to share within the team.
4. A daily update output group was established, and today is exactly the 8th day. The friends in the group output what they learned every day in the form of text or videos and send them to the group. Self-discipline is not as good as other disciplines, and it takes everyone to grow together.
These are things I never thought I could accomplish before participating. Reading brightens up these days of isolation at home.
I have to say thank you
The training camp community has a full schedule from 8 a.m. to 11 p.m. every day. For fear of missing every student, I will gain friends who will read and grow together. On the road of growth, we need partners who share the same frequency most.
Thanks to the head teacher Luo Qi for her meticulous care. Her every night greeting makes people feel warm.
Thanks to the four groups of teaching assistants who worked tirelessly every day to answer questions and encourage everyone to serve everyone.
Thanks to the leader of the fourth group, Changmei, for always standing up on behalf of the fourth group at critical moments, and to the friends of the fourth group for accompanying them every day.
Thanks to Xiaodi Xiaomi of the life group, all members of the counselor circle of the review group, and all members led by Dalin of the design group
Thanks to everyone in the camp preparatory group for their support with help!
Finally, I would like to thank myself for not shrinking back and facing the difficulties when faced with "dyslexia", and for not giving up and persevering when faced with temptation.
The elite thirteen are extraordinary
Reading and making friends are extraordinary
LOVE YOU ALL