How to create a living environment that is conducive to the growth of children. A good environment is conducive to the growth of children. We must create some living environment for him to grow happily based on the strong interest that his young mind has in him. This is likely to lead him to further develop his hobbies. Of course, the family atmosphere must be harmonious and harmonious. Let the children feel the warmth of spring. Children are equal members of the family. Parents should not pamper or pamper them, nor should they neglect them. The family should care for each other, divide labor, discuss problems, and enjoy the fun of life together; the family should also praise each other's good behavior, use polite language and humor; the family can often hold story meetings and recite You can also hold meetings, sports games, perform various programs, and invite relatives, friends, and friends to play at home to enjoy family affection and friendship. Intelligent environment - rich, clean, beautiful, love to read, ask questions, love to operate. Parents should prepare small desks, small bookcases, toy cabinets, technology treasure chests, large maps, globes, scientific experiment equipment for their children, and give their children a botanical garden, The zoo is even more perfect. The living environment should be clean and beautiful, especially the children's living environment should have brightly colored patterns, beautiful landscape paintings, graceful calligraphy works, and a "good baby praise column" that can actively encourage children. Of course, don’t forget to set up an environment for your children to exercise, such as sandbags, rubber balls, etc. The family should often read, discuss, do small experiments with toys together, and constantly encourage the children. For children after 2 and a half years old, parents can set up a 20-minute "quiet" period every day, where everyone can concentrate on doing things in their own fixed position without saying a word, and then evaluate the child's performance afterwards. A good family environment and atmosphere are conducive to the healthy growth of children, so how to create such a family environment and atmosphere? This requires parents to do the following: 1. Lead by example, teaching by example is more important than strict teaching: children's psychology of a family atmosphere Endurance is reflected in his adaptation and acceptance of the image of family members (mainly parents). The role of parents in family life most directly affects children's mental health. Therefore, parents should always be aware that there is a pair of innocent eyes around them looking at them, and set an example in life and work. Whatever they ask their children to do, they should do it themselves first, with more demonstrations and less preaching. 2. Have a democratic behavioral style: As parents, we must respect the independent personality of our children, have a democratic and amiable style, which will have an extremely beneficial and profound impact on the healthy physical and mental growth of our children. In family life, parents are not only elders, teachers and friends to their children, they should not bring "social roles" into the home. We must learn to understand and respect our children, and only by standing from their perspective can we discover their inner world. We must not follow the parents' own subjective will and do whatever they want to encourage their children. When conflicts and disagreements arise within the family, avoid being impatient or rude, handle them as warmly and coldly as possible, and simplify complex issues. 3. Harmonious family atmosphere: Mutual respect, understanding, trust and concern among family members are the basic conditions for running a family and educating children. The key to family harmony is the couple at the center. Therefore, it is necessary for responsible parents to seriously study the special art of being a spouse and the science of homemaking for the sake of the happiness of the family and the growth of their children. 4. Optimistic mental outlook and noble aesthetic taste: Parents’ optimistic, calm and happy mood can have a great appeal on their children. Parents should consciously restrain their worries, sadness and melancholy from all aspects, and control their own bad personalities. , with an optimistic and uplifting spirit, let the children feel that the family is warm and charming. In addition, the physical environment and psychological atmosphere in the family should also fully consider the impact of education. At present, some parents pay great attention to home furnishings, clothing, food, drink and entertainment, but are indifferent to their children's intellectual investment, study, rest and physical and mental health. This is absolutely unacceptable. No parent should underestimate this kind of " The huge power of subtle influence. Create a good family atmosphere, establish an equal relationship between family members, let children bathe in love, and let children grow up in strictness. With love, children will be happy, and with strictness, children will become talents. This kind of living environment is most beneficial to the growth of children.
Lead by example. This requires preparation in advance, starting with food, clothing, housing and transportation. Dress appropriately, eat and cook in a decent manner, walk in a dignified manner, speak and do things in an orderly manner, and communicate with others in a friendly manner, especially if you don’t speak normally. Teach, but children learn by themselves, so don’t take chances. In addition, extracurricular tutoring is also essential. Going to tutoring classes does not necessarily mean that children will learn a lot, but that they will adapt to the atmosphere of this school in advance so that children can win. At the starting line, you must be diligent in communication and communicate more with your children so that you can get closer to each other. Only when your children have problems can you know and solve them as soon as possible. You must be strict with yourself when your children are 2 years old in order to serve your children. Create a good growth environment. There are high-quality family members, a harmonious family atmosphere, who can provide constructive suggestions for children's growth, try to let children develop their talents, and have adequate family conditions. Such a family environment can enable children to grow up healthily. When children study, they must "enter" and "enter silence", that is, they must have a clear purpose, concentrated thoughts, a solid heart, and moderate tension. To achieve such a state, parents and children need to work together, especially as parents, we must create a good learning environment for our children. First of all, let your children understand that learning must be focused and practical. There are many stories about concentrating on studying, which can be told to children; you can also take children to the reading room of the library to read books, so that children can feel the atmosphere where everyone is concentrating on reading. You can also use competition methods for training. If you persist for a period of time, your children will develop the habit of concentrating on learning. Second, make the home environment suitable for children to learn. 1. Prepare a fixed place for children to study. Tables and chairs cannot be moved in fixed positions. In this way, it is easy for children to form a mental mindset to concentrate on learning. As soon as they enter this environment, their brains enter a learning state. Things should not be piled up in a mess on the table. Only textbooks, homework books, stationery and necessary reference books can be placed. It is better to have a small bookshelf next to it. Do not put toys or snacks so as not to interfere with children's learning. 2. The room layout should be suitable for children to study. The room layout should be simple and bright, and the items should not be placed too much or too cluttered. It is better to use light colors on the walls and do not post a lot of things. Some parents let their children write their own mottos and aphorisms and post them on the wall. This method can be used for reference. Give due consideration to the child's personality. For example, if some children are particularly active, the room should be less red, green, and mottled in color, so as not to encourage their unstable emotions; if some children are too introverted and dull, the room decoration should be more lively and lively. 3. Maintain a quiet environment. When children are studying, family members should try to keep it as quiet as possible. It is best not to turn on the TV or radio. If they are in different rooms, they should close the door and turn down the sound. Don't speak loudly, especially don't argue. 4. Have time to study with classmates. You can agree on a time for the whole family to study at the same time, with some reading, some reading newspapers, and some writing. Such a family atmosphere can best encourage children to concentrate on their studies. Third, create a psychological atmosphere suitable for children to learn. Caring for each other, being intimate and harmonious among family members are important conditions for children to "enter the country" and "enter tranquility". If family relationships are disharmonious and often noisy, it will be a kind of psychological interference and emotional pressure for children. Children will have anxiety, fear, boredom, etc., and will be unable to study with peace of mind.