What methods can you make yourself more cultured?

1, music can improve a person's self-cultivation, the six arts of a gentleman, the number of books shot by rites and music, which shows the influence of music on people. In ancient times, there was a period of liberal arts, and mountains and rivers met bosom friends. It may be difficult for us to trace back, but anyone who has heard the moonlight melody can probably feel the sound that Beethoven brought to your soul, which is the sublimation from the inside out.

2. Treat others according to their own needs. Putting yourself in others' shoes can add a lot to your image. For example, others stare when they are talking, and responding when they pause shows that you are listening attentively. Polite language can also enhance the impression. Modest and polite people can always make people feel like spring breeze.

3, demeanor, an educated person will not hold on to the shortcomings of others, the so-called tolerance to others, tolerance to others, people are not sages, to err is human, appropriate tolerance can see a person's quality, which is particularly obvious in Buddhism, the magic can be crossed, not to mention people.

Respect, Voltaire said, "I don't agree with everything you say, but I will defend your right to say it to the death." Give people around you relative respect, even if they are your enemies. Learn to respect others so that others can respect you.

5, introspection, "The Analects of Confucius" said that visiting three times a day to reflect on whether you have done it right or not is a spur to yourself. The authorities are fascinated, the onlookers see clearly, and you will find that I am like this in the eyes of others. Now there is a word called "cautious independence", which I think is quite right. People are often more likely to show their despicable side when they are alone, just like demons. Always remember.