In the attitude towards society, others, oneself, study, labor and work, good personality is manifested as: loving the socialist motherland, people, collectives and life, striving for self-improvement, thrift, honesty and trustworthiness, modesty and prudence, courtesy and self-discipline, respect for others, helpfulness, diligence and sureness, strong sense of responsibility, pioneering and enterprising, persistent pursuit, etc.
2. Strong will
In the face of difficulties, people with good personality can persist in forging ahead, not afraid of difficulties, and retreat after knowing difficulties; Have a clear goal for your behavior, have the self-control to control your behavior consciously, have strong discipline and self-control, have perseverance and perseverance in doing things, and be able to finish them persistently.
3. Positive emotions
A good character is characterized by moderate emotional activities, always maintaining a happy and optimistic attitude and facing life with full spirit. Can better control their emotional fluctuations, can better handle emergencies and so on.
4. Reasonable reasons
Sound rationality is manifested in strong thirst for knowledge, strong learning initiative, the ability to learn with an open mind, the ability to face learning hardships correctly, the confidence to succeed, the ability to continuously accumulate achievements for achieving goals, the ability not to give up easily, the ability to forge ahead, the ability to better deal with problems caused by failure, the ability to better overcome inferiority, the ability to have a sense of responsibility, the ability to bear the burden of humiliation, and so on. This is a sign of good character.
Q: We summed up the good personality traits together. Now, please ask Tracy to explain what are the personality defects in attitude, will, emotion and reason?
(1) In terms of attitude characteristics, personality defects include indifference to society, hypocrisy, arrogance, inferiority to others, lack of ambition, inaction, and so on.
(2) In terms of will characteristics, the defects of personality are characterized by muddleheaded living, poor self-control, laissez-faire, cowardice, giving up halfway, and so on.
(3) In terms of emotional characteristics, the defect of personality is that emotions are easy to fluctuate, even ups and downs, which are difficult to control, or worried and unhappy, and so on.
(4) In terms of intellectual characteristics, the personality defect lies in passive learning and inability to endure hardships; A strong sense of inferiority, once failed, never recovered, and so on.
A good personality is very important for a person's success and career success.
(B) the role of good character
1. A good personality contributes to the formation of a healthy personality.
The ancients said that people who have made great achievements in ancient and modern times are not only talented, but also determined to persevere.
Gao, a Qing man (also one of the "Eight Eccentrics of Yangzhou"), was nicknamed "Abandoned Taoist" because his right arm was disabled due to illness. He is good at poetry, calligraphy and printing. After his illness, he insisted on writing and drawing with his left hand and carving. His seals, brushwork and knife cutting are very powerful, and Zheng Banqiao once asked him to carve many seals. He also loves inkstone. Whenever he gets a good inkstone, he will personally carve it with his left hand and carve words on it. What a waste of Taoist priests. Contemporary disabled young people also have the deeds of studying calligraphy and seal cutting hard. How inspiring it should be for our healthy teenagers!
Wu Changshuo studied seal cutting when he was a child, because his family was poor, so it was very difficult. If you can't afford lithographs, sometimes you can only replace them with bricks and tiles. Occasionally, if you get a few stone prints, you will regard them as treasures and polish them repeatedly until there is a thin one left. Without Yin Chuang, you have a stone knife in your hand. I accidentally cut the ring finger of my left hand. The wound is deep and still bleeding. The pain is unbearable. However, in order to learn art, he didn't relax carving. Later, although the wound scabbed, his nails fell off and never regenerated, which became a commemoration of his diligent study and practice.
Qi Baishi, a carpenter, became a folk painter in his thirties and was able to make a living by painting. He likes carving. Once he saw Li Wei, a famous seal engraver, and learned from him. He asked Li's younger brother Tie An, "I can't carve. What should I do? " Tie An joked with him: "You, take a load of Chu stone from Nanquan, carve and grind it, carve three or four boxes, and seal it with Hua Song stone." Hearing this, Qi Baishi made a determined effort. He often makes the East Room full and moves to Westinghouse to carve. It is this hard work that has enabled him to reach a high level in seal cutting.
A good personality enables individuals to give full play to their talents. In the early 1920s, a psychologist began to study the growth law of gifted children. He selected 1528 children and adolescents aged 3∽ 19 by means of intelligence test, with an average IQ of 15 1. He is a genius. After that, these gifted children and adolescents were followed up. 1968 he published a research report: these people with high IQ have good quality, received superior education, their academic performance is 2-4 grades higher than the average person, and the proportion of professional work is several times higher than the average person. However, in adulthood, these geniuses did not develop well due to non-intellectual factors such as personality. There were no scientists like Newton, Darwin and Edison, and there were no writers like Mark Twain. Although there are also works, they are extremely mediocre.
Children's intelligence is not equal to talent, and talent should also include rich knowledge, experience and superb skills. Mastering rich knowledge, experience and superb skills depends on persistent study and training, and the efficiency and effect of study and training depends on personal diligence, will and perseverance, sense of responsibility and other factors. We should strive to strengthen our character cultivation. On the contrary, if we neglect the cultivation of character and let those bad characters develop at will, even if we have high intelligence and talent, we will be influenced by bad characters and cannot play them out.
2. Good personality is very important for doing a good job.
Every profession requires its practitioners to have corresponding personality traits, otherwise it is difficult to do well.
In the Spring and Autumn Period, there was a famous pianist named Boya. He loved playing the piano since he was a child, but somehow he didn't improve his piano skills quickly. Later, he started his career with Mr. Cheng Lian.
Cheng Lian is a folk violinist with excellent piano skills. He feels that Boya, although he studies hard and his skills are not bad, lacks emotion and cannot reach the delicate realm. So he took Boya to the East China Sea to cultivate feelings. They arrived in Penglai by boat, leaving Boya alone to play the piano on the mountain. At first, there was still no progress. After that, Boya got up and watched the scenery of Penglai, only to see the quiet mountain forest vaguely blurred in the mist, which seemed so beautiful and mysterious. From far to near, the waves beat the rocks on the shore and made a loud noise. In an instant, the waves receded and everything was charming again. Boya watched, and he felt open-minded and his mood fluctuated. He couldn't help picking up the piano and playing a magnificent and beautiful melody in line with the rhythm of nature.
Later, under the guidance of Mr. Cheng Lian, Boya made great progress in piano art, and created some piano music, such as Water Cao Xian, which spread all over the world.
3. Good personality is the lubricant for dealing with interpersonal relationships.
Ask the students to talk about what personality factors put you in trouble when you are in contact with people. What personality factors make you feel comfortable in dealing with various relationships?
No matter what kind of personality, there are advantages and disadvantages in interpersonal communication. Therefore, everyone should pay attention to constantly improving their own shortcomings and have good interpersonal relationships.
4. Good personality promotes physical and mental health.
Good personality plays an important role in people's health. Bad personality will have a bad influence on people's health.
Bad personality has many effects on human health, and will cause harm to human brain, internal organs and other organs. For example, the brain is excessively depressed, causing immune dysfunction, leading to malnutrition, making the human body weak and premature aging; When angry, the muscles at the gastric outlet suddenly contract, leading to gastrointestinal dysfunction and even organic damage. Different personalities also affect the changes of diseases. Most cancers that disappear without treatment are cheerful and carefree people. Hypertension and coronary heart disease will be aggravated by patients' impatience and excitability, and can also be improved by peace of mind and emotional stability; Gastric ulcer disease will be aggravated or even malignant because of patients' depression and anxiety. Even if an optimistic and cheerful person has a gastric ulcer, the ulcer surface will heal faster. People with fragile personality will suffer from mental illness because of a mental shock; However, those who are strong and calm in everything are not easy to get sick.
Conclusion: In a word, a good personality plays an extremely important role in a person's growth and success. On the contrary, bad personality has a serious adverse effect on a person's growth and success. So try to shape your good character.