Make a timetable with your children.
Wen Malanxia's children are on summer vacation. Teach the first-grade teacher Mei, take care of parents and arrange their children's work and rest time reasonably, and it is best to make a timetable. During the holiday, Miss Mei made a home visit. An anticlimactic "timetable" Miss Mei came home, and her mother said that we would make a timetable as soon as we had a holiday. Our guiding ideology is: on the premise of ensuring children's enough study time, develop her hobbies and properly control the time of watching TV, not more than two hours a day. Clear-headed in the morning, so arrange her to do summer homework and read extracurricular books; Go to the swimming pool for junior swimming training class in the afternoon-because she is weak, let her exercise during the holiday; Practice the piano and learn calligraphy after returning from the training class; Watch TV at night. Teacher Mei suggested that a new timetable should be made to include Qian Qian's favorite TV, as long as she watches TV for no more than two hours. Besides, Qian Qian is not gregarious. Is it necessary to arrange some time for Chichiwa to play with her friends around? Qian Qian's parents said that they would definitely take Miss Mei's advice. Later, Ms. Mei went to several other places and found a sexual problem: the children were almost anticlimactic according to the schedule set by their parents, mostly because of TV. Let the children work together and make it positive. In the morning, they scrambled to say, "My schedule was decided by my parents and me. Every weekend, my father will bring a radio and television newspaper and ask me to draw TV programs and cartoons to watch next week and give priority to them. Then arrange time to do summer homework. The rest of the time is to give me time to develop hobbies and outdoor activities. " Chen Chen's father said: "Because the time of TV programs is fixed, when there is a TV program that children like, they are forced to do their homework, but they can't do it well." It's better to leave him the time he likes watching TV programs, so that he can do his homework and meet the entertainment needs. Chen Chen's mother added: "Therefore, our schedule should be revised every week according to the weekly radio and television news." Chen Chen's father added: "We won't impose parents' opinions on our children, let them participate in the formulation, and we will know what the children want. Be reasonable. We will try our best to satisfy him. For example, children ask if the time for watching TV is flexible, and there are many good-looking TVs, so this week, the time for watching TV will be arranged a little more; There are few good TVs, so arrange less time to watch TV this week. But generally speaking, the average time is no more than two hours a day. We satisfied him, so he was very motivated to implement it. "Cultivate children's self-control-urge and reward Chen Chen's father said," It is impossible for such a big child to obey completely consciously, and there must be a little compulsion. "For example, we arrange fruitful things to do when adults are not at home. We come back from work to check. If they don't meet the requirements, we must do it again. We will reduce the time of watching TV next week. Some things are arranged for adults to do under the supervision of adults after work. " Teacher Mei asked, "If the children are obedient, are there any rewards?" Chen Chen rushed to answer: "Yes, we have a reward menu at home." Then she ran into the back room and took out a piece of paper. Teacher Mei took a look at it. It says: first prize: take Chen Chen to museums, zoos and playgrounds on weekends ... choose one; Second prize: Mom and Dad accompany Chen Chen to swim and play video games ... Choose one; Third prize: buy a book, an airplane model, an empty model ... choose one. Dad smiled and said, "This is also done according to Chen Chen's requirements." Teacher Mei asked, "Chen Chen, have you ever enjoyed a reward?" "Enjoy it. Once won the second prize, my parents and I went swimming in a lighted swimming pool; I also won the third prize once. Well, this is a model ship. " Chen Chen said proudly.