2. Life is like tea, with sweetness in bitterness. Warm water can't make good tea, and greenhouse can't raise good children. No matter how good the quality of tea is, the water temperature is not enough and there is no fragrance. Life, like tea, can only be repeatedly soaked in boiling water, in order to force out the inherent potential and create long-term and stable happiness for yourself. Every trauma is a kind of maturity; Every maturity is a sign of happiness.
Living in this world, no one is without pain. Perhaps, what you expect will never come true, and what you desire will never come true. But in fact, life is a round process, ups and downs, ups and downs, ups and downs, lack of self-confidence, round to sober.
Life is like water, life is like tea. No matter how good the tea is, it will fade over time. Perhaps it is flat edges and corners, perhaps it is mature and steady, the pace is getting more and more practical, and the days are getting more and more dull. Life has entered another realm-indifference. Gain and loss, success and failure, get together or leave, and accept all the bad things calmly. Indifference is a growth of life. Lose calm, become indifferent, fight for its inevitability, let nature take its course!
5. Some things are destined to miss you, and persistence will eventually leave you; Some people can only be passers-by in your life If you linger on, all your expectations will eventually come to nothing. If it doesn't belong to you, then give it up. The world is vast and gloomy. What we can have is limited after all. Don't let endless desires bury the original happiness and happiness. If you want to catch anything, you can only catch nothing in the end.
6. People who live a confused life are easy to be happy; People who live a sober life are easily troubled. This is because sober people look too real, too real, and there will be troubles everywhere in life; However, a confused person, he seldom cares, because his simple and rough life has found the great taste of life.
7. Only when you are calm can you hear your own voice. Perhaps, what you are crazy about is not what you really want, but just accommodating others or society; Perhaps, what you are deeply saddened by is not necessarily what you really want to love, or what you should love, but only a temporary reluctance. When you sit down and watch the flowers bloom and fall, you will see clearly. Smiling at flowers is a kind of quiet happiness; It is a comfortable feeling to watch the flowers fall quietly.
8. One day, you will say something that makes you sad with a smile. Same thing, different time, different mood, different attitude. Therefore, no matter what grievances you suffer, you don't have to be sad whether you will come or not. Instead, we should calm down and think about it from another angle. You will find that there are not many things in the world worth sacrificing your mood and health. Mentality determines life. If you keep a good attitude, life will be full of happiness.
9. Many things in buddha said life can't be met. You can't get them if you try to force them. What you can't get often comes unexpectedly. Therefore, we should have a carefree heart, and let everything go with the flow, without resentment, impatience, excessiveness, compulsion, pessimism, rigidity, confusion, ecstasy, joy in things and sorrow for ourselves.
10. Life tells us that there are never perfect people and things in this world. Too perfect feelings only happen in fairy tales and imagination. The normal state of reality, in addition to being dull, is riddled with holes and reborn after robbery.
1 1. Empty is the highest state of life. Only empty cups can hold water, and empty houses can live in people. The use value of each container lies in its emptiness. Emptiness is a measure and a kind of mind. Emptiness is the possibility and premise, and emptiness is the initial cause. There are Zen principles of "everything is empty" and "vacuum is wonderful" in Buddhist scriptures. Life is like tea, an empty cup, with endless good tea and endless joy and emotion.
12. What do you mean really put it down? That is, one day, when you face your past embarrassment again, you hate that angry person, calm down, stop thinking, face it calmly and laugh it off. Even when others repeat your past misfortunes in front of you, you seem to be listening to other people's stories without a ripple in your heart. Put it down, that's all.
13. People are alive. In fact, there are many things that can't be said. Sometimes they go too far and often forget the way home. Sometimes seeing too clearly often fascinates the mind; Sometimes if you think too much, you will often lose yourself. Life is like a mirror, you have everything in your heart. If you have nothing in your heart, you will be quiet; If your heart is empty, you will realize. Learn to face, learn to let go, and let everything be free, casual, casual and smiling.
14. If you can't see clearly, let it continue to be blurred. Some things, some love, some feelings, some people, see too thoroughly, but will be hurt.
15. Smart people always see the bright side, think about happy things with joy, and naturally achieve a happy life; Stupid people always think the worst of everything, and the more they think, the more bitter they will be, and eventually they will live a troubled life. Everything in the world is between your own thoughts. When we look at the world with the heart of a saint, everyone is a saint; Look at people with a wicked heart, everyone is a thief. Because of different ideas, there is a difference between heaven and hell. Master xingyun
16. The needs of life are like eating, and you can only eat two bowls of rice. If you covet the smell of food and eat more than two bowls, you will not enjoy the benefits of eating more normally, but will suffer because your stomach can't bear it. It can be seen that getting is not necessarily enjoying. Don't compare with others, learn not to be greedy or extravagant, be peaceful and quiet, and be contented.
17. There are some people and things that you must pass through. It doesn't matter whether it's good or bad, whether it's successful or not, whether it's gathering or not, whether it's love or hate. They just help you taste all the flavors of life and look down on the changes in the world. All experiences are good medicine for growth.
18. Master asked: What should I do if I want to boil a pot of boiling water and find that there is not enough wood in the middle of the fire? Some disciples said to find it quickly, some said to borrow it, and some said to buy it. Master said: Why not pour some water from the pot? Things can't be all right, you can only get it by giving up.
19. There is no need to crave others' understanding and recognition in life, because others have no such obligation. Live quietly, the heart does not move, and the wind can't help it. If you don't get hurt, the years will be fine.
20. childhood happiness is simply brought. The pain of growing up is complicated, and the more you grow up, the more lonely you are. When we were young, we could have a good time where no one was around, because there were flowers, insects and fish as companions. When I grow up, the more I am in the crowd, the more lonely I feel, because people have ulterior motives. Simplicity is a great feeling of life. There is no desire, no desire, no disappointment, and it is less futile to come and go. Simplicity is the ultimate goal of life. Simplicity is the greatest happiness.