I always want to see things from different angles and learn to put myself in others' shoes. Slowly, you will understand the situation of others, and you will not think that only you are right. In addition, to understand that everything has two sides, choosing a positive attitude will become open-minded. See the right side, don't find fault; When you meet someone, you always think of his good side. Try to think and understand from the perspective of others. Don't take anything too seriously and treat it calmly. ?
Everything will go from good to bad and from bad to good, which is dialectical. Some things may be good at the time, but they may not be good afterwards. Some things may be good for you after being tempered. You just have to think about your strengths and be open-minded. ?
Usually when you look at something that makes people feel beautiful, your heart will be cheerful. Such as: art, calligraphy, planting grass, raising flowers, making handicrafts, appreciating, etc. It is helpful to adjust the mentality.
It is reasonable for the ancients to advocate "reading thousands of books and taking Wan Li Road". It can not only enrich people's knowledge and experience, but also broaden their horizons, improve their self-cultivation and become a better person. Doing so is also of great benefit to people today, that is, reading more books, participating in social practice activities, and visiting famous mountains and rivers when conditions permit, so as to broaden their knowledge, broaden their horizons and improve their self-cultivation.