I think the three views have been formed in a person's adolescence, and they have been in your parents' minds for decades, so it is difficult to change them. Although we think that our parents' three views are not very correct in our own home, they are your parents and we can't ask them to correct them. Therefore, if it has been formed and it is difficult to change, then let it go and stay away from this contradiction.
I have such an example around me. My cousin is a pioneer. The clothes she wears are very revealing, so she wears underwear if she doesn't like them. She is a lesbian. My uncle and aunt often feel why they raised such a nondescript daughter and cried and complained to my parents. But I think my cousin is cool. She is the pioneer and product of this era.
My cousin began to change in this direction after she came back from college. My uncles and aunts are all old-fashioned people who work in government agencies. My cousin chose to work at home after graduating from college. At first, they lived together and quarreled many times.
One night, my parents were asleep, and suddenly I borrowed my aunt's phone and asked my parents to go to their house. We had a quarrel and asked my mother to persuade my cousin. The cause of the matter is this. Their family was watching the news at that time.
A girl was sexually harassed by a middle-aged man in the subway, touching her thighs and putting her hand into her skirt to take pictures. The girl found out on the spot that they quarreled. My aunt said that such a girl is unruly, so it is no wonder that she will be moved by others. Don't blame others for wearing so little.
My cousin got angry on the spot, and my cousin is also a bad temper. She quarreled with her aunt on the spot. My cousin thinks it's human freedom to wear how much to go out. Obviously, this man has done some dirty things. Why should I blame other girls? She also said that my aunt was an antique and didn't understand. This is the cause of the incident, and then my aunt scolded my cousin, saying that her dress and sexual orientation humiliated her, and she would rather not have her as a daughter.
My aunt said absolutely that she was in an emotional state and didn't think it over. When my cousin heard this, she went back to her room to pack up and prepare to run away from home. Of course my aunt won't let me go, so she sobbed and refused to let me go. This is a farce. My cousin finally moved out.
But after this incident, they stopped watching the news together, and the chat tried not to involve their three views.