Couples in their fifties get married in two ways, one is the original match, the other is that one or both of them remarry, and the couple become monks halfway.
If marriage is the original match, if divorce, it would be a pity. As the saying goes, young couples always walk together. Marriage is fate, the vast sea of people, two people can come together, the probability is too small, this probability is worth cherishing. As the saying goes, a century-old boat is a good pillow for a thousand years. Both husband and wife should cherish this rare fate.
Both parties are over 50 years old, so it's a pity to divorce again at this time. First, both men and women are old, and it is difficult to find a suitable partner after divorce. Second, it involves the division of children and property, which is endless and confusing.
But life is real. Husband and wife get along day and night. If the war continues, it will be very painful. In particular, one party has any bad habits, such as domestic violence, gambling, alcoholism and so on. It hurts each other a lot, and marriage is like a nightmare. In this case, it is better to leave. Long pain is better than short pain, give each other a freedom.
If the two sides just can't get along, then I think it's better not to leave, because as mentioned above, it's hard for remarried people to find a better one. In this case, if you can't change each other, then change yourself. If it really doesn't work, just make do with it. After all, there are not many people in their fifties left. If the marriage is unhappy, you can try to shift your attention to other aspects, such as going to the university for the elderly, practicing calligraphy, drawing, dancing in square dance and so on.
But for the halfway couple, to be honest, there are many obstacles and instability in their marriage foundation. At the slightest sign of trouble, both sides will guard against each other like thieves. If the marriage in this situation really can't go on, then cut the gordian knot and leave, otherwise both sides will be tired.