Since you say you are not qualified, you should improve yourself. If you have become perfect and excellent enough, you won't lack confidence when choosing a boyfriend. So what aspects should we start from to make ourselves excellent?
I'm actually a boy, so I'll tell you what you want to improve from a boy's point of view. First of all, learn to match your own clothes, because most boys are a face value control. Then the best way for girls to improve their face value is to dress and match. The second point is to learn to wear a beautiful makeup.
I think as long as I learn these things, I can learn them. Improve your appearance. Of course, this is only one aspect. I think what really attracts each other is not only the appearance, but also our unique temperament. Only by truly sublimating from the outside and the inside can you say that you are a high-quality person. It is even more essential for girls to find boyfriends or other things.
This mainly requires us to improve ourselves from more profound aspects, such as reading more classical books, learning some beautiful musical instruments and participating in some meaningful activities, so that we can improve ourselves from the inside out into a real intellectual beauty.
If we all do this, we will become very good. At this time, not only our opinions are good, but at least our own opinions are good. The conditions have met the requirements. Next, when choosing a boyfriend, I think from a boy's point of view, face value is not particularly important. What interests you is his personality, which is good for you.
After all, finding a boyfriend is a personal happiness, but it is not. What's he like in some way? If he achieves something, we need to choose him. The person who really loves you is the one who will accompany you through life. If it's for marriage, then I think we need to spend more time getting to know her and what kind of person she is.
If a person is particularly handsome, but he is half-hearted about you, or even has two feet on both sides, do you want such a boy? Of course not. So we need to change our mate selection criteria. The better his conditions, the better he should be together, without observing his various aspects, personality, knowledge and so on.
We need to find someone who can accompany us all our lives, so we not only need to enrich ourselves, but also need a heart that will find true love. Finally, I hope you can find the ideal person in your mind and grow old with him!