1, you bury your bones in the mud and I'll send snow all over the world. -Bai Juyi's Dream Micro
Don't miss the old country, try new tea with new fire. Poetry and wine use time. -Su Shi's "Looking at Jiangnan and Surpassing Taiwan Province"
3, peach and plum spring breeze, a glass of wine, ten years of rivers and lakes night rain. -Huang Tingjian's "Send the Yellow Number Back"
Since we left each other, we drifted like clouds, and ten years passed like running water, until we finally got together again. -Wei, "Huai Shang Wen Liang You/Huai Shang Liangzhou Old Friend"
5. Castle Peak and sex are together, and the bright moon was once two townships. -Wang Changling's "Send Wood to Serve the Royal"
What is friendship?
1. Friendship with the same interests and hobbies
Whether it is eating, drinking and having fun or other hobbies, as long as two people have something in common, they will always find a relationship point that will make them happy, so that they will be happy when they chat together and experience this hobby together.
Chat with people who like to travel and talk about human geography; Talk to people who like to eat about all kinds of food, even national characteristics; Talk about novels, philosophy and reading experience with people who like reading; Chat games, stars and even discuss skills and tactics with people who like sports; Talk to people who like politics about the general trend of the world, about economic development, and even about personnel layout and national strategy. ......
As long as two people have the same interests, they will always find that topic to make everyone chat happily. This kind of friendship and intimate relationship based on the same interests and hobbies can be classified as "hobbies" for the time being. Most of these friendships can provide good emotional experience and emotional value for both sides.
2. Like-minded and mutually beneficial friendship.
This friendship is based on trust, with mutual help and win-win as the result of practical material or political interests of both sides. The establishment of political groups and interest groups is this type. Don't simply classify this friendship as a "small group" or a "small gang", but you can't see the "interests" and "materials".
In fact, after you step into the society and take part in the work, you will find that friendship based on mutual benefit and benefit sharing is very valuable. No matter in politics, business or academia, everything should proceed from the perspective of "win-win", and only mutually beneficial cooperation can last for a long time.
3. It is a friendship with consistent outlook on life, world outlook and values.
This is a profound friendship. The consistency of the three views will make two people feel that they have found themselves. As the saying goes, "mountains and rivers meet bosom friends, colorful clouds chase the moon to get bosom friends", and the values are really difficult to agree.
Therefore, when a person with his own independent thoughts and values meets another person who is consistent with his own thoughts and concepts, the feeling of meeting each other late will arise spontaneously. No matter how far apart, how long, as long as we can get in touch, that kind of friendship will be bound again. Although "a scholar dies for a confidant" is a bit extreme, there are also many people in history.