1. A gentleman is kind and polite: a benevolent person loves others, and a polite person respects others. Those who love others will always love others, and those who respect others will always respect others. -Mencius: "Mencius Li Lou"
2. Reciprocity. It is indecent not to come; It is also impolite to come and not go. -The Book of Rites. On Quli
3. A gentleman is ashamed of words but not of deeds.
4. People don't know and don't care, aren't they gentlemen?
5. A gentleman's adult beauty is not an adult's evil. The villain is the opposite.
6. A gentleman seeks for himself, while a villain seeks for others.
7. Confucius said, "A gentleman who is not heavy is not arrogant. Learning is not solid. Lord is faithful. A man without friends is worse than himself. Don't change it after it. "
8. Confucius said, "If a gentleman does not argue, he will shoot! Let it go up, you can drink it, and it is also a gentleman. "
9. Confucius said, "A gentleman is not satisfied and is not safe. If he is sensitive and cautious, he will have proper channels and be honest. It can be said that he is eager to learn. "
10. Confucius said: "A gentleman likes virtue, a villain likes earth; The gentleman is pregnant with punishment, and the villain is pregnant. "
1 1. Confucius said, "A gentleman speaks but doesn't do it."
12. Confucius said: "A gentleman is knowledgeable in literature, which can be used as a gift or as a husband."
13. Confucius said, "The sentence is open, a petty man is anxious and worried.."
14. Confucius said: "A gentleman is Thai but not arrogant, and a villain is arrogant but not Thai."
15. A good word warms three winters, and a bad word hurts June.
2. About the poem "Qu Li", it says: "Disrespectful, thoughtful and calm." An min zai
You can't be long, you can't do whatever you want, you can't be complacent, and you are extremely happy.
Saints respect it, fear it and love it. Love knows its evil, hate its good. Product can be scattered, and can be moved. There is money, and there is trouble. Don't think about winning, don't think about scoring more points. Doubt is not qualitative, but straightforward.
Ruofu, sit like a walking corpse, stand like qi. Etiquette should be appropriate and customs should be followed. Therefore, husband and wife should be intimate, suspicious, different and distinguish between right and wrong. Courtesy, don't talk to others, don't hesitate to pay. Courtesy, not exceeding the festival, not insulting, is not good. Self-cultivation and self-cultivation are called good deeds. The quality of ceremony is also the quality of speech. Politeness emanates from people, not from people. Learn with courtesy, but don't learn with teaching.
Benevolence and morality, see no evil, see no evil. It is indecent to argue and argue. Monarch, minister, father, son and brother are all indecent. An official scholar is indecent. Ban Chao runs the army, and he gives it to the authorities to do the law. It's not good to be unseemly. It is dishonest to sacrifice ghosts and gods in the shrine. This is a gentleman's respectful concession to show politeness. Parrots can talk and stay with birds; Orangutans can talk and stay with animals. People nowadays are very rude. Although they can talk, are they not as good as an animal's heart? Husband is rude to animals, so father and son get together. It is made by saints and teaches people for courtesy. Make people polite and know themselves from animals.
Too much respect, and secondly, reward. Courtesy is reciprocated. It is indecent not to come; It is also impolite to come and not go. Politeness is safe, rudeness is dangerous. Therefore, owners should learn. Those who are polite to their husbands feel inferior and respect others. Although the seller is negative, he should also have respect and a rich situation? If you are rich and know good gifts, you will not be arrogant; If you are poor and know good gifts, you will not be intimidated. If you don't learn manners, you can't stand it "
-The Analects of Confucius. Jishi "
The meaning of a gentleman is benevolence, and its meaning is ceremony: the benevolent loves others, and the courtesy respects others. Those who love others will always love others, and those who respect others will always respect others.
-Mencius: "Mencius Li Lou"
Courtesy is reciprocated. It is indecent not to come; It is also impolite to come and not go.
-The Book of Rites. On Quli
3. What are the poems about the word "Li"? Although my family is at war, my brother and nephew often practice the style of rites and music. -Tang Dynasty: Du Xunhe's "The Book Hall of Fenjue Nephew".
The bamboo shadow outside the window is still swaying on the desk, and the ink in the inkstone seems to jingle in the wild spring.
Looking at the ritual vessels in Zhong Ni Temple, students learn to be polite to their families. -Han Dynasty: Sima Qian's Ode to Confucius' Family
Seeing Confucius' ancestral temple, his car, his clothes and his ritual vessels, many Confucian scholars practiced etiquette in his home on time.
The idiot didn't know the father-son ceremony, which made him angry, begged for food and cried eastward. -Tang Dynasty: Du Fu's Collection of Sorrow for the Past
Only an idiot is naive and hungry, crying angrily and begging for food at the door of the east kitchen.
Nanyue is matched with Zhu bird, and the rank ceremony is subordinate to the hundred kings. -Tang Dynasty: Du Fu's Three Poems of Wang Yue (Part Two)
Legend has it that there are suzaku in South Vietnam, and since the emperors one hundred generations ago, there have been ceremonies to divide Yue from top to bottom.
Shao Jun led me to the jade altar and invited the real fairy officer to come from afar. -Tang Dynasty: Liu Yuxi's "Playing the Moon in Taoyuan on August 15th"
"Shao Jun" took me to the jade altar to pay tribute to the gods in the distance.
The imperial court went out with a heavy ceremonial hundred rivers, and all the counties and counties greeted him along the way. -Tang Dynasty: Wang Changling's Four Sediments
The imperial court paid a heavy tribute to the general, and the counties along the way went out of the city to see him off.
In order to negotiate a hundred gifts, blessings are all. -Pre-Qin Dynasty: Zhou Song had a bumper year and was anonymous.
When the festival is appropriate, you will have good fortune.
There has been no catastrophe for more than 100 years, and Uncle Sun has learned Xiao He's law. -Tang Dynasty: Du Fu's Two Memories of the Past
For more than a hundred years, there has been no major disaster. The country is rich and the people are strong, and politics is clear.
Add Xu Ruzi as a gift and Xie Xuancheng as a poem. -Tang Dynasty: Du Fu accompanied Pei Deng to Yueyang Tower.
Pei treated me like Xu ruzi, and I treated Pei as Xie Xuancheng.
Rites and music imprison Ji Dan, while poetry and books bind Kong Qiu. -Tang Dynasty: Wang Ji's "Gift to Chu Shi"
Rites and music imprisoned Ji Dan, while poetry bound Kong Qiu.
4. A poem about etiquette 1, Xunzi Guo Fu, Shang Dynasty: Rites are in the country, like the weight of a scale, like the ink on a rope.
Etiquette is like a balance used to weigh a country, a carpenter's black line is used to judge whether it is straight or not, and compasses and square rulers are used to measure squares and circles.
2, "Book of Rites Jing Jie" Shang Xunzi: Rites are in the right country: the balance is in the light, and the rope ink is straight.
Taking ceremony as the most important "Tao" in governing the country is actually governing the country with ceremony, just like a balance is used to weigh the weight.
3, "Xunzi Wang Ba" Shang Dynasty Xunzi: The reason why the ceremony is also for the country, for example: the balance is also in the light, and the rope ink is also straight.
Etiquette and law are used to govern the country just as scales are used to measure the weight of the country, just as scales are used to measure the weight.
4, "Xunzi Outline" Shang Dynasty Xunzi: Rites are in the right country, such as weight, such as Suomo in the right.
Taking ceremony as the most important "Tao" in governing the country is actually governing the country with ceremony, just like a balance is used to weigh the weight.
5. Xunzi in Shang Dynasty: Fu Li is also in China. Balance is about weight. Rope ink is to merit.
Basic principles that people must follow in their own affairs. If people lose their foothold, they will surely fall and sink.
Etiquette is established in terms of appearance, appearance, etiquette and manners in order to respect each other in social communication activities, and it is a recognized code of conduct as well as * * *. Etiquette is the general name of etiquette, courtesy, etiquette and ceremony.
References:
Sogou encyclopedia-civilized etiquette
5. The poem "Royal Building" about "Li He"
Year: Sui Author: Anonymous
Emperor Qingtan was born in the east of the country.
Recommend, insist, be polite and tolerant.
Zhi Ming is right, and the spirit is cohesive.
The same is true for Wanfang to pay tribute.
Zhang Xianming's Queen Mother Su thanked the ancestral hall.
Year: Sui Author: Anonymous
The animal is fat and unclean.
Three special lines, ten thousand people dance together.
Ceremony and success, joy will be lost.
God protects jade, and jade beans are fluttering.
Ten Poems of Jingling Palace by Emperor Gaozong Tang Ming of the former dynasty.
Year: Song Author: True Sect
There are high temples and strict sacrifices.
Li He, Shao Ji.
The emperor's heart is only peaceful, and the pace of heaven is spinning.
What's done is done, and it will always be spit out.
6. Famous sayings and poems about the ceremony 1. Time is the space for human development.
-Marx 2. Time can heal all wounds. -Me and number three. Time is a constant, but it is a variable for diligent people.
-Rebaco 4. On the clock of time, there are only two words-now. -Shakespeare 5. To do great things, keep your eyes on the future and use your strength in the present.
-Sidney six. The way to finish the work is to cherish every minute. -Darwin VII. There is endless interest at any time; The daily plan is insufficient, and the annual plan is surplus.
-Franklin 8, don't be dejected and despondent, even if you lose everything, you still have a future. -Oscar Wilde's Letters 9. Victory often comes from persistence in the last five minutes.
-Newton 10 whoever abandons time, time will abandon him. -Shakespeare 1 1, young people don't work hard, but old people are sad.
-The ancient poem "Kwai in the Green Garden" 12. It passes on just like this, not ceasing day or night! -Kong Qiu's Confucius 13, Mo Xian, white boy's head, empty and sad.
-Yue Fei's "Man Jiang Hong" 14 is about people who are too busy to study, even in their spare time. -Liu An's Huainanzi 15, flowers are similar year after year, and people are different year after year.
-Liu Xiyi's "White-headed Songs" 16, when can the husband live; Ann can hang her wings? -Bao Zhao's "The Code is Difficult" 17. The difficulty of things lies not in the size, but in knowing when. -Pre-Qin Lv's Spring and Autumn Annals 18. When the time comes, I will never come again.
-Sima Qian's Historical Records 19, if you are lazy, you will lose time. -Guan Zhong's Guan Zi Qing 20. Sages are not expensive, but heavy.
-Liu An's ancient poem Huai Nan Zi: Young people who don't work hard are sad. ("Long Songs") If the prime of life does not come, it will be difficult to wake up one day.
It's time for people to encourage themselves when they reach middle age. Time goes by and waits for no one. (Tao Jin Yuanming's Miscellaneous Poems) Advise you not to cherish the golden robe, and to cherish your youth.
You can fold flowers straight, don't wait until there are no flowers. (Tang Jin Zhuang) Today is today, how come there are so few today! If you don't do it today, when will you do it tomorrow and the day after tomorrow? There are so many tomorrow.
Tomorrow will never come.
7. Poems and proverbs about politeness ● Good manners can bring peace (Joubert)
● The bigger the title, the more complicated the etiquette (Tennyson)
Life is short, but even so, people still have time to pay attention to etiquette (love to pay their lives)
● If you look at etiquette higher than the moon, you will lose sincere trust between people (Bacon)
Etiquette is to add a layer of seaweed to all his other virtues to make it effective for him and gain the respect and love of all close people (Locke)
A grand funeral is not so much to mourn the dead as to satisfy the vanity of the living (laroche Foucault)
People's faces have never been so worldly as at funerals (Joe Norvell Voss)
If a person pays attention to the activities observed in the street, I believe he will find the happiest expression on the hearse (Joe Swift)
What people value most is privilege, even the privilege of presiding over funerals (Jane La Lowell)
● Courtesy is extremely humane (Xunzi)
● Be in charge of the people and be kind (filial).
● Tao should speak with morality, and qi should speak with courtesy (The Analects of Confucius)
If you don't learn etiquette, you can't stand it (The Analects of Confucius)
Low courtesy, from the country, the country, the people, and the children ("Zuo Zhuan")
Low ceremony, the classics of heaven, people's trip ("Zuo Zhuan")
If people are rude, they will not be born, if things are rude, they will not succeed, and if countries are rude, they will be uneasy (Xunzi)
When people are polite, they are safe; When they are rude, they are dangerous (Book of Rites).
● Etiquette is based on righteousness, righteousness is based on benefit, benefit is based on civilians, and political integrity is also (Zuo Zhuan).
Low courtesy, honesty and shame, the four dimensions of the country, the four dimensions can't be opened, and the country breaks (manages).
Low food and clothing to thick people's livelihood, courtesy to raise people's hearts (constant)
Courtesy and righteousness are born in abundance, and theft begins in poverty (Korea)
The above is for reference only, courtesy comes from the heart. Warning: just remember to live up to the conscience of heaven and earth, and don't do anything wrong. People should have an inclusive and understanding heart.