"The first wife" DDT is a beautiful girl, lively, capable and refreshing. To say an inappropriate compliment is that you can't see 30 years old at all, and the axe chisel of time has left no trace, which shows how a person's mind is. The first time I met her, I read her article in the most novel. "I got on the wrong bus and got off at the wrong station" is about meeting and missing in ignorant love, as well as a small fortunate encounter. It's novel and youthful, and it's also my fascination.
Later, when I was old, I couldn't say I didn't like it, but feelings were the easiest to be ground into cocoons. The so-called eternal is harmless. And DDT has grown up and become a 30-year-old person. She is not so stubborn. She is not so young and always carries infinite scenery. She tells some stories in a down-to-earth manner and says a few words of truth over the years more calmly, but she is still interesting, otherwise she would not write: "Chicken soup is delicious because it simplifies life." I am not afraid to face life with truth, but I am never afraid of anything.
The hardest thing in life is to be easily broken and deceived.
Among them, balance measurement is the most annoying. For example, when choosing stability or pursuing wishes, she saw a lot of struggles in the children who asked for help, but when she had to make up her mind, she realized that what she had to say was understandable by others, and those rational or inspirational words really didn't mean much to others, but they made me understand the words she said at the beginning, "I am the person he thinks can say" and do it. "
Once, a friend made a scene because he was on and off with his predecessor, and was stopped by his friend and asked my opinion. I still remember saying to her, "You wanted to see me, but you just wanted to hear me say yes, so I supported you." Persuading people that I am incompetent and comforting them is a cost-free thing. This sentence impressed me deeply, and no one will feel the same way with you. In this case, everyone has the right to pursue his own path and the obligation to pay for himself. The book says that her other friend has won a bright future, but even though the road is hard, I think she is willing to do so.
See you at the usual place and wait for instructions.
Halfway through the book, I finally remembered where the earliest song about DTT came from. She talked about a concert on May Day, 0 1, which is a sign of age and spans ten years between us. Youth, vitality, indomitable spirit, and the feeling of liking Mayday songs are mostly the same. Even if A Xin's voice is not excellent, these songs are not excellent, but in the open-air square, with the cheers of the crowd in the light and shadow effect, I think the scene on Mayday should be the hottest I have ever seen.
Then, DTT, who wrote little love, became a well-known writer, and having a concert with shouting friends became the beginning of nostalgia again and again. Growing up really hurts, just like she said, "Be content with your own room, be content with getting old, be content with getting old." Habit becomes nature, and the lifestyle that grows against it sometimes tries, and most of them hit a wall. That's why she will record these still-preserved stories at the age of 30, saying naive and willful words, and don't lose her curiosity.
Youth can make people interesting. There may be regrets in the future, but there will be a turn for the better.
Reach middle age
This is a necessary stage of DTT, but it can be seen that she is trying to get rid of it. What should I look like after 30 years old? I will be a little timid, I will get used to my unaccustomed lifestyle, and I will find thousands of excuses for my despair, doubt and stubbornness. This is not what she wants. More completely, this is not what we want.
Watch another favorite movie, write a letter to my dear friend, applaud Hua and Alice, and let farewell be like broken glass. DTT, who is 30 years old, is still walking slowly on the road he loves. These stories are told to us, not to herself. She should believe in this kind of life, even without the help of the truth, even without the encouragement of positive energy, but keep a cat, have a drink and meet.