They don't have to be like their parents and mothers. Even if it is painful to be together, I will not divorce. They would rather torture each other for life than let outsiders see jokes!
Contemporary women's thoughts have matured, and they are no longer as conservative as before. Unlike previous women, for the sake of children and family, she would rather be wronged for a lifetime and endure her husband's beatings than divorce!
More and more women are reluctant to get married and have children. Even after marriage, if the marriage is painful, they will resolutely file for divorce and will not end this relationship!
Many people want to know why most women don't want to remarry once divorced. These three women all expressed their difficulties!
The first woman's name is Xiao Yaner!
She is 49 years old and has opened her own studio. There is no problem supporting yourself and your daughter!
Xiaoyan divorced mainly because her in-laws were too calculating, and her husband was a mother-in-law who listened to her in-laws!
Xiaoyan was very simple when she was young. After being in love with her husband for three months, she agreed to get married because she felt that her husband was honest and had a stable job!
When I got married, my husband used raising children in the future as an excuse. My parents were in poor health and needed money badly. They didn't give bride price or buy a house!
Xiaoyan's parents paid 500,000 yuan to buy a house for Xiaoyan and her husband.
Xiaoyan will buy gifts for her in-laws on holidays, but her in-laws are getting worse and worse and her husband is getting colder and colder.
In fact, my in-laws want Xiaoyan to sell her house and then give her money to buy a new house in the city.
I want to subsidize my family these years. My husband never gives himself gifts on holidays. Now, although she is ill, I still have the idea of this house.
Xiaoyan is getting more and more sad. Not selling the house, her husband beat her, and she finally decided to divorce.
The husband exposed his true nature and hit Xiaoyan, dragging it all the time. Finally, the family took 654.38+ million to her husband, and the two divorced!
After her ex-husband divorced, she didn't find a suitable woman, so she finally had to pull her face and ask for remarriage. Xiaoyan smiled with her daughter in her arms: "I can't remarry with you in this life. I have put up with people like you once, and I will never let you hurt me again! "
The second woman: Xiaoyue, 35, runs a factory!
Her divorce was mainly due to her poor health and she never had children.
She is an honest and conscientious woman. She has been in the factory, doing business and accounting, and finally started her own business!
She used to help her husband do business at her husband's house. As a result, after the business became bigger, her in-laws and husband didn't like abortion and couldn't have children, so they left her alone.
The ex-husband married another one after his divorce. A young woman in her twenties gave birth to a son.
However, young women are particularly grumpy, and going out to play cards all day is particularly bad for their in-laws.
Over time, the ex-husband and in-laws feel that it is not as good as simple abortion, so they want to divorce and remarry!
Abortion refused, and she didn't want to remarry, mainly because she felt that people like her ex-husband had a bad personality. Even if she remarries him, there will be no good life in the future.
The third woman: Wei, 40 years old, white-collar worker!
Wei met her husband through blind date, and her husband was very kind to her after marriage!
However, when she gave birth to her son, her husband didn't come back for several days.
In the second month, Wei blew a cold wind and burned badly. Her family took care of her all night, and her husband was still playing mahjong outside, regardless of his wife and son when he came back!
It turns out that my husband fell in love with a girl in the hotel and cheated when his wife needed someone to take care of herself most after giving birth to a child!
Abortion chose divorce. Relatives, friends, in-laws and husbands often apologized. The ex-husband said that he would never make mistakes again, and asked Wei to forgive him and remarry with him!
However, Wei refused to agree to remarry. She said that men cheat only zero times and countless times, and it is useless to cheat a hundred times. I will never marry again in my life!
Husband and wife should trust each other after marriage. Only by giving and trusting each other can two people grow old together!