I have a good relationship with a friend, but recently I found out that she betrayed me. What should I do?

With the accumulation of personal social experience and psychological maturity, people begin to understand that everything is not absolute. Even the best friends will not remain absolutely loyal. Adult communication rules are often based on egoism, and almost no one will do anything selfless and only for the benefit of others. In fact, everyone wants to be close to the closest person, but the reality always wakes us up heavily. Today, I have a good relationship with a friend, but recently I found out that she betrayed us. What should we do?

1. No matter how hard it is to give up, you need a reason.

A friendship that can't stand the test will be useless if you get along for a long time. Feelings are cultivated day by day. Get along for a long time, but the villain is always a villain. They only have various interests in their eyes, and they can't resist the temptation of interests after a long time of communication. In front of money and friendship, many people choose the former. This is a cruel reality, which is hard to accept, but it must also be accepted. Any relationship needs reason, love or friendship. Maybe you're wearing a pair of pants. Maybe you are brothers and sisters, but betrayal is betrayal. The other party made a decision and chose to betray you. You don't have to give up or stay. There is nothing wrong with reason. On the road of feelings, it is understandable to give everything for feelings and make some seemingly irrational profligacy in desperation. Because there is a reward, because the other person has deep feelings for himself and is willing to do it. However, if the other party has betrayed you, don't be reluctant to go. At this time, you must stop the loss promptly and decisively.

2. Analyze the reasons for betrayal

Once things happen, we should calmly analyze them, because we know that everything happens for a reason. If your good friend was friendly before and suddenly changed, something must have happened. You must know the reason first. Actively communicate and face it. There are problems between girlfriends, don't let them give up on each other, and don't let the relationship get stuck there. But after understanding the reasons, analyze whose fault it is. If it is your own problem, then take the initiative to make it clear to the other party.

3. Change your own practice

Everyone has his own habits, which is understandable. First of all, people should live for themselves and don't wronged themselves. However, since people are social animals, they should know the rules of interacting with others and change themselves as much as possible. Make up your mind to make peace. If our girlfriend betrays us, it's because of us. We should find out the reasons and seek countermeasures. If the other party doesn't forgive us in time, we should keep a good attitude, make up our minds and strive for good results.