? Why bother? It's a word or a sentence that people often mention. It unifies the positive and negative attitudes, the perceptual and rational feelings of l
? Why bother? It's a word or a sentence that people often mention. It unifies the positive and negative attitudes, the perceptual and rational feelings of life and the philosophy of life, including time and space, everything and everything. It is like a panacea. Words? Get rid of disease. Let your excited life be relaxed, and let your relaxed life be excited again, thus showing the powerful power of moderation and peace. Did you hear that? Why bother? After that, people often get comfort, warmth and encouragement, so that they will modify their life plans, move on or make concessions until they reach their life goals? The vast sky? .
? Why bother? With the meaning of tolerance and advice? Mediation? Function, what does the general speaker do after delivering a sermon? The ending? Use. For example, if you quarrel with your wife, your voice is getting louder and louder, and you even roll up your sleeves, hit people, throw things and ask for a divorce. People who are good at persuading people come to you and say calmly: How can there be a one-night feud between husband and wife? There's no need to haggle over it. This kind of quarrel will affect the feelings of husband and wife, children's study, parents' health and neighbors' sleep. Why?
For the people who stopped the fight? Why bother? Finally, I will give you enough thinking space. What does this mean? Do you know that?/You know what? . Calm down and think about it. Couple? After all, you are not the enemy. When you are walking in the street, you still smile when you meet someone you don't know. Ordinary colleagues give you favors, and you have to pay them back. But why not be generous to your family? Calm down, you will slowly adjust your mentality, your mood will slowly ease, and your voice will slowly soften. Couple? The relationship began to make up. Afterwards, the two sides summed up, commented on each other and fell in love. Of course there is? Iron skeleton? Don't listen to advice, use it? Class struggle as the key link? What does it mean? Fire and water are incompatible? Attitude to deal with contradictions, expand disputes, the result is both, why?
? Why bother? Often full of warmth, which is also full of sadness and guilt. Remember the song "Letter from Home"? Does dad go to work every day? Don't go without strict management. Although it does not conform to the rules and regulations of the Commission for Discipline Inspection, it is full of human warmth. Can you imagine? Dad? Approaching retirement age (this age is usually at work? Playing tricks? ), coupled with his poor health, his distant son was worried and sad that he could not accompany him, so he wrote a letter from home to comfort him? Dad? Be lazy when you should be lazy and work hard all your life. Why bother!
But on the other hand, why can't my son go back to Guangzhou? In front of dear mom and dad? How nice it is to sing this song. I have never worked, and I have never been to Guangzhou so far. I guess the reason here: because many things can't be separated; Because it is not easy to ask for leave, the company has to deduct money; Because there are many people who are not easy to ride in Spring Festival travel rush, the fare is expensive; Because the task is heavy and the holiday is short; Because there are still unpaid wages that have not been received; Because I have a home there, my wife is pregnant and so on. Of course, there are reasons I can't guess, but I will stay in the end anyway. Dear mom and dad? Waiting to go home alone in my hometown. Many of these left-behind elderly people still need help? Dear son? Foster sons are not allowed to be idle.
Of course, I believe this is the helplessness of reality, not the weakness of human feelings. But no matter how hard the work is, no matter how crowded the time is, no matter how complicated the trivial matters are. Do I have to go home for the New Year? . We are growing up, our parents are getting old, we are getting old, or they have approached the edge of the grave. In addition, some old people are in poor health, so it is also a matter of one day to spend more time with them or have a look. Give your family a little tenderness, give your family a ray of warmth and give the world a favor. You need to start with me, from now on. Some people say that the best love is companionship. Otherwise, why bother?
Of course, I'm not saying that work is not important. I absolutely advocate hard work and conscientious, but I also advocate scientific division of time, reasonable arrangement of work, so that I can have my own time and control it freely. Someone once advocated it? 5+2? 、? White+black? , seamless operation, also put forward? Treat women as men and men as animals? ,? Despair? Work. But I think this is inhuman, at least unscientific. In any case, work will not make people despair, everyone just needs to do their best and do their duty. Imagine, life is gone, how to fight?
? Why bother? The word also contains the meaning of fate, revealing the elements of enlightenment and condemnation. For example, there are always some people who can't see through fame and fortune and are blind? Seeking officials and wealth? If you deliberately sharpen your head, specialize in things, travel all over the north and south, be condescending and lose your dignity, maybe you can get the position you want. However, if you don't deserve virtue, or your ability is low, or you work hard, you will get the opposite result and get no respect. Why bother? Some people are bold, violate the law and discipline, and finally lose their reputation, status and freedom. What they worked so hard for was a reward, as if life had always been a nightmare. Why bother? I saw in in the name of people that an ugly official piled up a lot of money in a room and took time to smell it? Copper smell? But he is frugal and cautious at ordinary times. He is too rich to use it. Why bother? Others are greedy and crazy, and finally they are judged by the people. I think they used to be national talents. If I had known? Why bother? Its far-reaching significance, law-abiding, honest and clean, will naturally win the support and love of the broad masses of the people.
It suddenly occurred to me that Tao Yuanming, a poet at the end of the Eastern Jin Dynasty, liked to keep company with birds all his life, like to pick chrysanthemums leisurely under the hedge, and enjoy pastoral fun and inner peace. But Tao Yuanming was born at the wrong time, and he was talented. We live in such an era of peace and prosperity. Of course, we can't fully accept Tao Yuanming's point of view. If we are wronged and frustrated, we will shut ourselves up and retreat to a corner, thus wasting our good time. Why?
When you calm down and watch the ups and downs of tea in a cup, you will feel that life is like drinking tea, either pick it up or put it down. I guess it's here? Why bother? To sum up briefly, what is it? A blender? The relationship between people is soft and friendly, knowing each other is fate, getting along is share, arguing or even fighting over trifles, haggling over immediate interests and even making the dormitory restless, why bother; Is it? Pause button? When you don't care about your health. Capital? What should you think when you work hard and inadvertently neglect your family and friendship and your health? Why bother? ; I think so, right? Warning device? Help us clear our minds and educate ourselves. When you get carried away, arrogant, or even want to break the law, think of it in time? Why bother? .
Memories Why bother? Its various functions and tastes have benefited me a lot. I know that it contains rich Confucian philosophical thoughts, which is a metaphor for the outlook on life, such as not liking, not being sad, not complaining, not hating, not being greedy, and so on. It is not deliberate but follows fate, peaceful and indifferent, showing the atmosphere, nobility and femininity of human nature, and finally expressing China people's impartial way of life and the golden mean.
However, how many people can really understand? But I think, I have to keep putting? Why bother? Right on the tip of my tongue.
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