Fan Kuai Zhang Fei, the butcher of the dog and the butcher of the pig, are both in-laws of the emperor. Who has higher EQ?

Lead: Many people compare Fan Kuai and Zhang Fei to the same kind of people, because the film and television dramas are misleading, that is, they kill dogs and pigs. Actually, this is not right. Although these two people have similarities, there is also a big gap. It is true that Fan Kuai and Zhang Fei are royalty. Fan Kuai's wife is Lv Hou's sister, so Fan Kuai and Liu Bang are brothers-in-law. And Zhang Fei's daughter is Liu Chan's wife, so Zhang Fei and Liu Bei are in-laws. In fact, the emotional intelligence of two people is completely different. We can look at what they have done, and we can find that the gap between these two people is still quite large.

0 1 Both Fan Kuai and Zhang Fei once saved their masters by wit. With a group of brothers, Liu Bang defeated the army of Wang Li, who was guarding the city, and thus advanced into Xianyang city naturally. Zi Ying, King of Qin, acceded to the throne. Obviously, Liu Bang is going to be king. So Sean went to the gate and saw Fan Kuai. Fan Kuai said? What happened today? ? Liang Yue:? Very urgent. Today, Xiang Zhuang's sword dance often means Pei Gong. ? Hey:? This forced, please enter, the same life. ? Kuang entered the military gate with a sword and shield. When JiBing could stop it, Fan Kuai slammed the shield on his side, and the soldiers rushed into the ground with a bang. He stood in Xixiang, covered with curtains, looking at Wang Xiang, smoothing his hair and blinking. -Historical records

Many people don't understand why Liu Bang is king at this time. In fact, being king in Guanzhong is a great temptation for anyone, because Xianyang at that time gathered all the treasures in the world and was the richest place in the world. Liu bang's behavior angered Xiang Yu, so Xiang Yu sent troops to attack Hanguguan. As a result, Liu Bang was defeated and had to go to dinner. This banquet was prepared by Xiang Yu to kill Liu Bang.

However, during the dinner, Fan Kuai suddenly appeared. He ran to Xiang Yu for wine and meat, and ate like a hero, regardless of his image. Xiang Yu was very happy to see such a hero and gave him all kinds of wine and meat. In this way, Fan Kuai actually diverted Xiang Yu's attention and won valuable time to save Liu Bang. Later, Liu Bang was able to escape smoothly, thanks to Fan Kuai.

Liu Bei Group can't get along in the north, so it has to settle down here in the south. Liu Biao gave him a new county town, where Liu Bei spent several years carefree. However, with the arrival of Cao Cao's army, Liu Bei had to flee with the new wild people. As a result, Cao Cao's army caught up with him because he walked too slowly. Table pawn, Cao Gong into Jingzhou, the first master ran south of the Yangtze River.

Zuo Zongtang pursued him day and night in Osaka, Dangyang. When my late Lord heard of Cao Gong's death, he left his wife and made Fei ride twenty horses. Fly according to the water, the bridge is broken and the spear is broken. Body is Zhang Yide also, can come to * * * daredevil! ? No enemy dared to approach, so it was exempted. My ancestors decided to fly to the south of the Yangtze River, and it was most appropriate for them to be the prefect, recruit generals, seal a new pavilion, and then transfer to Nanjun. -History of the Three Kingdoms

In order to cover the departure of Liu Bei's main force and the people, Zhang Fei waited for the arrival of Cao Jun on Dangyang Bridge with twenty cavalry. Because Zhang Fei is brave, no one dares to compete with him. Moreover, Zhang Fei only brought twenty cavalry, and Cao Cao thought it must be an ambush, so this incident successfully resolved Liu Bei's disaster. It won valuable time for saving Liu Bei Group.

Fan Kuai basically has no EQ, but Zhang Fei's EQ is quite high. What Fan Kuai left over from his life was basically a matter of making contributions, and he rarely mentioned EQ. Perhaps the only thing mentioned is eating meat at the Hongmen banquet, which seems a little emotional intelligence. Besides, what we see is a brave man. In those days, Liu Bang loved a eunuch and often slept with him. Ministers were afraid to persuade this matter, but Fan Kuai heard about it and immediately ran to find Liu Bang, saying that he had forgotten the story of Qin Shihuang and Zhao Gao?

The ancestors entered Yizhou and attacked Liu Zhang, and they went upstream with Zhuge Liang and divided into counties. To Jiangzhou, the broken Zhang will be the prefect of Ba County and will be respected. Yan Fei said? The army has arrived, why not surrender and dare to refuse to fight? ? Yan replied:? Your Majesty and others invaded our state, but there were beheaded generals and no surrendered generals. ? Fly in anger, make the left and right sides open, and the color remains the same, saying:? What is anger and evil? ? Fly hard and let it go, attracting it as a guest. -History of the Three Kingdoms

Liu Bang was a little angry at this, but he burst out laughing, because Liu Bang knew that Fan Kuai was a outspoken man, and only he dared to say so.

In contrast, Zhang Fei's EQ is relatively high. For example, in the process of Liu Bei's seizing Yizhou, Zhang Fei's EQ achieved good results. At that time, Liu Bei attacked Luocheng, but he couldn't attack for a long time, and he also brought his strategist Pang Tong in. So Liu Bei asked Zhuge Liang to take Zhang Fei and Zhao Yun into Yizhou. At that time, Zhang Fei led all the army horses to attack the city by land alone. When he hit Jiangzhou, Jiangzhou Shoujiang Yan Yan refused to surrender, and Zhang Fei led the troops to lay Jiangzhou in a rage. Yan Yan was therefore captured by Zhang Fei. Zhang Fei was angry at first, but when he saw that Yan Yan, a veteran, was so brave, he had the idea of conquering him.

So he deliberately pretended to be angry and wanted to kill Yan Yan, but Yan Yan was full of lofty wishes. So Zhang Fei released Yan Yan and made him a guest of honor to show his respect for Yan Yan. The biggest advantage of this move is that Zhang Fei's siege has been much smoother since then, because there is a local guide from Yizhou, and his reputation as a corporal does not spread, and there are basically no obstacles along the way. This shows that Zhang Fei is not a military commander who only knows siege, but has a lot of careful thoughts.

Fan Kuai's life is fatal, but Zhang Fei's death is pitiful. When Emperor Gaozu Liu Bang was alive, he was actually very dissatisfied with Lv Hou's meddling. But at that time, he was too old to handle many things well. At this time, Liu Bang had just defeated Ying Bu, and the injury broke out again. And Lu Wan, the prince of the north, started to make trouble again. In desperation, Liu Bang had to send Fan Kuai to suppress it. Parallel heard that the high emperor collapsed, afraid of Lv Hou and Lv Gou angry, went first. Every messenger, Zhao Ping and Guan Ying, stayed in Xingyang. Ping received the imperial edict and immediately went back to the palace to cry because of the funeral. Lv Hou mourned, saying? Thank you for your vacation, Mr. Wang. ? If you are afraid of it, you will get it because of your firm invitation. The queen mother thought it was a doctor and said, Fu hui. ? Lu is not allowed to leave after he has been here. When Fan Kuai arrives, the city will be forgiven. -Historical records

Liu Bang will regret it later, because Fan Kuai is Lv Hou's brother-in-law and will help Lv Hou seize power sooner or later. So Liu ordered and replaced Fan Kuai, and let him kill Fan Kuai. After Chen Ping took Fan Kuai into custody, frequency took the place of Fan Kuai. But this time, a question was put before them, whether to kill Fan Kuai or not. Chen Ping said that Liu Bang could not be killed because he was old. If Fan Kuai is killed, they will have no way out until Lv Hou really takes power.

This time coincides with Liu Bang's death. In order to explain the matter clearly, Chen Ping immediately flew to Chang 'an, cried the whole thing in front of Liu Bang, and said that they had not laid hands on Fan Kuai. This is for the Lv Hou sisters. That saved Fan Kuai's life. Zhang is not so lucky. He likes drinking, and he likes hitting people when he is drunk. It happened that Guan Yu was killed by Sun Quan's men in Jingzhou, and Liu Bei had no intention of revenge for the time being.

So Zhang Fei drank day and night, trying to drown his sorrows. But that day he got drunk and hit Fan Jiang and Zhang Da, and it looked serious. They thought that it would be better to kill Zhang Fei and take refuge in Soochow. So in the evening, when Zhang Fei was drunk and sleeping, they cut off Zhang Fei's head and sent it to Soochow. No one expected that the final outcome of a generation of valiant soldiers was so bleak.

Summary: Zhang Fei's EQ is higher than Fan Kuai's. In fact, from these stories, we can see that there is a big gap between the emotional intelligence of these two people. Fan Kuai can be said to have no emotional intelligence, but he was lucky enough to marry Lv Hou's sister. Although it also brings him some risks, it is still beneficial on the whole. And Zhang Fei's emotional intelligence is not simple. It is said that Zhang Fei is not the image of Fan Kuai who kills pigs every family, but it doesn't mean that he is a clown. A lot of data show that Zhang Fei is not only a man of five big and three thick, but also a small white face, and he is both civil and military, especially calligraphy. It's hard to imagine why such a talented little white face can be so brave when fighting on the battlefield.

References:

Historical Records and the History of the Three Kingdoms