What people need most in middle age is a leisurely heart.
I think fireworks are everyone's shackles, necessities of life and lifelong companions. We are tired of it all our lives, but we are also intoxicated with it. In our hearts, the life of fireworks has become everyone's hope.
Even in Lin Qingxuan, in the autumn dusk, bamboo leaves are cooked with chrysanthemums, and "a pot of moonlight wine is warmed" to make mermaids and Haitang intoxicated. Poetic fireworks are misty.
Middle-aged people, decades of life training, not beyond fireworks, but in the fireworks of life, what kind of height to live.
Middle-aged people's lives, such as mountain climbing, reached the peak in one breath and achieved their goals, but they also missed the scenery and consumed almost all their physical strength.
If we slow down, make tea and wine, enjoy the scenery and chat, miss bloom, appreciate the dead leaves, walk slowly, live slowly, watch the scenery slowly and savor the life every day, what does it matter if we don't reach the peak?
Slowness is a lost art.
The ancients interpreted slow life very well, not being lazy or idle, but being able to find all the good things in life.
Use the slogan of a modern roadside stall: pass by, pass by, don't miss it. And it is a comprehensive way of walking, watching, thinking, thinking and writing.
Is a state of mind, when you walk in the desert, you will find that the desert is lonely and straight, and the long river sets the yen.
At that time, poets and heartbroken people could enjoy the gentleness of people with small bridges and flowing water even if they wandered around the world.
If you are beyond the world, you can pick chrysanthemums under the east fence and see Nanshan leisurely. If you don't know the world, you won't be self-centered.
A harmonious pastoral picture that respects the old and loves the young and spans hundreds of years is still fresh and warm when it comes to our eyes.
Luoshui is clear, watching the autumn wind. A mentality, a way of life. No matter what kind of mood, you can send your feelings to the mountains and rivers and discover the truth and beauty of the world.
Slowness is a state, but also a state of mind.
Su Dongpo sighed: When will I go home and be a free man? Yes, a piano, a pot of wine and a cloud.
The dream after retirement is as described by Bai Laimei:
But I have to have a yard, carry a few trees and flowers, make a pot of green tea, and send it for a lifetime.
Idle, take care of the plants in the yard, cook the old tea hidden in the cupboard, and wipe the rest of the time on the table.
If the dog is chasing, the chicken is flying and the cat is jumping, an Hua Teng and flowers are not necessarily expensive, and they are all your favorite vegetables. Plant your favorite vegetables in a vegetable field.
Grow vegetables, serve flowers, and watch noisy chickens fly and dogs jump every day. When the sun is just right, a book, a pot of tea and hops under the clouds are even more comfortable in the fireworks.
Middle-aged life is a self-improvement process. After the noise, it is not loneliness, but inner peace, a calm, indifferent and calm practice. It is a grasp of the time scale.
You can spend a few days studying a delicious food, go a long way to see an ocean of flowers, avoid the noise of the weekend and have a leisurely meal in your favorite restaurant.
You can stay from midnight until dawn, just to shoot a bloom and a piece of frost.
Travel does not have to wait for holidays, only in the off-season, occupying an entire scenic spot.
When you don't want to get up, you can close the curtains and simulate another night.
You can get together with two or three friends, cook tea around the stove and chat.
You can have more time, keep a book, hold a cup of tea and watch the seasons change outside the window.
It is true that flowers are beautiful in spring, summer, autumn and winter, and snow, thunder and electricity are inevitable. Life is the same, decades of years, where there is no royal road, some just learn to take it easy.
What people want in middle age is demanding. Health, peace and worry-free can make you happy. Life itself is the triviality of daily life, and we just need to treat it with a normal heart.
Leisure time, a cup of tea and a book are the most enjoyable time.
Watch the wind and rain, sit and watch Yun Qi, stay calm, fight and grab, and wait for the years to grow old with joy.
Time is like the sand at the fingertips, and it becomes an uncontrollable past in an instant. Holding a hand of time, holding a hand of understanding, the middle-aged years slowly pass by and savor. Through the hustle and bustle of the world of mortals, the depth of time is still the quiet beauty of years.