You should remember that the matter of sealing Hou is your own, and fame is not predestined by heaven.
2, how many difficult things are in front of you, since ancient times, men should be self-reliant. -"Give away" by Li Xianyong in the Tang Dynasty
How many disappointments there are in front of us, men must always be self-reliant and self-reliant. No matter what difficulties you meet, you should face them firmly.
3, the blade is sharpened, and the plum blossoms are bitter and cold. -Anonymous "Negative Textbook" in Ming Dynasty
Bao Jianfeng is gained from tempering, and the plum blossoms that have survived the cold winter are more fragrant. Metaphor requires constant efforts, training and overcoming certain difficulties in order to have precious qualities or beautiful talents.
4. It is better to serve others than to serve yourself, and it is better for people to be themselves than to be others. -from the warring States period, "everything goes wrong, and the foreign reserves say the right is lower."
It is better to rely on others than on yourself, and it is better to rely on those who do things for themselves.
5, Tian Xingjian, the gentleman is constantly striving for self-improvement. -The Book of Changes by Zhou Wenwang and Ji Chang in the Western Zhou Dynasty
Heaven (that is, nature) is vigorous, and accordingly, a gentleman should do things in heaven, constantly strive for self-improvement and be resolute and self-reliant.
2. Inspirational classical Chinese "Born in sorrow, died in happiness"
Shun was born in mu, Fu Shuo was born in the middle of the building, and the glue was in fish and salt. Guan Yi I was a scholar, Sun Shuai was in the sea, and a hundred miles was in the city. Therefore, when the sky falls, people must first suffer their minds, their bones and muscles, starve their bodies, empty their bodies, and mess around. Therefore, patience has benefited them a lot. People are unchangeable, then they can change, get stuck in their hearts, weigh their considerations, then make them, express them with color, make them with sound, and then make metaphors. A country, if there are no ministers and wise men who can assist the king, will often be in danger of the collapse of its neighboring countries and the misfortunes from abroad. Then I know that I was born in sorrow and died in happiness. Mencius said: "Teaching is also a lot of skills, and those who despise teaching are just teaching."
(Note) Shun was appointed from the field and selected from the masons who built the wall. The glue was used by the people who sold fish and salt. Guan Yiwu was used after being released from the prison officer. Sun Shuaio was selected from the secluded seaside, and Prissy was redeemed from the slave market. Therefore, God will give such people a great responsibility. They must first temper their will, make their bones and muscles tired, make themselves suffer from hunger, make themselves suffer from poverty, and make things difficult for them. These methods will alert his heart, hone his character and increase his talents that he does not have.
People often make mistakes before they can correct them; When I make a mistake, my mind is troubled and my thinking is blocked, so that I can rise up [or do something] in the future; The haggard color is shown on the face, the sigh is shown in the voice, and then I understand. If there are no ministers who uphold the law and sages who can assist the monarch at home, and there are no evenly matched countries and disasters from abroad, countries (like this) will often perish.
We can know that anxiety can make people (or countries) survive and develop, while ease and enjoyment can make people (or countries) languish and die.
3. Please recommend some inspirational classical Chinese that have gone through hardships but are indomitable and successful, and don't obliterate their virtues in one stroke.
-"Zuo Zhuan" translation: When evaluating a person, you can't deny his credit because of a small mistake. 2, it is not too much to see good, and seeing bad is like exploring soup.
When you meet a good man, you are afraid that it is too late to learn from him. Seeing a good thing, I'm afraid I can't do it. Seeing evil people doing bad things is like touching hot water. You should leave at once and stay away.
But as long as you climb a flight of stairs, you can broaden your horizons by 300 miles. -Wang Zhihuan Translation: If you want to see the scenery farther and wider, you have to go to by going up one flight of stairs.
If you want to learn more and deeper knowledge, you must work harder than before. 4, the friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, and the friendship between villains is as sweet as ever.
-"Zhuangzi" translation: The communication between gentlemen is as dull as water, so that friendship will last long; The intercourse between villains is as thick as sweet wine, but it won't last long. 5. Learn to be close to knowledge, be close to benevolence, and be ashamed to be close to courage.
-"The Doctrine of the Mean" translation: Diligence is close to wisdom, and as long as you work hard, you will be close to benevolence. Knowing right and wrong, good and evil is a sign of courage. 6, a good word warms three winters, and a bad word hurts in June.
-Translation of proverbs in the Ming Dynasty: A kind and beneficial word can make the listener feel warm even in the cold of three winters; On the contrary, bitter words hurt others' feelings and self-esteem, even in the summer of June, people will feel cold. 7. After Wan Jing, filial piety comes first.
-"Augmented Xianwen" translation: Wan Jing tells the truth, and filial love for brothers takes the lead. 8. Good and evil are made by people, and good and evil are brought by themselves.
-"Augmented Xianwen" translation: Good things and bad things are done by yourself, and disasters and happiness are attracted by your words and deeds. 9. The gentleman hides the device in his body and waits for the opportunity.
-"Zhouyi" translation: Even if a gentleman has outstanding skills, he will not show off and show off everywhere. But to show your talents or skills when necessary.
10, never tire of learning, never tire of teaching. -"The Analects of Confucius" translation: study hard but don't feel satisfied, and teach others not to get bored.
1 1, the world knows how to take it, but doesn't know how to take it. People all think that what they get from others is harvest, but they don't know that giving to others is harvest.
12, people are inherently mortal, and death is heavier than Mount Tai or lighter than a feather. -[Han] Sima Qian translation: People will die after all, but the value of death is different. To die for the just cause of the people is heavier than Mount Tai, and those who are selfish and harm others are lighter than a feather.
13, sheep have the grace of kneeling and nursing, and crows have the meaning of feeding back. -Translation of "Glory and Dedication": The lamb has the gratitude to kneel down to receive breast milk, and the little crow has the kindness to feed the mother crow. Children should know how to be filial to their parents.
14, the strong have their own hands, don't brag to others. Although you are a strong man, there must be someone better than you, so don't be conceited and praise yourself in front of others.
15, jade is rough and abrasive; People don't learn or know. -"Book of Rites" translation: Jade cannot be useful if it is not carved; People don't learn and don't understand.
16, Man Cang loses money and gains moderately. -"Shangshu" translation: Being complacent about what has been achieved will bring losses and disasters; Only by being modest and always aware of your own shortcomings can you benefit from it.
17, people don't know or care, aren't they gentlemen? If I have achieved something that others don't understand, I will never feel angry or wronged. Isn't this also a gentleman's demeanor? 18, when the book is used, you won't be so annoying. You won't know how difficult it is until you have been there.
-translated by Chen Tingzhuo: Knowledge always makes people feel inadequate. A lot of things, unless you have experienced it yourself, you don't know how difficult it is. 19, stupid birds fly first and become trees early, and stupid people study hard and become useful early.
A slow-flying bird will fly into the forest earlier than other birds, and a person who is not smart enough can become a useful talent earlier than others as long as he works hard. 20. There is a road to diligence in Shushan, and there is no limit to learning the sea.
Diligence is a shortcut to the peak of knowledge. You can swim freely in the ocean of knowledge and are not afraid of hardship. 2 1, learning is like sailing against the current, if you don't advance, you will retreat.
-"Zeng Xianwen" translation: Learning should keep forging ahead and work hard, just like sailing against the current. If you don't work hard, you can only go backwards. 22. My life is limited, and so is my knowledge.
-"Zhuangzi" translation: My life is limited, but human knowledge is infinite. 23, old and old, people are old; Young people, young people, young people.
-"Mencius" translation: respect and love the elders of others, just like respecting and loving your own elders; Love other people's children as you love your own. 24. If you don't fight when you see humiliation, it's a shame.
When justice is insulted and bullied, it is shameful not to stand up. 25, the embankment of thousands of feet, collapsed with ant holes; A room 100 feet high was burning with sudden smoke.
-"Han Feizi" translation: Li Qian levee, because there are ants digging holes, it may collapse and burst; A 100-foot-high building may be burned down by a fire caused by sparks from a chimney gap. 26. The speaker is innocent, and those who smell it are enough to quit.
-Translation of Preface to Poetry: Those who make critical comments are not guilty. When you hear criticism from others, you should seriously reflect on yourself, correct your mistakes and take it as advice from others.
27. Good medicine tastes bitter and is good for illness, but advice when most unpleasant is good for action. -"Confucius' Family Language" translation: Good medicine tastes bitter and is good for the disease; Advice may sound bad, but it is good for people's behavior.
28, words must be believed, and actions must be fruitful. -translation of the Analects of Confucius: words must be done; Once you have determined what you want to do, you should do it resolutely and boldly.
I don't care, I don't need it, I don't care, I don't care. -"The Analects of Confucius" translation: Tell the truth, don't guess out of thin air; Don't be arbitrary, willful and feasible; Flexible action, not rigid; Everything is not centered on "I", not self-righteous, and cooperate with people around me to complete the task.
30. In a threesome, there must be a teacher, choose the good one and follow it, and change the bad one. Translation of the Analects of Confucius: When three people are together, there must always be one person worth learning in some way, and that person can be me.