Tell me a true story. When I gave birth to my eldest child, there was a woman on the delivery bed next door. I don’t know where she was from, but I just knew she was probably poor. Of course, I didn’t mean to dislike her, I just wanted to They said that because of poverty, the birth of their first baby took too long, and the amniotic fluid was almost gone. In short, there was a lack of oxygen after birth. Later, the child had some mental problems and other problems. It reflects the sorrow of poor and humble couples.
When we give birth to a baby, we always prepare money for normal delivery or in case of caesarean section. These two young couples look relatively young. The girl’s water broke after she was born. The doctor said that the amniotic fluid It’s not too much. If the baby is not born for a long time, a caesarean section may be necessary, otherwise the baby may be in danger. At that time, the mother’s husband said that we would not do a caesarean section.
Later, she gave birth for a long time, for about a day, and the fetus had a big head. The mother was in so much pain that she couldn’t cry out. Our other mothers who were in better condition gave her food. I drank chocolate and red bull, etc. Later, due to the slow fetal heart rate and low amniotic fluid, the doctor said several times that a caesarean section was necessary, but the mother’s husband refused to sign, and the fetus was finally born.
But after he was born, he seemed to be unable to breathe on his own or something. His face was suffocated and blue, so he was sent to the neonatal department. However, it was later said that he was forced to come out by the husband’s family members after half a day in the hospital. , because they didn’t want to spend money, and because they had no money, they ended up leaving the hospital the next day. The doctor said at the time that in this case, the child might end up with a series of sequelae, including mental problems. Or there may be a developmental problem.
Sometimes it doesn’t mean that a woman must find someone with good financial conditions, but that she must find someone who values ??your life.