So much love in this world can't resist the passage of time, and finally it gradually loses to trivial matters. At least in the book, this is the love between Kennan and Boya. It is not the fragility of love, but over time, a person's nature will gradually be exposed, with good and evil, lofty and tacky. Kennan was beautiful and lively at first, but later Kennan became vain; The beginning of Boya infinitely magnified Kennan's good, and later Boya infinitely magnified Kennan's bad.
If so, so is Danny. At first, the good of Boya was infinitely magnified, and later, the bad of Boya was infinitely magnified.
Maybe I can only say that this kind of love is too superficial. I didn't have a chance to tell anyone, but it has changed.
I often feel that love, especially the unstable long-term relationship, is actually a feeling of walking on thin ice, because the relationship between lovers is very delicate, just like stepdaughter and stepmother. Two unrelated people, at some point, rely on hormones to attract each other and then come together. This combination of two unrelated people who have no social relationship will inevitably have many problems. A small move, or a trivial matter, will arouse people's infinite reverie, which may be good or bad.
To be honest, I still doubt Boya. Because I have also seen "Clouds in Beijing", I always feel that Boya's father is very rebellious and bohemian. The result of rebellion is to hurt the closest relatives, and the result of bohemian is to hurt the beloved. How can love be like that? No origin.
But I have to admit that Boya loves Dany. At the last moment, he would rather choose sacrifice to quit Dany's life. In fact, this kind of sacrifice is unnecessary. He can hide and deal with the future when the Japanese are gone. Maybe it is passion, maybe it is unacceptable. Boya was sure that Dany had fallen in love with Lao Peng at that moment, and she was already dead. There is a word in criminal psychology called "passion killing", which can be said to be passion suicide here.
But I have to suspect that Boya may not love Dany. At that time, Rendi also regarded Silverscreen as a plaything, and Silverscreen was willing to be a plaything. Later, Danny will be a little animal to please the man she likes. One is worth it and the other is willing. It may not be reasonable now, but it was normal in that era in the book.
Boya may not really love Dany, at least not at first. He took his wife to Shanghai and hid Jiao Danny. He would write articles, study and even design clothes at Danny's residence every day, but he never mentioned that Danny was serious-marry me. Dany can't figure out why. The only thing she can figure out is that maybe he just regards himself as a plaything, instead of really saying that he wants to marry himself.
Lao Peng is different. I admit that most people may fall in love with a man like Boya at first, who is handsome, rich and knowledgeable, but in the end, a woman will wake up and fall in love with the man who reborn her and gave her the courage to face her soul, just like the relationship between a daughter and her father. On the red hill, Dany sat on the windy hill, gave up her bra, rolled up her hair and let the wind blow. She is thinking about the obstacle of "karma". She suddenly felt tall in the universe, but the world became smaller. I think of Boya, my mother, my poor little girl, my fate, so I feel that without desire, the world is so simple that what is right is right. It is right to help those who have suffered tragic fate because of the war. Money is not that important. The only important thing is to help those people with that money. Those people have lovely souls, but they have such a painful experience. She saw her soul, and she realized her awakening.
All this is because Lao Peng gave Cui Meiling a new life and became Dany with a soul. But Lao Peng is still a human being, and he still can't escape the "retribution" of evil forces. At first, Boya often went to see Lao Peng for a drink. They said nothing, and the wine went to a place with strong feelings. Two people cried silently. Tears for the times, in such an environment, I feel only helpless pain.
Lao Peng also unconsciously fell in love with Dany. When he impulsively said that he was the father of the child in Dany's belly, his heart had already stirred up waves. Who can not love a woman with such a pure soul? Plato's spiritual love, similar to faith, similar to hope, similar to drugs, is the pursuit and destination of mankind.
I always thought Boya might love Dany more than Cui Meiling. Meiling is beautiful and simple, snuggling up to her like an innocent girl. Maybe I love her body, but I can't be too hard on Boya. After all, not everyone can face their soul like Dany did later. Boya might love Dany more. Suddenly one day, Meiling is no longer Meiling. In addition to her beautiful face, Meiling also has such a precious soul, which is high enough for her to admire and admire, so later Dany became the belief of Boya.
The reason why there are such complicated emotions is that Boya didn't touch Dany's soul at first, and so did Dany. So I say that love is a feeling of walking on thin ice.
But I believe that love is alive, and so are women. Chatting with friends a long time ago, talking about cheating. He said that if a man cheats, he may not want to divorce, but he is also unwilling to break up with the cheating object because of rationality, but once a woman cheats, the marriage cannot be redeemed because of sensibility. Men and women think differently. Men's love is weak, while women's love is warm and simple. The difference between men and women determines that love is on thin ice. And some love can make people sleep, and some love can make people reborn.
This may be the case. In love, the body determines the beginning and the spirit determines how far it can go. At the end of the book, Boya's tomb and the mountain are close at hand. Dany chose the epitaph, and Lao Peng agreed. This is a famous Buddhist proverb and a universal biblical verse:
Giving one's life for a friend is the greatest love in the world.
Giving your life is also rebirth.