Correct mate selection criteria for girls

First, a man's personality is the first choice of a man's personality, which has a great influence on a girl's happiness; Men with bad conduct will naturally do things like eating, drinking, whoring and gambling; For a woman, surrendering her life must be a painful life; No matter whether a man has skill, ability, status and wealth, a woman will never do it as long as her conduct is not good; Otherwise the days of tears are waiting for you; A well-behaved man will not do anything that is sorry for women, family and society on the road of life and marriage; Therefore, when girls choose their partners, their personality must be put in the first place. Second, men's jobs should be stable. For any woman, it is necessary to think about marrying a man. She must walk happily with a man for a lifetime and move forward happily for a lifetime. All this requires men to have a stable source of income; Men's jobs are unstable, and their income is naturally unstable; With a job, you can eat chickens and ducks. When you have no job, you have to tighten your belt. Although men can accept such a life, women like a stable life; Therefore, if a man has a stable job, he can live a carefree life. Third, men's looks should be liked. In most cases, when women choose men, they will definitely look at men's looks more or less; However, there is no accurate conclusion about the appearance of men; So don't always think about looking for a handsome guy; For men's looks, as long as they look good, as long as they look good; As long as you don't feel disgusting when you look at it, then this appearance is the most suitable appearance; So there is no need to be too entangled in the looks and height of boys; As long as it is not ugly, as long as other conditions are suitable. Fourth, the man's family, many women want to marry a rich family, because they can enjoy wealth by marrying a rich family; But women don't think about what their family is like; Because the society is very realistic, there will be many problems if the two families are not right; Women should not only marry men, but also endure many grievances; Moreover, when the woman's parents visit the woman, they will definitely be looked down upon by the man's family; This is the saddest life, this is the behavior that women let their parents be trampled by others; Therefore, women should not be too selfish, and the gap with male families is too big. Don't even think about marrying a man. Fifth, men's ability, to have the potential to have a considerable number of women, will not consider at all, whether men have the ability, will there be a future; But to see what men have at the moment. This standard of mate selection for women is only a short-sighted behavior. Because some men have been living by their parents, have no skills and ability, and feel that their family is good, so women choose men; And this kind of man who depends on his parents will get into trouble one day; When a woman looks for a partner, she must look at this man, what he is doing now, what he is doing, and whether there is a future; Do men have dreams? Do they work hard? Finding a potential man is the most correct criterion for a woman to choose a spouse. Sixth, a man's responsibility must be responsible. In life, some men only think about themselves and don't consider others at all; Have no sense of responsibility for anything; Therefore, such a man is a man without responsibility, that is, a man without responsibility; This kind of man, as long as a woman finds it, must be a woman who has kept a man for a lifetime; Because men don't care about anything, they just muddle along; Therefore, when choosing a man, a woman must find a responsible man; Even if the immediate conditions are not good, a man who is willing to take all the responsibilities and work hard. Seven, men's material needs are enough to eat, wear and live. When it comes to marriage, men have nothing, which will only make women and men suffer together; However, women with men don't need much money; But men should also have a certain material foundation; Men don't need much material foundation, just enough food, clothing, housing and transportation; Because it means that women and men will not worry about rice, oil and salt after being together; And if a man marries with nothing, it is doomed that a woman and a man can't be happy together; Because from the beginning, we have to face the livelihood problem. This is a marriage that no woman wants. The correct criteria for girls to choose a spouse II. Conditions of mate selection for smart girls 1. Finding a kind, simple and pure man is a more reliable person in this world. In order to achieve this goal, they can be desperate, can't be bought, can't be bullied, don't want money, don't want women, and even don't want power and reputation. In their world, there is only one goal and firm determination and will. Such a man will be more focused and determined when he falls in love with someone. At the same time, most of such men are kind and simple by nature. They despise lying and will not be cold and violent. Men are not bad in quality and kind in heart. These two points are enough to show that he is not a bad person. Life is like this, so will love. Some men are full of sweet words and lies. Such people must stay away. A liar will never change easily because of your so-called love. 2. Men who can recognize themselves and have opinions are more reliable. A timid man in life can't live a good life together without his own knowledge and experience. No one can chew his ear, and a few words may affect his decision. Such a life is a failure. How can you rely on him without a definite view, and how can you trust him wholeheartedly? A man who can stick to his own opinions, no matter what happens, can support the whole family, help you make decisions, give you a shoulder to lean on and a warm nest. 3. Taste refers to a person's quality, interest, sentiment and cultivation. A person's taste clearly shows his aesthetic quality. Men who can talk, talk, be polite, dress up and have high moral character are hot items. And this can be clearly shown in the process of getting along with each other! Smart girls always weigh in many ways when choosing their other half! 4, many people in the economy will often vomit who is a gold digger, who is a snob, who is greedy for money and so on! There is no denying that there are many gold diggers, but there are also many good girls! Such a good girl doesn't care about money when choosing the other half? When two people get married, they have to have their own home and support their children, which are all based on material things. Second, the woman's correct concept of mate selection 1, avoiding impulsive decisions, thinking that everything in TA is the best when she loves you, and she can't wait to leave the established relationship and accompany me every second. A woman who loses her mind will feel like a year at this stage, and it is easy to make impulsive decisions and make absurd moves under the sweet words of the other party. No matter how good the relationship is, it needs to be tested and run-in. We haven't really understood each other's personalities and habits. What if one day we give up on ourselves too early and find a problem? Hasty behavior will always deepen your familiarity, and then your passion will gradually emerge. Whether it's you or him, and after a long time, he doesn't pay so much attention to you, and then all the hidden habits and faults are revealed one by one. So, will you regret burning your bridges? 2. Don't let your economic adventures get along with people easily, and you will inevitably come into contact with money. Sometimes it is difficult to determine the relationship involved. Being too stingy is easy to be considered stingy to guard against lovers, and being too reckless is easy to make people and money empty. Many such women in the news only found out after lending money to each other that it was just a scam to cheat money and color. Of course, it is not that all men are liars, but there may be situations and there may be female liars. It turns out that it is just a love stage. No matter how congenial you are when you say something, no matter how affectionate you are, you'd better be able to distinguish money. This thing of money can only be separated from each other. Don't shield and ignore some minor faults in his details. Although it is said that no one is perfect, we should tolerate the shortcomings of others, but tolerance does not mean connivance and neglect. When the other party has unconsciously shown some bad behavior signals, we must pay attention to be vigilant. Don't be unaware of him at this moment because he likes to watch him all over his body, drinking, gambling, being ambiguous and swearing. These potential problems will be reflected with the deepening of contact. If you choose to appreciate and tolerate at this moment, make sure that you can treat these as handsome performances all your life, otherwise you will be full of contradictions in the future, and he will disdainfully think that you were fine at that time, and it is really troublesome to dislike things now. 4. Avoid people with too different values. Everyone will have their own living habits and a set of survival criteria. Some people think that safety is better than less, while others think that it is only fair to make the incident clear. It doesn't seem to be a problem When we really get together, there will be contradictions and disputes. You think he is weak, and he thinks you are too much. Just like faith, there is no problem between a natural Buddhist and a god, but the gods in their hearts are different. They will involuntarily want to obey each other before they can finally get along, which is bound to be uncomfortable. His attitude towards his mother is his attitude towards you in the future. My mother is the first woman a man touches, and she is also the most familiar and close opposite sex. When he yells at his mother in various contemptuous tones, don't think it is a state of loving and favoring his daughter-in-law. It is also possible that he only has his most important point of view in mind, and other people who love themselves are taken for granted. A person's words and deeds represent the cultivation of his inner world. Don't think that his attitude towards others has nothing to do with himself. His attitude towards people is his attitude towards you in the future, and now it is only a temporary cover-up of the passionate period. I don't care about your inner feelings. Sometimes women are really troublesome. She is easy to be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, and is easy to be overly nervous about things she cares about. When she is depressed, not only is there no intimate greeting, but there is disdain and boredom on her face. Then imagine whether she will get worse when she gets old. Human nature, husband and wife become relatives, there must be a little bit of randomness, then the initial disdain must be a tragedy for each other.