Let me explain these four sentences to you.
1, the phoenix full of wisdom flies high from the birds. 2. Tall buttonwood trees and green bamboo forests are the places where it lives. 3, but you can't leave the group or appreciate yourself because you are superior. You should keep a low profile, be kind to people, and often help people who are not as good as you. In this way, you will be welcomed wherever you go. Everywhere, everyone gets your help and owes you a favor, and you will feel that every day is brand new.
You see, this has nothing to do with the health of your family. Please think deeply. The above is just my own opinion, for reference only, I hope I can help you.