A veteran like Lian Po thinks he is invincible and invincible. Lin Xiangru is just a weak scholar, but he is more powerful than other officials. He was very dissatisfied with this and said to people many times, "If I see him in the future, I must humiliate him."
Lin Xiangru knew that after the incident, he put national affairs first, so he called in sick and did not go to court. He tried not to see him. Later, Lian Po learned that Lin Xiangru's move was entirely on the grounds of state affairs, and offered a humble apology to Lin Xiangru. The latter two joined forces and began to try their best to help Wang Zhao govern the country.
2. Guo Ziyi and Li Guangbi are typical representatives. During the reign of Emperor Xuanzong of the Tang Dynasty, Guo Ziyi and Li Guangbi were both subordinates of the Northern Dynasty, and there were contradictions between them. They don't usually talk much. Later, when An Lushan rebelled and Guo Ziyi was promoted to Beiyang Party, the troops resisted. Li Guangbi became the ministry of Guo Ziyi.
The emperor ordered Guo Ziyi to lead troops to fight, and Li Guangbi was worried that Guo Ziyi would use his power to seek revenge. Li Guangbi crustily skin of head to Guo Ziyi said, "it's my fault, I offended you in the past. No matter what I do in the future, I have no complaints. I just hope my wife and children will survive.
Before Li Guangbi's words were finished, Guo Ziyi hugged Li Guangbi tightly and said with tears in his eyes: National crisis and people's suffering need talents like you. At this point, how can you care about personal grievances? Since then, Li Guo has worked hand in hand with the generals and made great contributions to pacifying the Anshi Rebellion.
Boya is good at playing the piano, while Zhong Ziqi is good at listening. When Boya plays the piano, he thinks of mountains in his mind. Zhong Ziqi said, "Good! Just like the towering Mount Tai stands in front of me! " Thinking of running water in his heart, Zhong Ziqi said, "Well, this piano sound is like a running river, flowing through my heart!" No matter what Boya thinks when playing the piano, Zhong Ziqi can accurately express his thoughts.
After Zhong Ziqi's death, Boya thought that there would never be a bosom friend in the world again, so he broke his favorite piano and never played it again.
4. Give up your life.
During the Warring States Period, Zuo He met and went to the State of Chu together. On the way, they met with heavy snow. At that time, they were wearing thin clothes and didn't have enough food.
Zuo gave all his clothes and food to make friends, and hid himself in an empty tree and committed suicide. Later generations called this intimate friend with profound friendship "Zuo Yang".
5. Best friend who never looks back
During the Warring States Period, the philosopher Zhuangzi talked about Zi Si, Zi Xing, Gigi Lai and Zi Lai, and said, "Governing by doing nothing, being the backbone of something, being a friend when you die, knowing life and death as one." The four of them smiled at each other and felt that they were rebellious and became good friends with each other.
2. Seek the story of two ancient friendships. Yu Boya broke the piano and thanked her bosom friend.
Lang said Bao was once divided, but who can tell Qin apart?
In today's interaction, treacherous as a ghost, my heart is all hanging in the air.
In ancient times, friendship was the deepest, unlike Guan Bao. Guan Yiwu is in charge, and the bag is the bag. They are all businessmen. They share the profits equally. When Wu got more benefits, his uncle didn't think he was greedy, but he knew he was poor. Later, when Wu went to prison, his uncle took it off and recommended it as Qi Xiang. Such a friend is a true friend. There are several names for knowing each other: those who are bound by kindness are called bosom friends; Those who are close to each other are called close; Those who seek each other's voice and spirit are called bosom friends, and they will always be called bosom friends. Today, I'm going to tell a story about Yu Boya. Ladies and gentlemen, listen; Don't listen, suit yourself. To be exact:
Speaking to your bosom friend doesn't mean that your bosom friend doesn't talk.
David and Jonathan
During the Spring and Autumn Period, Guan Zhong and Bao Shuya of Qi were good friends, but they went their separate ways. Bao's son Xiao Baiwei was appointed as, but Bao recommended Guan Zhong, who was willing to live under him. With the help of Guan Zhong, Qi became stronger and stronger, and finally became the overlord of "the Lord of nine kings, conquering the world by one person". After the success, Guan Zhong said with great emotion: "My parents gave birth to me, and the steamed stuffed bun knows me."
New edition of world stories
In the Eastern Han Dynasty, Guan Ning and Hua Xin were old friends. One day, when they were weeding in the garden, they found a piece of gold in the field. Ning Guan regarded gold as a tile, lingering away, and Hua Xin picked it up and put it aside. Once again, two people were reading at the same table, and some dignitaries passed by by by car. Guan Ning was not disturbed, but Huaxin went out to read as usual, envious. Guan Ning and Hua Xin know each other, but they are not really like-minded friends. Then cut the seats and sit separately. Since then, I have never been friends with Hua Xin.
Friends are more important than champions.
Bai Minzhong, a politician and writer in the Tang Dynasty, and He Ba, who was free and easy, were very good friends, and they went to Beijing together to catch the exam. At that time, the examiner appreciated Bai Minzhong's talent and wanted to take him as the top scholar, but he was not satisfied with his communication with him. So I sent a letter to Bai Minzhong. Bai Minzhong wanted to be admitted, so he refused He's letter, but regretted it afterwards. He ran out to chase He and told him about it, and then said, "What's the big deal about being the top scholar? Is it more important than friends? " Two people to drink, Wang Qi know, accepted the invitation together.
True and false friends
Su Jun, a scholar in the Ming Dynasty, distinguished between true friends and false friends in The Story of the Qiaojia Couple. He pointed out that such a friend is a "phobia" that can live and die together in daily life or in an emergency. Such a friend can be called a close friend; Friends who cater to people with sweet words and talk about friendship with beer and skittles are "intimate friends"; Those who compete for each other's interests and struggle with each other when disasters come are "thief friends." "
3. About the friendship story of the ancients, the story content "The Turn of the Sheep and the Left" During the Spring and Autumn Period, King Chu Yuan recruited wise men.
There is a scholar named Zuo in Jishishan, Xiqiang. His parents died when he was a child, and he made a living alone. I can't stop reading in my spare time.
I heard that King Chu Yuan recruited wise men, so he took a bag of books, bid farewell to his neighbors and relatives, and went all the way to Chu. In Yongzhou, it was already the middle of winter, raining and snowing.
Zuo braved the rain and snow and walked in the wind all day, and his clothes were soaked. Look at the sky. He wants to find a place to live. I saw a faint light in the bamboo forest in the distance, so I went straight away.
When I arrived, I saw a low fence surrounded by a hut. So, he pushed open the gate and gently knocked on the door.
The people inside responded. Zuo hurried forward to salute and said, "I was originally from Xiqiang. My last name is Zuo.
I want to go to Chu, but I met with rain and snow on the way and couldn't find a place to stay. I want to invite you to stay for one night and leave tomorrow morning. I wonder if it is convenient for you? "Hearing this, the man quickly reciprocated and invited Tao Bo into the house.
When Tao Bo looked in, there was only one bed in the room. There are some books on the bed, but nothing else.
Tao Bo knows that he is also a scholar, so he wants to give a big gift. The man said, "Now is not the time to talk about manners. Let's dry the clothes first. " So he lit a pile of bamboo and asked Tao Bo to dry clothes. The man prepared wine and rice to entertain Tao Bo, which was very thoughtful.
Please tell me Tao Bo's name. The man said, "My name is Yang and my name is Jiao Ai. My parents died when I was a child, and I live here alone. I usually love reading until the fields are deserted.
Today, I was lucky enough to meet a learned man, who only hated being poor at home and had nothing to entertain. Please forgive me. "Tao Bo said," in rainy days, you have to be fooled, and you have to entertain each other with wine and food. How can you forget your gratitude? "
That night, the two of them fell asleep and discussed the knowledge in their chests until dawn, but when it was still raining outside, Jiao Ai stayed at home and entertained them as much as he could, and they became half-brothers. Tao Bo is five years older than Jiao Ai, so Jiao Ai is called Tao Bo's brother.
If you stay for three days, the rain will stop and the road will dry up. Tao Bo said: "It's a pity that Xiandi is knowledgeable and talented in Wang Zuo, but he is hidden between the mountains and Lin Qingquan."
Jiao Ai said: "It's not that I want to stay in the countryside, but there are not many opportunities." Tao Bo said, "Now the King of Chu is open-minded and seeks the virtuous. Why don't you let him go, my dear brother? " Jiao Ai said, "I am willing to obey my brother's orders."
So he prepared some travel expenses, food and rice, gave up the hut, and they walked to the south together. After less than two days' walk, it was rainy and I was trapped in the hotel. I ran out of money, leaving only a bag of dry food. The two of them took turns carrying their backs and walking in the rain.
Before the rain stopped, the wind came again, turning into heavy snow all over the sky, covering the earth, and it was impossible to tell the difference between east, west, north and south. They walked through Qiyang and Liangshan Road and asked the woodcutter for directions. They all said, "There is no one in front of you for a hundred miles. It's all a desert in the mountains. There are tigers and wolves in the group, and we can't go any further. "
Tao Bo said to Diagon Mourn, "What do you think, my dear brother?" Jiao Ai said, "As the ancients said, there is a destiny between life and death. Since I am here, I can only move forward and never regret it. "
I walked for another day and lived in an ancient tomb at night. The clothes are thin and the wind is biting.
The next day, the snow was even heavier, and the snow on the mountain road was more than a foot thick. Tao Bo was so cold that he couldn't stand it. He said, "I don't think there is anything to eat, wear or eat for more than a hundred miles."
If you go alone, you can reach Chu; If both of them go, even if they don't freeze to death, they will certainly starve to death in the middle and rot with the vegetation. What are the benefits? I undressed my brother, who was walking with dry food on his back. I really can't walk. I'd rather die here. When my good brother meets the king of Chu, he will be valued, and it's not too late to bury me. "
Jiao Ai said, "How can this be true? Although we are not brothers, we are as loyal as our own flesh and blood. How can I seek fame alone? " Say nothing, just hold the peach.
After walking less than ten miles, Tao Bo said, "The snow is getting heavier and heavier. How can we get there? " ? Find a place to rest by the roadside. "There is a withered mulberry tree on the roadside, which can also block the snow.
There was only room for one person under the mulberry tree, so Jiao Ai helped Tao Bo to go in and sit down. Tao Bo let the horns wail on the stone to make a fire and burn some dead branches to keep out the cold.
When Jiao Ai was looking for firewood, I saw Tao Bo take off all his coats and put them aside. Jiao Ai was surprised: "Brother, what are you doing?" Tao Bo said, "I can't think of any way, dear brother. Don't delay.
Put on this dress quickly, carry dry food on your back and go. I am willing to die here. Jiao Ai held Botao in her arms and burst into tears, saying, "I was born and died together. How can we separate? " Tao Bo said, "If everyone dies of hunger, who will bury them? Jiao Ai said, "In that case, I'd rather take off my clothes and put them on my brother. My brother can take dry food with him. I would rather die here. "
Tao Bo said: "I have been ill all my life. My good brother is young and strong, much stronger than me, and my knowledge can't catch up with him." If you see the king of Chu, you will be highly valued.
How could I die? Dear brother, don't delay. Let's leave now. Jiao Ai said, "My brother is starving here, and I want to become famous alone. I won't be such an unjust person. "
Tao Bo said, "I came to my brother's house from Jishishan and hit it off at once. Knowing that my good brother is ambitious, I advise you to make progress.
Unfortunately, I was blocked by snow, which is my destiny. If my brother dies here, it's my fault. "Say that finish, just want to jump into the front of the mountain stream to die.
Jiao Ai hugged him and wept bitterly. He wrapped his clothes around Botao and helped him under the mulberry tree. Tao Bo pushed the clothes away.
When Jiao Ai wanted to go further, he saw that Tao Bo's face had changed, his limbs were stiff and he could not speak. He reluctantly waved to Jiao Ai to leave. When Tao Bo was dying, Jiao Ai once again supported her with clothes.
Jiao Aixin thought, "I will freeze to death soon. Who will bury my brother when he dies? " So he cried and worshipped in the snow: "I don't want Di Xiao to go here, but I hope my brother can help me in the dark. If I am a little famous, I will come to the funeral. " "Peach nodded slightly, he breathed his last in a flash.
Jiao Ai had to take clothes and dry food and turn back step by step, crying and walking. Jiao Ai endured the cold, half hungry and half full, and came to Chu State to have a rest outside the city for a day.
When I went to town the next day, I asked a man, "Where can I recruit talents in Chu Jun?" The man said, "There is a hotel outside the palace gate, where Dr. Peizhong specially receives people of insight in the world." When the doctor Pei Zhonggang was about to get off the bus, Jiao Ai went straight to the hotel.
Jiao Ai saluted before he fell in love. Pei Zhong saw Jiao Ai in rags, but he was very handsome. He quickly returned the gift. "Xian asked.
4. The story of ancient people's friendship, a short idiom: Metaphorically, Guan Zhong and Bao, friends with deep relationships, are good friends. When they do business together, they always make more money, and then they fight together. Guan Zhong always hides in the back. Others say that Guan Zhong is not good in front of Bao, but Bao says: You misunderstand, he is not afraid of death, but because his mother needs someone to take care of her at home, and he pays more to wait on her. Guan Zhong and Bao respectively served a son of Qi. In the process of competing for the throne, Bao's son won. Want to worship Bao, Bao said: If you just want to keep the throne and live a mediocre life, you must use me enough. If you want to succeed, you must be Guan Zhong. "Later, Xiaobai worshiped Guan Zhong and became one with the world. Fan Zhongyan advocated reform in the Northern Song Dynasty.
When Fan Zhongyan packed his bags and left Beijing, some officials who were close to him on weekdays, fearing to be described as cronies, withdrew one after another. An official named Wang Zhi didn't. He is ill at home. After hearing the news, he immediately went to the hospital and swaggered Fan Zhongyan out of the city gate.
In that feudal society where one person committed a crime and implicated nine clans, compared with those who forgot their righteousness for profit, it was really commendable that Wang Zhi could treat his friends sincerely regardless of personal interests and losses. For Fan Zhongyan, it is very clear at this moment who is a true friend and who is a false friend.
During the Warring States Period, there was a man named Yu Boya who played the piano very well. One day, while he was playing the piano in the deep forest, a woodcutter named Zhong Ziqi came over. As soon as Yu Boya played the piano, Zhong Ziqi said, "I am as tall as Mount Tai." Yu Boya was surprised because he tried to show the mountains in his heart, so he was recognized. Yu Boya thought, I will change the theme, and I will show the flowing water. See if you can still hear me. He also said, "Yangyang is like a river." No matter what Yu Boya plays, Zhong Ziqi can recognize the content of the music. So they became good friends and bosom friends. However, shortly after Zhong Ziqi's death, Yu Boya broke his piano and vowed never to play again. This story later formed the idiom "Mountain Flowing Water". The word "bosom friend" is a common word in daily life. At the turn of life and death, the poet Zheng Shaogu and Geoffrey were thousands of miles apart, but they never met, but they admired each other and gave a reply. Zheng Shaogu once praised Geoffrey in a poem: "When Geoffrey comments on a poem, it will be like a spring breeze." Later, Zheng Shaogu praised Geoffrey. . .
5. Kneel down ~ The story about the friendship of the ancients flows like a mountain and river.
During the Warring States Period, there was a man named Yu Boya who played the piano very well. One day, while he was playing the piano in the deep forest, a woodcutter named Zhong Ziqi came over. As soon as Yu Boya played the piano, Zhong Ziqi said, "I'm as clumsy as Mount Tai." Yu Boya was surprised because he tried to show the mountain in his heart and he was recognized. Yu Boya thought: I will change the theme, and I will show water. See if you can still hear me. Who knows, Zhong Ziqi said, "The ocean is like a river." No matter what Yu Boya plays, Zhong Ziqi can hear music. So they became good friends and bosom friends. However, it was not long before Zhong Ziqi died. When Yu Boya lost his bosom friend and was extremely sad, he broke his piano and vowed never to play again. This story later formed the idiom "high mountains and flowing water" and a common word in daily life, "bosom friend".
Friends who are ready to die for each other
Poets Zheng Shaogu and Geoffrey are thousands of miles apart. They have never met before, but they admire each other and give answers. Zheng Shaogu once wrote a poem praising Geoffrey: "Talking about Geoffrey at sea, the spring breeze sits all over Lu Zhu Sheng." It means: when commenting on poetry, even Confucius' disciples in Shandong will listen, just like the same.
Later, Zheng Shaogu passed away, and Geoffrey was shocked by the bad news. He was very sad. He rushed to Fujian to deal with the funeral and comfort his relatives.
Bai Yuan's affectionate style.
As the saying goes, "Literati despise each other", but in the literary world of the Tang Dynasty, two literati left a lot of stories for future generations. They are Bai Juyi and Yuan Zhen. The friendship between two people was established in adversity.
In the first month of the tenth year of Yuanhe, Bai Juyi and Yuan Zhen reunited in Chang 'an after a long separation, and they often talked about big orders and recited poems for peace. But not long after, Yuan Zhen angered eunuchs and dignitaries because of his outspoken advice, and was demoted to Tongzhou Sima in March of that year.
In August of the same year, Bai Juyi was jealous that Li Shidao, a warlord in the buffer region, colluded with eunuchs to murder Prime Minister Wu. Xianzong listened to slanders and was demoted to Jiangzhou (now Jiujiang, Jiangxi) Sima.
Two good friends actually fell into the same fate of being demoted. Bai Juyi left Chang 'an in the bleak autumn wind, taking the road that Yuan Zhen walked not long ago. The poet is full of melancholy, looking for the ink left by his friends along the way. One day, he went to Lanqiaoyi, a midway station from Chang 'an to Hubei, Henan. As soon as I got off the horse, I found a quatrain of "Returning to the West" written by Yuan Zhen when he passed here in the first month. The poet had mixed feelings and wrote a quatrain:
Blue Bridge Chun Xue Jun returns to Japan, Qinling West Wind I go.
Get off the horse at each post and follow the wall around the post to find your poem.
Leaving the Blue Bridge Inn and passing through Shangzhou and Xiangyang, the poet set off from Hanshui by boat. On the boat, poets often recite the poems of their good friend Yuan Zhen repeatedly to comfort their loneliness until their eyes ache. Write a poem like this on the road:
Read your poem in front of the lamp, the lamp goes out, and the sky is not bright.
When your eyes are sore, the lights are still sitting in the dark and the waves are beating against the wind.
Yuan Zhen was shocked to hear that Bai Juyi was demoted to Jiujiang, Tongzhou. Regardless of his serious illness in bed, he wrote a letter to Bai Juyi and wrote a poem "Wen Lotte awarded Jiangzhou Sima":
The residual lamp has no flame shadow. I heard that you have fallen into Jiujiang this evening.
Sitting up in a dying illness, the dark wind blew the rain into the cold window.
Soon, Bai Juyi received this poem and was deeply moved by the concern of his friends. In his letter to Yuan Zhen, he wrote: "The poem Dying will make irrelevant people feel moved when they read it, not to mention me. Every time I see it now, my heart is still unbearable. "
As soon as Yuan Zhen received the letter, he knew it was written by Bai Juyi. Before he opened it, his eyes blurred. His daughter was so scared that she began to cry, and his wife asked what was going on. Yuan Zhen told them that he seldom felt so emotional, except when he received a letter from Bai Juyi. Therefore, Yuan Zhen sent poems to Bai Juyi:
Dele Tianshu
Far letter begins with tears, and the wife is surprised and the daughter cries and asks what it is.
Abnormal coma, it should be Jiangzhou Sima Shu.
On one occasion, Yuan Zhen received a poem from an old friend, which wrote:
In the morning, the breeze is melancholy, and Tongchuan is without water.
I don't know why I dreamed of you last night.
Good friends are so affectionate to themselves that they meet themselves in their dreams. I think about him every day, dream at night and think about him all day. Why can't I dream of it? Yuan Zhen was very upset, thinking that he was probably infected with malaria when he came to Tongzhou, and he has not recovered yet, and his thoughts are confused. So I also wrote a poem "Reward Lotte with Frequency and Dreams":
Thousands of mountains and rivers have broken letters, and I received a poem from you today. It's rare that you love me and ask me in your dreams.
Today, I am in a daze because of illness, but I dream of idlers instead of gentlemen.
The fate of sharing weal and woe closely linked Bai Juyi and Yuan Zhen. They have forged a deep friendship all their lives, and the world calls them "Bai Yuan".
"Guan Bao" refers to Guan Zhong, a famous politician in the Spring and Autumn Period, and his friend Bao. Guan Zhong had business dealings with Bao when he was young. After making money, Bao knew that Guan Zhong's family was poor and always gave him more. He never thought Guan Zhong was greedy. Guan Zhong does things for Bao, but he doesn't always do everything well. Bao doesn't think Guan Zhong is stupid, but he understands that this is limited by objective conditions. Guan Zhong became an official and was fired three times. Bao knows that this is not Guan Zhong's bad character, nor his bad work, but his timing and luck ... Guan Zhong sighed deeply: "My parents gave birth to me, and Bao Shu knows me!" Bao Shu Ya later recommended Guan Zhong as the minister of Qi, and helped vigorously carry out the reform, making Qi the first overlord in the Spring and Autumn Period. Nowadays, people often describe this friendship as "friendship with Bao".
6. What are the stories about friendship in ancient times? Yu Boya and Zhong Ziqi are a pair of good friends who have been sung for a long time.
Boya is good at playing, while Zhong Ziqi is good at appreciating. This is the origin of the word "confidant".
After Zhong Ziqi's death, Boya was deeply saddened, thinking that there was no confidant in the world, and no one in the world could understand the artistic conception of his performance like Zhong Ziqi. So I broke my favorite piano and never played it again.
There is a story in Shao's Lu Wenjian: Wen Yanbo was very unhappy when he heard that the doctor was arrogant. He said to people, "Ji Li's father was my disciple, and he should be my junior according to his seniority. I have to teach him a lesson because he is too arrogant. " On one occasion, Wen Yanbo was stationed in Beijing. When Ji Li heard about it, he came to visit. Wen Yanbo said, "Your father is my friend. Please worship me eight times." Due to his junior qualifications, Ji Li dared not expect anything, so he had to make eight obeisances to Wen Yanbo. As an elder, Wen Yanbo lost the pride of Ji Li. The idiom "Eight Worship Friends" came into being. In ancient times, friendship was as deep as that of Guan Bao. Guan Yiwu and Bao are two of them. Those who are close to each other are called close; Those who seek each other's voice and spirit are called bosom friends, and they will always be called bosom friends.