What does a girl mean when she says she wants me to be like a star, a king and the moon?

This poem, written by Fan Chengda, a poet in the Southern Song Dynasty, describes a woman's longing for a wandering man. I wish I were the star in the sky, and you are the bright moon in the sky. Let our light accompany us forever.

These two verses can be regarded as confession sentences. Generally, girls say that these two verses mean that they can stay with their lovers for a long time and show their joyful expectations.

Attention: First, intimacy can only be understood clearly if you see through everything about each other, especially about their shortcomings. The longer the time, the more unacceptable it will be, and perhaps even the initial goodwill will be exhausted.

Second, everyone is an independent individual, which determines a suitable distance to get along with. Once you cross the line, it will inevitably cause a lot of trouble. The original good feeling will gradually lose excitement and happiness in eager communication.

Third, it is easy to have fun at first sight, but it is too difficult to stay for a long time. Time can't talk, but it will answer all the questions. On the horizontal axis of time, many problems will surface one by one.

The so-called long-term tolerance and accommodation, just because there is a certain appropriate limit, can always carry it clearly and maintain a sense of boundaries. Without this self-discipline, any feelings will become very fragile.